Wat shld I do???
-
Me & my bf stead almost a yr...we all have been really loving. But recently he started talking to my enemy a lot. He noe tat I really hate this girl alot coz she likes to flirt with guy. But my stead continue to talk & jokes with her. I admit that I'm jealous of it...wat shld i do? I have oreadi told my bf that I dun like him toking to my enemy. He also promised me that he won't talk to her again....but he broke his promise.
-
I understand that you still at quite a relatively younger age and such things would tends to bother you more... How old is your bf?Originally posted by huI:Me & my bf stead almost a yr...we all have been really loving. But recently he started talking to my enemy a lot. He noe tat I really hate this girl alot coz she likes to flirt with guy. But my stead continue to talk & jokes with her. I admit that I'm jealous of it...wat shld i do? I have oreadi told my bf that I dun like him toking to my enemy. He also promised me that he won't talk to her again....but he broke his promise.
Personally speaking, it's actually nothing much to just talk and joke with someone... But of course, if you really don't like someone you naturally won't feel too good about it if the person can really talk and get along with your bf... Perhaps it's also a sense of insecurity...
It's not really wise to interfere too much of the friend-making of your bf unless something is really not right... Doing so might only tense up your relationship a bit if it's gonna happen... Perhaps you can just gives a gentle remind again to your bf that you're not quite comfortable with the idea... On the other hand, do give your bf that little space and confidence that he deserves... It'll probably go a long way if your relationship is meant to be a meaningful one...
-
Originally posted by huI:
The way u express yourself, I think u are still young and still at a tender stage of life. Well, wat can u do...?
Me & my bf stead almost a yr...we all have been really loving. But recently he started talking to my [b]enemy a lot. He noe tat I really hate this girl alot coz she likes to flirt with guy. But my stead continue to talk & jokes with her. I admit that I'm jealous of it...wat shld i do? I have oreadi told my bf that I dun like him toking to my enemy. He also promised me that he won't talk to her again....but he broke his promise. [/b]
1) Give him a stern warning and it's the last time u giving him chance as there is no way for u too even torture your bf and your enemy casual chit chatting/interaction/flirt etc.
2) Dump him, go find someone who also hate the girl.
3) Dump him and concentrate on studies, u will know wat is life all actually abt and will understand more of yourself in the later part of your life. Meaning u will know which type of guy suit u the most...
-
i'm not really sure what's going on but the word that hits me is "enemy"...
that's a very strong word...
how deep is this enmity? -
Dun make enemies la.. make frens la... if not break with ur bf..
[/img] -
Young ppl... haiz......Originally posted by huI:Me & my bf stead almost a yr...we all have been really loving. But recently he started talking to my enemy a lot. He noe tat I really hate this girl alot coz she likes to flirt with guy. But my stead continue to talk & jokes with her. I admit that I'm jealous of it...wat shld i do? I have oreadi told my bf that I dun like him toking to my enemy. He also promised me that he won't talk to her again....but he broke his promise. -
Originally posted by loneryu00:Young ppl... haiz......
I can't help it. 
-
oh come on! we're all young once b4!Originally posted by Parka: I can't help it. 