how to win a girl back?
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would someone please teach me?
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when someone figures this out, please tell me too?
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If you gal is like me, those 'Hao Ma Bu Chi Hui Tou Cao' type, then I think you can jolly well forget abt it.
Else, win her back with sincerity and hardwork.
All the best!~Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:would someone please teach me?
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actually dun u think girls.....
once they made up their mind, it means its final...
their mind is made up. period.
haaai...how true...how cruel.... -
Not exactly. Probably she wants you to try and convince her to go back to you. The timing must be right and of coz it depends on whether she has got anymore feelings for you. The bottom line has to be whether she still like/love you.
Truth hurts, sad but true, don't live yourself in a life of lies.... what's most impt is if you've tried your best, nothing else mattersOriginally posted by pinkish purple papayas:actually dun u think girls.....
once they made up their mind, it means its final...
their mind is made up. period.
haaai...how true...how cruel.... -
i have problems chasing girl...talk abt winning her back?? eerr..........................
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x2.....Originally posted by NeonTetra:i have problems chasing girl...talk abt winning her back?? eerr.......................... -
so what have u done or not done to made ur girl ask for the break up?Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:would someone please teach me?
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x3Originally posted by duotiga83:x2..... 
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how come the girl i like so much so hard to get?????
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well if u feel she's still loves u, by all means chase her back, but sometimes can have adverse effects...
she might actually detest u...
well think actually give each other some time and see how things turn out... -
Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:would someone please teach me?
or is it all over?
Post your story on how, why and details leading to the breaking of these relationship. (In short, a summary of your relation from the beginning to the end - inclusive of seeming important elements and situations that took place). Then I can analysis for you. 
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Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:would someone please teach me?
or is it all over?
how u lost her in da 1st place? -
x2Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:actually dun u think girls.....
once they made up their mind, it means its final...
their mind is made up. period.
haaai...how true...how cruel.... -
Originally posted by NeonTetra:how come the girl i like so much so hard to get????? Well, what I can say is this is a challenge. When guys get a girl too easily, they don't really treasure this relationship. To chase back a girl ya must think if the chemistry between both of ya is right, and find whats the cause behind this break up. Solve the cause before ya chase her back
all the best -
mayb u can try cleaning up ur acts?
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What makes you so sure that you would wanna win her back in the 1st place..?Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:would someone please teach me?
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maybe he truly loves her?
love makes fools of geniuses...Originally posted by Devil1976:What makes you so sure that you would wanna win her back in the 1st place..? -
I think tis depends on how u guys broke up in the first place...
if break up was mutual, to get back..just be frank with ur feelings lor..why u want to get back together...
if break up was becos of 3rd party...if u cheated..then u probably should forget it cos you will cheat again....
remember.."zhen xin dong ren xin"....just interprete dis in ur own style and there should be some hope..
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But a relationship would usually ends for a reason? (well.. At least one...?)Originally posted by the Bear:maybe he truly loves her?
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yah... but a fool in love will try to move the world if he thought it would win her back..
i knowOriginally posted by Devil1976:But a relationship would usually ends for a reason? (well.. At least one...?) -
ok... for all u guys...
have u people ever been rejected by a girl, reason being,
"xxx, my feeling for u are gone..."
"xxx, u treat me too good already..."
"xxx, its getting a bit montone...."
"xxx, frankly speaking, would we have a future together?"
"xxx, u are a person i am glad that i can truely communicate, but..."
"xxx, i made up my mind..."
it all begun when she slowly fell in love with me... and i do the same for her too....
she ask me to go slowly first.... -
i said ok... lets "test water" first....
soon all our friends knew.... all said the same thing,
"xxx!!! strike while the iron is hot!!!"
i dun really have much experience with love affairs.....
i begin to take an "aggressive stance" towards courting her....
dun u girls like a straightfoward guys? this time, i doubt so...
so in our outings,
i begin to hold her hand, she din brush me off.....
i begin to kiss her cheek, she din back off....
i begin to lean on her, she din shrug me off....
success? i was thinking.... yeah? was i nearly there? what wishful thinking..... -
getting even bolder each time, i said......
"yyy, i love u...."
no reaction....
what is the meaning of no reaction? is she shy? i dunno... i just hope i am heading the right way....
soon, she gets colder... at every moment of my advances, through sms. emails, chats, outings....
can sense liao...something is wrong liao.... -
our last "conversation",
i ask, yyy, why did u like me in the first place?
"xxx, i like u, becos i find that we can communicate, but shouldn't we take things slowly? we are not in a relationship yet.... things that u do scares me off.... it has reverse effects on me... ain'nt we friends?
i tried giving myself chances, but i just cant help it... my feelings for u are gone... and i dun think it will come back.... i am sorry i misleaded u in the first place..."