Thinking...thinking and popping a theory
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Just a penny of my throught.......
Starting out as a couple (1-3mths)
1.) Holding hands
2.) Cuddling together
3.) Kissing
Developing ( 3-6 mths )
1.) Petting
2.) French Kissing
3.) Intercourse
Ending ( 6-12 mths )
1.) Petty Agruements
2.) Breakup
3.) Patch Back
4.) Big Quarrels
5.) Forever ByeBye
I find it funny, that for a couple to be physically involved into each other actually take only 6 months( Some even less than that )
Is it we are too easily falling in love ( so call ) and willing to give in to their parther demand and needs easier. 
Is it so call I love so I give People keep on saying i meet that someone special, so i gave my physical self to him ( most of the case ) 
Are we too willing to devoted into a relationship easier thesedays. Are we really needed to be physically involved to prove the so call "Love" for each other. If we really met the someone special, why the breakup ( Specially after the intercourse phase ) Too free so thinking (Like my Brain, auto thinker, no manual tuning ) -
GF/BFs and sex have become a material item people do them and all because other people do them as well
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So it to be said that Intercourse become a MUST/STANDARD inorder to be labelled as a couple loh ( Just for agruement, i dun disagree with intercourse between couple )
Then if a guy/ger have 10 relationship and have countless intercourse with his/her ex........Then U will have two pro, making it out in their marriage nite, the so call special nite, then not so special after all. Just another intercourse. -
a relationship between 2 dating person does not necessary involve sex.. and it cannot be broken down to a simplistic timeline like you did.. when 2 persons are attracted to each other, their state of mentalities play an major factor in the way they handle relationship.. different ppl place emphasis on different aspect.. some prefer sexual gratification, some prefer emotional needs, some prefer intellectual connection..
a relationship is always dynamic.. not just between the 2 persons.. it also involves ppl around them.. -
I am not in favour of pre-martial sex or anything don't get my stance wrong here k
I just stating that most people are like erm, monkey see monkey want
. Know what i mean? Used to be look that guy has a new wallet, i get 1 tml, ahhh but now is look that guy has a new gf i also want to find 1
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Originally posted by MagicOne:
Just a penny of my throught.......
Starting out as a couple (1-3mths)
1.) Holding hands
2.) Cuddling together
3.) Kissing
Developing ( 3-6 mths )
1.) Petting
2.) French Kissing
3.) Intercourse
Ending ( 6-12 mths )
1.) Petty Agruements
2.) Breakup
3.) Patch Back
4.) Big Quarrels
5.) Forever ByeBye
I find it funny, that for a couple to be physically involved into each other actually take only 6 months( Some even less than that ) Is it we are too easily falling in love ( so call ) and willing to give in to their parther demand and needs easier.
Is it so call [b]I love so I give People keep on saying i meet that someone special, so i gave my physical self to him ( most of the case )
Are we too willing to devoted into a relationship easier thesedays. Are we really needed to be physically involved to prove the so call "Love" for each other. If we really met the someone special, why the breakup ( Specially after the intercourse phase ) Too free so thinking (Like my Brain, auto thinker, no manual tuning )[/b]
The cycle is posted is a example of Love Eco-cycle (CloUdiSm remix III) of Honeymood, Growth, Maturity and Decline stage. Every single relationship will go through these 4 cycle and each of them has its own unique qualities and elements that I wouldn't type it here as I posted it before.
Physical pleasures that part of the big game called love. It is special chips - used when the time is ripe. When do you think the time is ripe? People often linked it with marriage - obviously the era now isn't like that.
Man, love in order for sex and woman, have sex because of love. This is nature's way to ensure mating to be possible psychologically.
Regardless, everyone has their own love cosmic lesson they have and ought to learn - losing virginity, loving the wrong guy, etc, all these karmic relationship - are there so that growth can be attained. Woman, when with their present bf, often always feel that they are the special, extraordinary 'one' - unless in the past there is this exceptional guy who walked into her life first - Even more so with people having Saturn in their Scorpio.
P.S (Quote of the day): Woman, in their first love, they loved their lover, in all others, they loved love.
Cheers -
You read alot
From your view, i agree that we do not live in the era whereby "making love" is only for marriage. Actually we cannot term the intercourse as "making love", cause it is just a spur of lust or passion.
Man love for the sake of having sex
Woman give sex for the sake of love
A certain degree of trueness in the statement above, Sex without any promise of eternal nor marriage is common thesedays. Enjoyment of such process is no longer restricted to man, woman also become more involved and having control over it.
A fair world, but saddness that the wonder of enjoying the sexual encounter with your mate in the marriage nite is lost ( So common to sex become numb, die die die ) -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
No comments. The cycle is posted is a example of Love Eco-cycle (CloUdiSm remix III) of Honeymood, Growth, Maturity and Decline stage. Every single relationship will go through these 4 cycle and each of them has its own unique qualities and elements that I wouldn't type it here as I posted it before.
Physical pleasures that part of the big game called love. It is special chips - used when the time is ripe. When do you think the time is ripe? People often linked it with marriage - obviously the era now isn't like that.
[b]Man, love in order for sex and woman, have sex because of love. This is nature's way to ensure mating to be possible psychologically.
Regardless, everyone has their own love cosmic lesson they have and ought to learn - losing virginity, loving the wrong guy, etc, all these karmic relationship - are there so that growth can be attained. Woman, when with their present bf, often always feel that they are the special, extraordinary 'one' - unless in the past there is this exceptional guy who walked into her life first - Even more so with people having Saturn in their Scorpio.
P.S (Quote of the day): Woman, in their first love, they loved their lover, in all others, they loved love.
Cheers [/b]