seek for forgiven........
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when talking to her, we talked abt my attitude, and i talk back with alot of reason ... now she angry with mi and i really wanna to make up 4 tat ... but no matter how many sorry i said .. she just ignore and did not answer my call ... now what am i going to do ..... can any1 teach mi ..... ? -
well,everything nids time..give her some time 2 cool dwn?y argue when u r in the wrong?pls dun give anymore craps when u r in the fault.........Originally posted by StriKe-Goal: when talking to her, we talked abt my attitude, and i talk back with alot of reason ... now she angry with mi and i really wanna to make up 4 tat ... but no matter how many sorry i said .. she just ignore and did not answer my call ... now what am i going to do ..... can any1 teach mi ..... ? -
Originally posted by curad:well,everything nids time..give her some time 2 cool dwn?y argue when u r in the wrong?pls dun give anymore craps when u r in the fault.........
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i like to talk back to people ... then after that, i relieve tat i was in a fault while she just wanna mi to change..... from that day(03/06) until now, she still haven forgive mi ..... HOw ....
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y talk back?can't u change?if i were her,n i noe u r like tt,refused 2 change,i won;t forgive u.................................Originally posted by StriKe-Goal:i like to talk back to people ... then after that, i relieve tat i was in a fault while she just wanna mi to change..... from that day(03/06) until now, she still haven forgive mi ..... HOw .... -
You already made the first mistake in arguing with herOriginally posted by StriKe-Goal:i like to talk back to people ... then after that, i relieve tat i was in a fault while she just wanna mi to change..... from that day(03/06) until now, she still haven forgive mi ..... HOw ....
Coz, u always lose. You either lose to her or lose her
Even if you win the argument...you still lose out comforting her.
So next time, don;t argue back. A small quarrel for fun is ok, but never say something mean or insulting...you will regret.
I seriously think u must have mention something about her personalities.
2 possible thinkings.
1. She is real mad and will never give any further chance coz she think that you will never change
2. She is still mad, felt that should give u a real lesson to learn this time. The things u are doing to please her is not enough or not of sincerity.
My suggestions
* Buy flowers for her(no need a bouquet, its sincerity and effort here..probably 3 will do) Wait for her at her work place/school or house.
* How about cooking a meal for her
packet it into a box for her
Can't think of others... hope this helps. Wish you luck buddy.
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what for answer back... haiz , u ppl nowadays ah
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some things, you need to take a stand...
simple as that.Originally posted by kopiosatu:what for answer back... haiz , u ppl nowadays ah -
Originally posted by the Bear:some things, you need to take a stand...
simple as that.
Well, sometimes.
Sometimes, deep down I know I'm right, but I refuse to argue to prove my point. Some people just don't seem to get it.
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She has your interest at heart doesn't she? How fortunate you are, a caring girlfriend (I presume the relationship is of this level). Time always help to simmer an anger, but your seems to have taken a while.
Flowers for the lady? A letter or card if (especially if she doesn't wanna see you), write her what you have realised, your efforts, appreciation, apologies. If you remember something she fancies, that would be helpful. Simply, be genuine, the gift and words are no subsititute for sincerity. -
message her and let her know that u know that u're wrong and apologise... tell her u 2 need to talk, instead of her ignoring u... dun ever make promises that u will change but instead tell her u will make an effort to slowly eradicate ur flaws... if she's worth it that is... if she's those petty kind, then hmm... all the best sia...
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Super AgreeOriginally posted by Parka: Well, sometimes.
Sometimes, deep down I know I'm right, but I refuse to argue to prove my point. Some people just don't seem to get it.
Saving my energy and time is more important.
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die liao la ... just message her ... she reply "STOP SMSING ME ANYMORE, WE HAVE NOTHING TO SAID" ..... thing getting worse and worse ... maybe realli buying meal 4 her will work ....
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HaiZz.... she totally ignored me call her dont listen .. SMS her dont reply .. how am i going to seek 4 forgiven .. and buy her meal .....
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i think she's good enough to tell you what she want and how she find abt ur attitude..some girls will not even tell u how bad she find you, and get angry and wan the guy to find out why and what make them angry..that's more worst..so i think for now..u will just to to put down abit of ur pride and apologise to her and try to explain to her and ask her to give you more detail on how u can change ur attitue
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so what's the lesson learnt?
nvr argue with gals
even though you're right, do give in
not saying that gals are unreasonable but we should be
more gentleman
learnt this the hard way just as you do now...
buy roses go her hse and give her...
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bf-gf status?
it must have been something major which happened to cause her to react this way...
i don't know wat's ur mentality when u talked back to her, but i got one thing to say for sure.. u're childish... *sighz* if talking back and winning boost ur ego, well man, i think u're ego got deflated big time..
if u had realised this much earlier and stop ur childish mentality of wanting to talk back to ppl everytime, this won't even happen. sometimes ppl need to really fall down hard in order to learn their lessons. hope this is a lesson well learnt.
grow up pls...Originally posted by StriKe-Goal:HaiZz.... she totally ignored me call her dont listen .. SMS her dont reply .. how am i going to seek 4 forgiven .. and buy her meal .....