Help Help Help!!! Help Needed Asap by Tonight!!!

• w1nd

  27 Jun 03, 21:46

  Help! If ur dunno wat happened so far, pls refer to "Love Life Missed 3 times" post...
  
  Anyway, these days, the gal i like is kinda sometimes cold sometimes okok... however... i am confused by this... should i declare my feelings for her???
  
  I only noe her 3 weeks +, and she break with her ex bout 3 months ago...
  
  If i tell and ask her, then i no need be left hanging to guess if is she giving me a chance... but i may risk rejection... (for the 3rd time in the same story pattern...)
  
  If i dun tell n ask, i will be left hanging... Or should i wait..? wat to do!!!???
  
• blue_kelvinsg

  27 Jun 03, 22:33

  stay cool and not think that it's the end of the world. its kinda corny after i read your thread and reflect on the thread's subject. *haA
• kohanson

  27 Jun 03, 23:13

  maybe you should find out if she's interested in you or not..
• smurfer

  27 Jun 03, 23:16

  hmmz.. go onz.. test her out first and then if more positive, declare to her...
  
  

  Originally posted by w1nd:

  Help! If ur dunno wat happened so far, pls refer to "Love Life Missed 3 times" post...
  
  Anyway, these days, the gal i like is kinda sometimes cold sometimes okok... however... i am confused by this... should i declare my feelings for her???
  
  I only noe her 3 weeks +, and she break with her ex bout 3 months ago...
  
  If i tell and ask her, then i no need be left hanging to guess if is she giving me a chance... but i may risk rejection... (for the 3rd time in the same story pattern...)
  
  If i dun tell n ask, i will be left hanging... Or should i wait..? wat to do!!!???
  

• Healin

  27 Jun 03, 23:22

  Originally posted by w1nd:

  Help! If ur dunno wat happened so far, pls refer to "Love Life Missed 3 times" post...
  
  Anyway, these days, the gal i like is kinda sometimes cold sometimes okok... however... i am confused by this... should i declare my feelings for her???
  
  I only noe her 3 weeks +, and she break with her ex bout 3 months ago...
  
  If i tell and ask her, then i no need be left hanging to guess if is she giving me a chance... but i may risk rejection... (for the 3rd time in the same story pattern...)
  
  If i dun tell n ask, i will be left hanging... Or should i wait..? wat to do!!!???
  

  3 weeks enough to tell you that you love her? How many ppl have you loved b4?
• w1nd

  27 Jun 03, 23:23

  wat u mean? meaning tat i should spent more time with her 1st? then say out?
• w1nd

  27 Jun 03, 23:25

  Quoting Healin: 3 weeks enough to tell you that you love her? How many ppl have you loved b4?

  erm... i mean say i like her not love... tats a big difference lo...
• Yunhaier

  28 Jun 03, 01:18

  Originally posted by w1nd:

  Help! If ur dunno wat happened so far, pls refer to "Love Life Missed 3 times" post...
  
  Anyway, these days, the gal i like is kinda sometimes cold sometimes okok... however... i am confused by this... should i declare my feelings for her???
  
  I only noe her 3 weeks +, and she break with her ex bout 3 months ago...
  
  If i tell and ask her, then i no need be left hanging to guess if is she giving me a chance... but i may risk rejection... (for the 3rd time in the same story pattern...)
  
  If i dun tell n ask, i will be left hanging... Or should i wait..? wat to do!!!???
  

  Firstly. what's your motive in trying to tell her? If you just wanna tell her for the sake of telling her (hoping that she may accept - & I believe she has two other suitors from your other post) - chances are, you will probably fail.
  
  Getting off your chest - yes. Chances of succeeding - low. Risk - low.
  
  If your motive is to chase her and wishing to succeed, you should hold your expression to a latter date. Forget about letting her know that you like her first - make her fall for you.
  
  Getting off your chest - not yet. Chances of succeeding - higher. Risk - also higher.
  
  In this game of love, nothing is risk free. You want to play this round, you had better know what you are playing or you may burn a hole in your heart.
  
  Cheers
• w1nd

  28 Jun 03, 02:39

  Thanks Yunhaier! I noe wat to do~
• Yunhaier

  28 Jun 03, 02:44

  Originally posted by w1nd:

  Thanks Yunhaier! I noe wat to do~

  My pleasure dude. Take care.
• boy in blues

  28 Jun 03, 03:50

  Originally posted by w1nd:

  Help! If ur dunno wat happened so far, pls refer to "Love Life Missed 3 times" post...
  
  Anyway, these days, the gal i like is kinda sometimes cold sometimes okok... however... i am confused by this... should i declare my feelings for her???
  
  I only noe her 3 weeks +, and she break with her ex bout 3 months ago...
  
  If i tell and ask her, then i no need be left hanging to guess if is she giving me a chance... but i may risk rejection... (for the 3rd time in the same story pattern...)
  
  If i dun tell n ask, i will be left hanging... Or should i wait..? wat to do!!!???
  

  urgent help by tonight? i thought what life/death emergency ah! why you so kanjiong to know whether she want BGR? just be her good friend first and will soon know whether can develop further liao.
• AngelDark

  28 Jun 03, 03:56

  rushing... will never do any good
  
  IMHO, any new r/s started after a breakup(either way...), won't really last....
  
  and any r/s that starts in less then 2 mths.... could have many complications....
• sh|nY_BoY

  28 Jun 03, 04:25

  errr......
• ugo_gal

  28 Jun 03, 05:19

  Originally posted by w1nd:

  Help! If ur dunno wat happened so far, pls refer to "Love Life Missed 3 times" post...
  
  Anyway, these days, the gal i like is kinda sometimes cold sometimes okok... however... i am confused by this... should i declare my feelings for her???
  
  I only noe her 3 weeks +, and she break with her ex bout 3 months ago...
  
  If i tell and ask her, then i no need be left hanging to guess if is she giving me a chance... but i may risk rejection... (for the 3rd time in the same story pattern...)
  
  If i dun tell n ask, i will be left hanging... Or should i wait..? wat to do!!!???
  

  i have the same experience, but i used to have a friend who waited for me since b4 my ex, during and even after my ex broke up wiith me.. especially after my ex broke up with me, he treated me really well... and i noe that he still liked me at that time... i knew he would confess to me one day..and he did...
  so give ur friend more time... cuz maybe she still has not get over the breakup thing... give her more time.. and the fact that she was cold towards u? well, i guess she knew that u liked her(girls are sensitive) and she might not be comfortable abt it and was afraid that u would get the wrong idea or would confess and add more to her stress and frustration level... so...
  give her more time...and let the nature flows
  be patient.
  cheers
  all the bez
• AzRaeL

  28 Jun 03, 07:46

  just ask and be done with it
• w1nd

  28 Jun 03, 21:11

  Thanks A LOT Ugo_Gal... haha gals noe gals best!
• chaar123

  28 Jun 03, 23:12

  I got the ultimate solution at the lowest possible price, U must be her Hero, you must be her Knight In Shodding Armorr for her to like you and u lik her. SO your must get together, then my friends will come and act like pervert (You must tell me if u big size or not so i can choose the most fleshgy or skinny of my friends) the "perverts" will threaten the girl in some alley, then you must yuse your big muscle and big brain to kick my friends' butt. Then the girl will like u cos u save her and u are her knight! This solution worked many times one, dun worry i am expereiendced
• boy in blues

  29 Jun 03, 01:34

  Originally posted by w1nd:

  Thanks A LOT Ugo_Gal... haha gals noe gals best!

  i agree.