Originally posted by shrek:
Any of you out there ever have this feeling that you really like that gal, willing to do everything for her but in return she just treat u as a normal friend & merely thanks you for the help you offer....
Wherea another gal that you don't fancy stick around with you coz she like you. Will you give it a try or WHAT? pls help... thanks
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Never go the extra mile to help a girl you like because you simply like her and do it because of that; helping someone is an action that is free-willed and volunteering. Assuming that she will see you in better light, better impression, channel to open up for more development - will mostly ended up in dissapointment. So never assume and expect anything - just do you part and leave everything to fate. Afterall, love cannot be forced - so useless trying to expect anything.

Girls don't fancy stick around with you? Just leave them as they are - unless feelings are involved. There is absolutely no problem in girls that fall for you and you have zero feelings for - the problem only begins when you react to their liking.

Cheers