thats like very true, well-said.Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:inspired by mr CALLAN's recent topic.....
how do u know that the person u like only think of u as a 'normal friend'?
in other words, he/she has made up their mind on u (that u can only be a normal friend) after u failed to live up to their expectations in the dating/courting process.
i'm not experiencing it now though experienced it b4 without even knowing it sometimes. and a few of my friends also meet such situations which is very hard to say.
In love, nothing is absolute.Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:inspired by mr CALLAN's recent topic.....
how do u know that the person u like only think of u as a 'normal friend'?
in other words, he/she has made up their mind on u (that u can only be a normal friend) after u failed to live up to their expectations in the dating/courting process.
i'm not experiencing it now though experienced it b4 without even knowing it sometimes. and a few of my friends also meet such situations which is very hard to say.
Hmm....i feel that most girls won't really express their liking to a guy so openly or obviously, instead, they might drop some hints like asking you out, showing concern for you everyday....thus its actually quite difficult to know whether a girl likes you. But of course, nothing is absolute in this world unless you're a GOD or someone with exceptional powers. So i think the best is to ask at the correct time when u can feel that you're close enough with her. Unless that girl's character is somewhat on the "open" side, if not i think girls will usually wait for a guy to take action first.Originally posted by Yunhaier:In love, nothing is absolute.
How you may ask; I always do it the CloUdiSm style - Until when she express her liking, she will always consider you as a normal friend. (This is a theory assumption for all cases.) Never assume. Assumption kills. At least when you know the answer from the lead actress/actor herself/himself, your answer is definite.
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Agreed!Originally posted by Yunhaier:Never assume. Assumption kills. At least when you know the answer from the lead actress/actor herself/himself, your answer is definite.
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