Haiz... Love life missed 3 times...
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Haiz... i like a gal... at first, i tot she like me too, coz first day see her, then nv tok, second day see, tok in msn, third day, we went movie alone... then always got meet then go meetings for sch... however, my fren told her got 2 guys like her, then it turns out she dunno, and was shocked... (actually, she broke off with her bf 3 months ago) then juz few mins later when i met up with them, she kinda gimme the cold shoulder... then i felt something was wrong, so i ask my fren, then i noe wat happened...
So i kinda avoid lo, since she liddat... but she ownself came up to tok to me again after my frens soccer match, then we chat a bit again as usual...
Then at nite, we all went play pool... then this another guy's fren kinda lure me to thier side by asking me over to ask me things. then this guy went over n sit with her... then i dun bother man... but, i dunno y but i feel jealous or threaten???
Then when going home, i leave with her n 2 more frenz, when she reached her stop, she nv say bye or wat... really contradicting....
But among the two guys (including me), i am the only one who had asked her out or wat la...
And i dunno y for 3 times i got this kinda thing, that is the gal i like broke off with ex 3 months ago... haiz... y.... i am really tired and will give up if this dun work... haiz...
what should i do? if i avoid, i will kinda give up... if i pursue, i might be too irritating... then my fren says dun always be there, make her feel tat sometimes, she needs me..? haiz... watever...
Any advices??? i'll be damn thankful... -
i think its time to tell her ur feelings.. mayb ask her out n say ? althoguht more pai seh but higher chance.. see how she respond
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Originally posted by w1nd:Haiz... i like a gal... at first, i tot she like me too, coz first day see her, then nv tok, second day see, tok in msn, third day, we went movie alone... then always got meet then go meetings for sch... however, my fren told her got 2 guys like her, then it turns out she dunno, and was shocked... (actually, she broke off with her bf 3 months ago) then juz few mins later when i met up with them, she kinda gimme the cold shoulder... then i felt something was wrong, so i ask my fren, then i noe wat happened...
So i kinda avoid lo, since she liddat... but she ownself came up to tok to me again after my frens soccer match, then we chat a bit again as usual...
Then at nite, we all went play pool... then this another guy's fren kinda lure me to thier side by asking me over to ask me things. then this guy went over n sit with her... then i dun bother man... but, i dunno y but i feel jealous or threaten???
Then when going home, i leave with her n 2 more frenz, when she reached her stop, she nv say bye or wat... really contradicting....
But among the two guys (including me), i am the only one who had asked her out or wat la...
And i dunno y for 3 times i got this kinda thing, that is the gal i like broke off with ex 3 months ago... haiz... y.... i am really tired and will give up if this dun work... haiz...
what should i do? if i avoid, i will kinda give up... if i pursue, i might be too irritating... then my fren says dun always be there, make her feel tat sometimes, she needs me..? haiz... watever...
Any advices??? i'll be damn thankful...
Finish the race you begin, or forget about the whole thing altogether. Its all about what you want to do - if you want to go after her - make sure you do a clean proper job. At least you won't be thinking back and regret on the things you never do. 
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Finish the race you begin, or forget about the whole thing altogether. Its all about what you want to do - if you want to go after her - make sure you do a clean proper job. At least you won't be thinking back and regret on the things you never do. -
Yeah... i noe.. thanks for tat encouragement.. but the whole thing is soooo contradicting... its like she noes bout it... sometimes she tok to me, sometimes she doesn't... so i dunno wat is she thinking about... my fren says she may be shocked tats y she reacts this way... and i oso dunno if will she ever consider me or is she still treating me as a friend... HaIZ!!!
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W1nd,
She is in dilema state as you too... maybe she want to start a new relationship...
but probably don't know if you are the one or that she is afraid that she kenna biten again.
My advice.
Ask her out for a 1-1 date. treat her movie or meal. End it with a walk at the park. Then confess that you have feelings for her and ask her if she has some feelings for you. If no...then probably can only remain as frens for the moment. If yes, cheers to you.
Good Luck and well wishes...
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haha, hey thanks... but wad do u mean by "frenZ at the moment"???