wat would u do if.......

• H-Profile

  10 Jun 03, 19:52

  Guys..need ur opinions.
  Wat would u do if u know that there are guys chasing after ur gf?
  would u ignore them and pretend nothing has happened or would u want ur gf to avoid them?
  
  cos like i found out that there's this guy who's like smsing and trying to go after my gf.i don't know him but i think he knows my gf is attached.once i see my gf's hp,i saw his msg.he wrote "i miss you!!!" in his msg.i was pretty pissed off when i read it.but i wasnt angry with my gf cos she never intend to hide it from me.
  
  she did told me about he smsing her.i told her that its obvious this guy is chasing after her and she should reject him.but she says that the guy may just want to be friends.and that he never expresses his feelings yet,how to reject right? however,i'm rather sure he's interested in my gf cos he indirectly tried to ask my gf out for lunch.
  
  wat would u do guys if u were me?
  
  Thanks!
• PaJeRoMiNi Ver 1.0

  10 Jun 03, 19:54

  This is where you have to really trust your gf...
  if you really love her and trust her enough, then you shouldn't be worried...
• *evanesence*

  10 Jun 03, 19:55

  Originally posted by H-Profile:

  Guys..need ur opinions.
  Wat would u do if u know that there are guys chasing after ur gf?
  would u ignore them and pretend nothing has happened or would u want ur gf to avoid them?
  
  cos like i found out that there's this guy who's like smsing and trying to go after my gf.i don't know him but i think he knows my gf is attached.once i see my gf's hp,i saw his msg.he wrote "i miss you!!!" in his msg.i was pretty pissed off when i read it.but i wasnt angry with my gf cos she never intend to hide it from me.
  
  she did told me about he smsing her.i told her that its obvious this guy is chasing after her and she should reject him.but she says that the guy may just want to be friends.and that he never expresses his feelings yet,how to reject right? however,i'm rather sure he's interested in my gf cos he indirectly tried to ask my gf out for lunch.
  
  wat would u do guys if u were me?
  
  Thanks!

  Voice out your concerns but let her handle the situation herself...
  Im sure she matured enuff to do so...
  
• H-Profile

  10 Jun 03, 20:03

  ya...that's what i have decided to do even thou it's quite tough.all i can do is to trust my gf.
  
  thanks for ur opinions guys!
• InVaa

  11 Jun 03, 12:29

  tell ur gf wad u feel.
• soulmate

  11 Jun 03, 12:39

  HA...
  sad to said i was some how in the same situation before, think you better let her and that guy know how you feel, i had a big fight with my ex and she left me for such a guy(husand to be). if the guy is a nice man i give her my blessing but he turn out to be a "bus"
  
  so if you really love her you better do something before its too late.
  
  

  Originally posted by H-Profile:

  ya...that's what i have decided to do even thou it's quite tough.all i can do is to trust my gf.
  
  thanks for ur opinions guys!

• jeramy

  11 Jun 03, 12:55

  Originally posted by H-Profile:

  ya...that's what i have decided to do even thou it's quite tough.all i can do is to trust my gf.
  
  thanks for ur opinions guys!

  discuss this situation with her and get her opinions and then ask her if she wants you to do anything. in any case, respect her decision, trust her, and that should be about it.
  
  but you should monitor the situation closely but keep in mind dun do any rash things
• MagicOne

  11 Jun 03, 13:03

  Dun pressure nor force your gf. That will only push your gf to that 3rd party arms. Tell her how you feel and address your corcern and care for her ( Evil Plot : make her feel that you care and corcern alot abt her, dun know why ladies like their Bf to be anxious for them over small thing ).
  
  Most importantly, trust your Gf and yourself, come on, a relationship without mutal trust is History.
• Yunhaier

  11 Jun 03, 13:21

  Originally posted by H-Profile:

  Guys..need ur opinions.
  Wat would u do if u know that there are guys chasing after ur gf?
  would u ignore them and pretend nothing has happened or would u want ur gf to avoid them?
  
  cos like i found out that there's this guy who's like smsing and trying to go after my gf.i don't know him but i think he knows my gf is attached.once i see my gf's hp,i saw his msg.he wrote "i miss you!!!" in his msg.i was pretty pissed off when i read it.but i wasnt angry with my gf cos she never intend to hide it from me.
  
  she did told me about he smsing her.i told her that its obvious this guy is chasing after her and she should reject him.but she says that the guy may just want to be friends.and that he never expresses his feelings yet,how to reject right? however,i'm rather sure he's interested in my gf cos he indirectly tried to ask my gf out for lunch.
  
  wat would u do guys if u were me?
  
  Thanks!

  Others want to chase is there business lar, instead of feeling insecured, you should feel proud and ego should step in.
  
  The only time you worried is when you gf actually react to his chase.
  
  Cheers
• loneryu00

  11 Jun 03, 17:53

  Originally posted by soulmate:

  HA...
  sad to said i was some how in the same situation before, think you better let her and that guy know how you feel, i had a big fight with my ex and she left me for such a guy(husand to be). if the guy is a nice man i give her my blessing but he turn out to be a "bus"
  
  so if you really love her you better do something before its too late.
  
  

  Feel sorry for U, man...
• soulmate

  11 Jun 03, 17:57

  think should feel even more sorry for my ex, fell into a trap
  
  

  Originally posted by loneryu00:

  Feel sorry for U, man...

• frOst^~^nOva

  11 Jun 03, 17:59

  hey hey.. don't let the green eyed monster get to u man.... don't get jealous...... u trust yr gf rite?as long as u trust her enuff, u shouldn't worry abt it.... just relax! i'm sure yr gf loves u as much as u love her!!
• loneryu00

  11 Jun 03, 18:05

  Originally posted by soulmate:

  think should feel even more sorry for my ex, fell into a trap
  
  

  Dat so? Well... Ren Ge You Zhi...
  U da 1 who r here... not her... so of coz its to U lah!
  
  If she here I too wld "feel sorry" for her... =P
• soulmate

  11 Jun 03, 18:08

  why i said dat?
  well maybe because i know some of the thing that guy is doing behind her back
  
  

  Originally posted by loneryu00:

  Dat so? Well... Ren Ge You Zhi...
  U da 1 who r here... not her... so of coz its to U lah!
  
  If she here I too wld "feel sorry" for her... =P

• loneryu00

  11 Jun 03, 18:09

  Originally posted by soulmate:

  why i said dat?
  well maybe because i know some of the thing that guy is doing behind her back
  
  

  Well then... tough luck for her... She made her decision. No matter how foolish or stupid it can be, still have to respect it...
• soulmate

  11 Jun 03, 19:22

  ya lor
  
  
  just hope she would finally find her happiness
  
  

  Originally posted by loneryu00:

  Well then... tough luck for her... She made her decision. No matter how foolish or stupid it can be, still have to respect it...

• loneryu00

  11 Jun 03, 21:17

  Originally posted by soulmate:

  ya lor
  
  
  just hope she would finally find her happiness
  
  

  No need lah... She WILL find it... juz dunno when lah... how abt U? when U find yr happiness?
• soulmate

  11 Jun 03, 23:41

  Originally posted by loneryu00:

  No need lah... She WILL find it... juz dunno when lah... how abt U? when U find yr happiness?

  me? single, but have not found my happiness...
  no hurry i am still young...
• H-Profile

  12 Jun 03, 00:30

  e situation is under control guys.....
  i love and trust my gf alot,so there's nothing much for me to worry.btw,she finds e guy who's chasing her irritating.so i guess i will just have to treat her well as per normal and fyi,she's waiting for e right moment to reject that guy if he should express his feelings.