No Friends :(

• InVaa

  24 Jun 03, 01:40

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• Ecxentrique

  24 Jun 03, 01:46

  possibly its a stage of ur life where u will long for some company be it frends or stead. sometimes there are different ways of getting ard dat. like u say u no cca.. maybe can join some? or like can join CC activities or maybe if u christian go church outings? cell grps? if not haha go and join!!
  
  i know not everyone like dat but i did come across pple who joined cell grps for the purpose of knowing more pple... i m not a christian but from the way i see it well.. maybe both sides will gain in more than one way..
  
  maybe u can take the time to develop urself, pick up some skills self grooming etc? learn a new language etc.. sometimes it wont take much to attract pple to u but going abt it the other way sometimes is worse than conquering everest.
• InVaa

  24 Jun 03, 01:56

  lyk so unwanted leh.. no frend den so despo for 1..
• InVaa

  24 Jun 03, 01:56

  actually i gt frend.. but dun haf a grp of really gd 1..
• Ecxentrique

  24 Jun 03, 02:07

  Originally posted by InVaa:

  actually i gt frend.. but dun haf a grp of really gd 1..

  good frends 4-5 good enough
  best frend, one will do.
  u only have 24 hours a day. if u want a lot of frends, do u think u will have enough time to maintain them?
  dun think of frends as someone to keep u company, frends are more than that. So be true to wat u want from a frend be there for him/her and then soon maybe u will really find urself in a company of real good frends.
• Strikk

  24 Jun 03, 02:48

  Hi,got same problem wif u..no friends.Although ther are ppl around me tat they call themselves as my friends,i had a feeling tat they are wearing a "mask".
  aiya,alot of problems la..sianz..
• Starmaster85

  24 Jun 03, 04:55

  Originally posted by InVaa:

  think of it.. i lyk no frend lyk tt.. holiday very sian.. no stead = little outing.. cos i dun realiee haf a lot of frend.. i no cca.. a lot of my frend frends are cca ppl.. 1 week lyk go out afew times.. n most of the time go gym nia. sian sia.. no gd bunch of frends.. 15m here btw.. wad should i do..

  no friends ?
  
  lots of time ?
  
  then spend some time reading more books and improve your english . your english is horrible . you are 15 already , o level coming right ? . u continue with this kinda english sure get F9 .
• elmoloveyou

  24 Jun 03, 04:56

  Originally posted by Starmaster85:

  no friends ?
  
  lots of time ?
  
  then spend some time reading more books and improve your english . your english is horrible . you are 15 already , o level coming right ? . u continue with this kinda english sure get F9 .

  chatting language huh
• elmoloveyou

  24 Jun 03, 04:57

  I dun many frens at dat age as well.... always at home, if not, will be in school for cca... hmmm
  Go out for a few times in a week is okie... u wanna go out everyday ah? Y dun look for job?
• Starmaster85

  24 Jun 03, 04:58

  Originally posted by elmoloveyou:

  chatting language huh

  wa now what time already u just awake or haven sleep yet?
  
  i haven sleep yet
• elmoloveyou

  24 Jun 03, 04:58

  Originally posted by Starmaster85:

  wa now wat time already u just awake or haven sleep yet?
  
  i haven sleep yet

  haven sleep as well
  Cant sleep.......
• Starmaster85

  24 Jun 03, 05:00

  Originally posted by elmoloveyou:

  haven sleep as well
  Cant sleep.......

  hahaha , i playing games , then training just now
  
  going to sleep after bathing
  
  lai lai do a self intro , aku 17/m
  
  you ?
• elmoloveyou

  24 Jun 03, 05:02

  Originally posted by Starmaster85:

  hahaha , i playing games , then training just now
  
  going to sleep after bathing
  
  lai lai do a self intro , aku 17/m
  
  you ?

  u r so damn young...hmmmm juz turned 23 b4 midnite
  wat training izzit?
• Starmaster85

  24 Jun 03, 05:03

  Originally posted by elmoloveyou:

  u r so damn young...hmmmm juz turned 23 b4 midnite
  wat training izzit?

  happy birthday pal .
  
  training ?
  
  train muscles lor , wat esle ( train my di di ah )
  
  
• boy in blues

  24 Jun 03, 05:25

  Originally posted by Starmaster85:

  no friends ?
  
  lots of time ?
  
  then spend some time reading more books and improve your english . your english is horrible . you are 15 already , o level coming right ? . u continue with this kinda english sure get F9 .

  alright..you can give him a break now..friends are no less important than studies..
  InVaa,
  wanna get a life? maybe start by jio-ing motivated & motivational people for study groups..kill 2 birds with 1 stone.
• elmoloveyou

  24 Jun 03, 05:28

  Originally posted by Starmaster85:

  happy birthday pal .
  
  training ?
  
  train muscles lor , wat esle ( train my di di ah )
  
  

  thanx
  hmmmm me dunno wor
• boy in blues

  24 Jun 03, 05:46

  Originally posted by InVaa:

  actually i gt frend.. but dun haf a grp of really gd 1..

  group outings are no more than socialising..the only way to really know a good friend is by sharing personal time with him/her..it's next to impossible having a group of friends where each is completely comfortable with EVERYONE else.
• wuming78

  24 Jun 03, 08:25

  Originally posted by InVaa:

  actually i gt frend.. but dun haf a grp of really gd 1..

  its realli normal at ur age to be thinking of such questions.. and wondering y u no frens... its a normal stage in life everyone goes thru where one seeks the companionship and the "recognition" of people around him/her, the identity seeking.
  
  so dun worry if u think u haf no frens. do u personally wan a lot of frens who r not close, or a small grp of very close frens?
  
  jus live ur life, and try to widen ur social circle, via ur frens, via online chats, etc..
  
  but dun worry too much. worrying wont get u anywhere in ur situation and problems.
• loneryu00

  24 Jun 03, 08:32

  Originally posted by InVaa:

  think of it.. i lyk no frend lyk tt.. holiday very sian.. no stead = little outing.. cos i dun realiee haf a lot of frend.. i no cca.. a lot of my frend frends are cca ppl.. 1 week lyk go out afew times.. n most of the time go gym nia. sian sia.. no gd bunch of frends.. 15m here btw.. wad should i do..

  Main prob is STEAD izzit? If U sae U no fren, how abt here? ain't we all frens? Ok... maybe digitally frens lah... but somedae we can meet up & have fun wat!
• ashgoh

  24 Jun 03, 12:03

  To elmoloveyou ... Happy Birthday !!
  
  
  To Invaa
  
  Friends... also depend whether u sincere or not. Not all friends come to u. U also need to go and search for them too.
  
  Into any sports ??? eg. Basketball. Next time just go to a nearby court and ask if u can join in for games...etc. or if u into online gaming...can always get to know ppl in cyber cafe ma. Just learn to approach ppl. no harm trying.
  
  Sometimes it is not the games that matter...it is the friendship around that matters. So even if you don't like the sports/games...you still can join your friends.
• InVaa

  24 Jun 03, 16:14

  thx a lot for the replies.. mayb i jus nid a girl
• harryryan

  24 Jun 03, 16:17

  my school term so busy n packed that i dun even have e time to wish for free time..... u r very lucky.... even during e holidays i also working to earn pocket money.....
• InVaa

  24 Jun 03, 17:33

  15m can find job meh.. if can i also 1.. fastfood restaurant ma huan.. sch reopen weekend also nid to work.. no time study
• the Bear

  24 Jun 03, 17:37

  here's something very scathing from someone more than twice your age:
  
  DAMN but you can whine... tell you what job, you whine about how inconvenient.. got no friends, expect them to materialise in front of you...
  
  you sound like you got no spine!
  you sound like you cannot do anything without it being given to you on a silver platter!
  you sound like you are incapable of thinking for yourself!
  
  get a grip... have some dignity.. grow a spine!
  
  

  Originally posted by InVaa:

  15m can find job meh.. if can i also 1.. fastfood restaurant ma huan.. sch reopen weekend also nid to work.. no time study

• InVaa

  24 Jun 03, 18:18

  wtf