give up?
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There was a guy who wanted to know me at my workplace. I didnt say anything so nothing happened and now we kept a distance.. now i realised i'm getting interested in him...and found out hes like 1 year younger than me..what do u think i should do?
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You have just answered this question.Like you mentioned: you're getting interested.Somehow i felt that you would have gone ahead with it anyway and you just wanted some affirmation from the forumites.So i nod my head in approval and say why not? It doesn't hurt,especially since he had initiated a friendship with you earlier on.
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yah i agree totalliOriginally posted by Sweet_vengeance:You have just answered this question.Like you mentioned: you're getting interested.Somehow i felt that you would have gone ahead with it anyway and you just wanted some affirmation from the forumites.So i nod my head in approval and say why not? It doesn't hurt,especially since he had initiated a friendship with you earlier on.
hu a damn bout age??
moreover its onli 1 yr -
Originally posted by baBy^JIa:
yah i agree totalli
hu a damn bout age??
moreover its onli 1 yr
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I think you will accept him in the end. Yes, age isn't a factor and it's only one year. But, just a gentle reminder... don't regret.
I was a victim, she regretted. So think thoroughly and don't leave the guy in pain.
Best of luck.
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hey...the problem is we kept a distance..we arent talking......i dont dare to make the move in case he ignored me....i act dao....
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[/B][/QUOTE]Originally posted by Sunshine08:errrr
hey...the problem is we kept a distance..we arent talking......i dont dare to make the move in case he ignored me....i act dao....
But the thing is you DO have a CHOICE now don't you....? And you CHOSE to be DAO?
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go for it~!
u like him... and i think... his interest in u hasn't die off yet. -
well..u're afraid of rejection , that's normal..but think about it, he was sort of rejected by you b4 too right? so he's keeping a distance cuz he thought u aren't interested.
since u r now, probably you should just make the 1st move...if u just sit there and wait, he won't come..cuz once bitten,twice shy..
if u like him and want him, i say, go for it ~ there's always a risk of rejection but at least u tried!
all the best! update us ~~
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new update guys..
i tell him to to contact me if he wants.....
he did sms me..but hardly sms much! always sms stops..after 1 or 2 msgs...does tat means hes not tat interested afterall? he msg me gdnite thou...not everyday -
Then u have to chase him liaoz...come on...the era in which gals are passive receviers of male courting and romance is over
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seduce him lah..everyday wear short short mini skirts go work..
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Hi sunshine,
It's nice to hear that there are someone who wishes to know you, we all come to a point when we are attracted to the opposite sex. But it appears that no much information is given, and you aren't really sure whether is he really interested in knowing you better or just remain as a friend.
I would advise that you think of the whole situation as just normal friend, in order not to give you false hopes or wild assumptions. Remain contact with him, and lead your normal life as well. Stay as friends first, he may just be physically attracted to you or a crush only. I'm not saying that you ain't worth his attention or love, afterall you did attract his attention in the first place.
If you aren't sure, go out with friends or colleagues and invite him along. Take notice of his response and reaction if you must. It's always this little thingy, "he/she is trying to know me", "he/she keen to get close to me" that we tends to develop the same feeling for that person, esp if you are single at the moment. Take his intention as a compliment and stay in touch as a friend. Get to know him better, and let him know you better too. From there, you will know whether both of you have a chance to take one step further.
By the way, age shouldn't be a problem. The main reason, though not directly, why we consider age as a factor is because of the mental side, whether the person is matured enough, so on and so forth. If he is sensible, responsible and matured enough, don't let age comes between you and him. I know of a friend's auntie whose husband is 10 years younger than her. But they are happily married and have 2 lovely kids...and they met in their workplace too!
Just be natural and you will know in time. Cheers