Well, thanx for your support and understanding... I really wish that you and your family will live happily together... I know how hard it is for family to maintain their cool, as all are still different individuals, but it's through this differentness that people get to know each other, and hence making us loving each other for who we are... and that's what you call a united whole... and that's a family... that was, and is my family...
Sometimes we can't really say that people just think about their bfs and gfs, esp for youngsters.. As for a teenager, having a gf or a bf is a new thing, thus you're more attracted to it. For instance, when a kid has a new toy, he will play with it more often than the old ones he had right??? people will grow up.. it's just a phase in life...
Me too, I used to think that way too, when I was a teenager, and I used to think that my parents who kept on scolding me everyday then did not understand me... It took me several years to realise their care and love for me before I begin to love them back again... I realise a lot in the recent years... but I'm still learning to be a better man, for my family and for the person(s) who are going to depend on me. Even in my psych class essays that I'm taking in my uni, I wrote most of my essays on my family. In fact, this recent accident, had even made me know more about myself and to know what is love and what is being love...
Sometimes, this sort of things, you need to learn it the hard way to appreciate it better... Like I said even for myself, I loved a parents lotz already, but that day, I found out I still have more to learn...
Anyway, doubt you guys will believe this, since then, I began to have less interest in r/s, or the girl that I'm interested in. For anything that happens to me, what will she do?? will she know about my accident even?? will she empathize with me then?? All I know is that after sometime, she will grow out of it if she's my gf, and be with another guy.. I would be long forgotten in her life. If I just admire her, it's even worse... doubt she will even know about it if no one tells her... even if she knows, she's at most just weeping for a friend. I asked myself why do I have to go through such an extent of getting her attention then, if she's just to treat me like a friend on my death bed?? Doubt it's worth it, rather give more to my family, and closer friends who are more caring and concern about me...
Bless you and your family with happiness and warmth... =)
Originally posted by Prodigy:
i totally agree with u bear...
i too love my dad and mom...
even though we quarrelled and argued
my bro too

i was hospitalized once...and my family will never fail to come immediately after work to see me..
(hospitalized in NEW CHANGI HOS. and i live in bukit panjang

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and speaking of love...
i jus dont get it...
the minute the word 'love' is spoken,
some ppl ( or kids ? ) will tink ONLY and ONLY their boyfriends and girlfriends
didnt they ever thought about family love???
they really should read your post and get it drilled into their skull
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