Been this doubt for very long time liao.......
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guess have to spit it out...keeping it this for toolong liao....well here goes.....
the thing is : is it mi or what that whenever a girl i like detect( or found out) that i like her and is either mi or her or mayb both of us are avoiding each other everytime met.....
this incident not hapen once liao.... can some1 help mi break this? 
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Are u shy??
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veri shy in this.......Originally posted by St4rduSt-:Are u shy??
i am a man with a few words....... -
Hi,
Ya I guess this always happen in life. Same case for me.
I realise that gals treat guys nice dones not mean anything. To them it is friendship. Guys are slightly different, you treat a gal nice bcos you are trying to get close to her.
I think this is life...avoiding each other if you found out the party is interested in you but you have no interest in the other party.
My suggestion. Get on with life. In life uou lose some, you gain some. Its a risk you are choosing. To confess or not. So choose wisely. But isn;t that the thrill of life (in taking risk)
Learn to treat someone nice w/o expecting anything in return. It will be a bonus if you got it.
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thnkx for ur advise...been reading different topics...guess is part of mi........always thought that is someone that is really i like in fact is not...guess have to get on with life.....when time come, we will see then........Originally posted by ashgoh:Hi,
Ya I guess this always happen in life. Same case for me.
I realise that gals treat guys nice dones not mean anything. To them it is friendship. Guys are slightly different, you treat a gal nice bcos you are trying to get close to her.
I think this is life...avoiding each other if you found out the party is interested in you but you have no interest in the other party.
My suggestion. Get on with life. In life uou lose some, you gain some. Its a risk you are choosing. To confess or not. So choose wisely. But isn;t that the thrill of life (in taking risk)
Learn to treat someone nice w/o expecting anything in return. It will be a bonus if you got it. -
Hey you are norm. Guys are always the same. Like someone bcos of their appearance first, but end up its personalities that count. Very difficult to be attracted first by someone's personalities.Originally posted by duotiga83:thnkx for ur advise...been reading different topics...guess is part of mi........always thought that is someone that is really i like in fact is not...guess have to get on with life.....when time come, we will see then........
Reason...bocs we see things first before feeling it :p
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yo doutiga, think your karma not here yet. -
hhhmm...watch 2 much anime i guessOriginally posted by ashgoh:Hey you are norm. Guys are always the same. Like someone bcos of their appearance first, but end up its personalities that count. Very difficult to be attracted first by someone's personalities.
Reason...bocs we see things first before feeling it :p
but Boys Be damn realisitc -
waiting for quite some tiem liao.....Originally posted by Parka: yo doutiga, think your karma not here yet. 
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Originally posted by duotiga83:hhhmm...watch 2 much anime i guess
but Boys Be damn realisitc good anime?? -
juz watch 1st epi nia....but got dvd liao....Originally posted by Parka: good anime?? -
any more suggestion?
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Originally posted by duotiga83:guess have to spit it out...keeping it this for toolong liao....well here goes.....
the thing is : is it mi or what that whenever a girl i like detect( or found out) that i like her and is either mi or her or mayb both of us are avoiding each other everytime met.....
this incident not hapen once liao.... can some1 help mi break this? If this is you, maybe you can work on it. At least this is something that you can do yourself.
If it's on her part, it will have to depend on her already. -
You want to break the cycle - you must be prepared to walk your first step.Originally posted by duotiga83:guess have to spit it out...keeping it this for toolong liao....well here goes.....
the thing is : is it mi or what that whenever a girl i like detect( or found out) that i like her and is either mi or her or mayb both of us are avoiding each other everytime met.....
this incident not hapen once liao.... can some1 help mi break this?
The thing about expressing your feelings: Your shy nature made you react, after expressing your feelings, unnaturally - not being yourself. Being a lady (more sensitive), she would feel this and would remain quiet or avoid.
The only way you could break this cycle is when after you decide to act normal, speak to her normally, smile, whatever, after expressing yourself. Afterall, expressing yourself doesn't mean anything - it's just commenting about how you feel about her.
Your generous/comfortable nature will rub on her - she would gradually behave normally with you as well.
Cheers