it simply means she dosen have a boyfren yet don want you to know , something very negative , she want to keep you interested in her yet keep you at bay when she dosen want to go out with you alone , it means she not really interested in you , ...becareful she might have hidden motive.Originally posted by BrenBren:Hello everyone. It has been quite a long time ever since the last ime i log in. How is everyone? Hope things had been going well for you people.
Well, I actually had a question which i need some pointers from you people.
I had came to know this gal from a temp job which i got before i went for my reservist. She has this innocent and gal-next-door look but her char is very outgoing. So i try to ask her her out. Although she agree to go out with me but request that we dun go out alone but with those friends we make during our job. So i think is fair as she might not feel comfotable going out alone with me so fast. So i tryt o make the arrangement but somehow the other guys always got things on or their free time always crash with the others. Thus until now, we had not successfully gone out once.
Thus, my question is what should i do so that i can go out with her even though the others cannot make it for the outing? I understand that somethimes girls like to find out more about the guys that want to tackle them through group outing. This is my first time dating girl so i'm quite inexperience when come to dating techquine. Please pardon me if my questions annoy you.
And one last question. When i ask her if she had a boyfriend, she answer, " it is more me to find out and for her to know". So what does she implies?
Anyway, I thanks you peole in advance for helping me. Thank you so much.
Brendon
Your nick seemed familiar to me, but anyway welcome back?Originally posted by BrenBren:Hello everyone. It has been quite a long time ever since the last ime i log in. How is everyone? Hope things had been going well for you people.
Well, I actually had a question which i need some pointers from you people.
I had came to know this gal from a temp job which i got before i went for my reservist. She has this innocent and gal-next-door look but her char is very outgoing. So i try to ask her her out. Although she agree to go out with me but request that we dun go out alone but with those friends we make during our job. So i think is fair as she might not feel comfotable going out alone with me so fast. So i tryt o make the arrangement but somehow the other guys always got things on or their free time always crash with the others. Thus until now, we had not successfully gone out once.
Thus, my question is what should i do so that i can go out with her even though the others cannot make it for the outing? I understand that somethimes girls like to find out more about the guys that want to tackle them through group outing. This is my first time dating girl so i'm quite inexperience when come to dating techquine. Please pardon me if my questions annoy you.
And one last question. When i ask her if she had a boyfriend, she answer, " it is more me to find out and for her to know". So what does she implies?
Anyway, I thanks you peole in advance for helping me. Thank you so much.
Brendon
If you're really interesting in her, it's important that you keep correspondance between you and her ACTIVE... In e-mails, phone calls, whatever ways which is convenient for the both of you and which she's comfortable with... But DON'T overdo it.... It might IRRITATES her, and IF it does... It'll simply spell GAME OVER....Originally posted by BrenBren:Hello everyone. It has been quite a long time ever since the last ime i log in. How is everyone? Hope things had been going well for you people.
Well, I actually had a question which i need some pointers from you people.
I had came to know this gal from a temp job which i got before i went for my reservist. She has this innocent and gal-next-door look but her char is very outgoing. So i try to ask her her out. Although she agree to go out with me but request that we dun go out alone but with those friends we make during our job. So i think is fair as she might not feel comfotable going out alone with me so fast. So i tryt o make the arrangement but somehow the other guys always got things on or their free time always crash with the others. Thus until now, we had not successfully gone out once.
Thus, my question is what should i do so that i can go out with her even though the others cannot make it for the outing? I understand that somethimes girls like to find out more about the guys that want to tackle them through group outing. This is my first time dating girl so i'm quite inexperience when come to dating techquine. Please pardon me if my questions annoy you.
And one last question. When i ask her if she had a boyfriend, she answer, " it is more me to find out and for her to know". So what does she implies?
Anyway, I thanks you peole in advance for helping me. Thank you so much.
Brendon
wooooaahhhhhh.....im learning a lot myself just by reading this thread man.....Originally posted by BrenBren:Hello everyone. It has been quite a long time ever since the last ime i log in. How is everyone? Hope things had been going well for you people.
Well, I actually had a question which i need some pointers from you people.
I had came to know this gal from a temp job which i got before i went for my reservist. She has this innocent and gal-next-door look but her char is very outgoing. So i try to ask her her out. Although she agree to go out with me but request that we dun go out alone but with those friends we make during our job. So i think is fair as she might not feel comfotable going out alone with me so fast. So i tryt o make the arrangement but somehow the other guys always got things on or their free time always crash with the others. Thus until now, we had not successfully gone out once.
Thus, my question is what should i do so that i can go out with her even though the others cannot make it for the outing? I understand that somethimes girls like to find out more about the guys that want to tackle them through group outing. This is my first time dating girl so i'm quite inexperience when come to dating techquine. Please pardon me if my questions annoy you.
And one last question. When i ask her if she had a boyfriend, she answer, " it is more me to find out and for her to know". So what does she implies?
Anyway, I thanks you peole in advance for helping me. Thank you so much.
Brendon
Originally posted by BrenBren:Hello everyone. It has been quite a long time ever since the last ime i log in. How is everyone? Hope things had been going well for you people.
Well, I actually had a question which i need some pointers from you people.
I had came to know this gal from a temp job which i got before i went for my reservist. She has this innocent and gal-next-door look but her char is very outgoing. So i try to ask her her out. Although she agree to go out with me but request that we dun go out alone but with those friends we make during our job. So i think is fair as she might not feel comfotable going out alone with me so fast. So i tryt o make the arrangement but somehow the other guys always got things on or their free time always crash with the others. Thus until now, we had not successfully gone out once.
Thus, my question is what should i do so that i can go out with her even though the others cannot make it for the outing? I understand that somethimes girls like to find out more about the guys that want to tackle them through group outing. This is my first time dating girl so i'm quite inexperience when come to dating techquine. Please pardon me if my questions annoy you.
And one last question. When i ask her if she had a boyfriend, she answer, " it is more me to find out and for her to know". So what does she implies?
Anyway, I thanks you peole in advance for helping me. Thank you so much.
Brendon
Originally posted by ^cereal^:makes a lot of sense....seriously
From a gal's point of view....looks are deceiving... how do you consider if one is outgoing? *Becoz she goes out all the time?*
To put things simply, when she said she dont mind going out with u provided it's not a single date, it means one of these:
[b]1) She's worried either you or her have/has no self control and decides to do things on impulse.
2) She wants to go out, but she don't quite enjoy your companion and wish for more people to join in, in case both of you got no topic to talk abt and things become awkward.
3) She hopes thru the grp outing, she can have a better opportunity to cast her net and thus know the rest better and make a better choice from among the rest of the guys.
4) She likes another guy from the grp and knows that you'll include him, but she's shy to approach him, thus asking you to do the liasing.
If I'm you, I'll tell her not to play mind games. By telling you things like 'It's for me to know, for you to find out' She probably has someone outside, yet waiting for a potential candidate to come by so that she can make her selection. She has got the upper hand. She knows how to keep you in suspense so that you are unable to make a sound decision. She wants attention, thus if she indeed has a bf and tells you abt it, she know she'll lose you.
I just want to caution you, she may not be the girl she appeared to be, look harder and you'll see clearly. Don't be blinded by what you see superficially. Take time to discover for yourself what type of gal she is.
cheerz
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its our culture.....guess some girls are more outgoing than others...thats variety for uOriginally posted by Ben-i:man... asian girls , esp singaporean girls are kinda troublesome , worry so much , think so much and its only a first date thing. Why cant it be easygoing? maybe its the way the govt brought us up eh? think and think of all the possible scenarios, think until so hard to go out. sheesh
Good questions. I am rather shy guys by nature.I always shy away from gals all this while.Thus until now, i had not gone out on a date with a gal before. But i kinda of like this gal and i think i am not young already, so should not continue to be like that anymore.Originally posted by Doenitz:[quote]Originally posted by BrenBren:
[b]Hello everyone. It has been quite a long time ever since the last ime i log in. How is everyone? Hope things had been going well for you people.
Well, I actually had a question which i need some pointers from you people.
I had came to know this gal from a temp job which i got before i went for my reservist.
This is my first time dating girl so i'm quite inexperience when come to dating techquine. Please pardon me if my questions annoy you. [quote]
You old enough to be reservist yet you never dated gals before....Unbelievable...What you been doing all these years?
stay happy broOriginally posted by BrenBren:Guys and Gals,
Thanks for all your advices. Actually, i had just found out something during the past one week which roughly let me what she is thinking...or should i say what i think she is thinking.
I just found out that she had gone out alone with another guy in the group to shop for shoes.
So i guess ^cereal^ point 4 in her reply is the same as my guess.
But anything lah....Just feeling confused. so ask you all to help clear my doubts only.
Thank you again..everyone.