Nobody here can tell you an answer on whether he likes you or not deep within his heart. He may be interested or just being himself. The answer will derive ONLY if you ask or when he tells you yourself.Originally posted by huy:well, i got to know a guy a few weeks ago.. got to know hiim through a friend.. after many times of converstion, i began to developed some feelings for him. he treat me very well too. he is always there to encourage me and when i need help, he always there for me..occassionally, we both went out togther and my feelings for him had grow stronger. i really enjoy the times i spend with him. he told me he is also happy to spend the time with me.
now the problem is, sometimes i feel like telling him how i feel. but i afraid that he just treat me as an oridianry friend. i don know what he think. i was afraid of being rejected. this thing have been making me sleepless for many weeks. what should i do? and for the guys out here, what do u all thiink? does he only want to be friend with me?![]()
FAST...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Nobody here can tell you an answer on whether he likes you or not deep within his heart. He may be interested or just being himself. The answer will derive ONLY if you ask or when he tells you yourself.
In love, there is always risk and nothing is absolute. If you want the best way to solve this: probably you can wait/pressure/force him indirectly to reveal his real feelings to you.
If it is the friendship you fear that may be destroyed - then hold your tongue. When it comes to love, nothing must be held back - either all or nothing. So when it comes to expressing - you must have no worries behind your head. Why do something while putting your other foot on safety shores? You won't go far and probably sink as well.
Cheers
Was rushing to go outOriginally posted by Devil1976:FAST...![]()
i tght cut n paste...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Was rushing to go out![]()
go AA outing?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Was rushing to go out![]()
You probably know I didn't mean that...?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Was rushing to go out![]()
LOL!Originally posted by skeujin:i tght cut n paste...![]()
AA no outing wor, maybe next time uncle devil may want to plan.Originally posted by M©+square:go AA outing?![]()
Originally posted by Devil1976:You probably know I didn't mean that...?
Anyway... <"
Originally posted by Yunhaier:AA no outing wor, maybe next time uncle devil may want to plan.![]()
One sentence of advice. " You just know him for a few week, how much you understand him and of course, u never try, w will never know." Don't think so muchOriginally posted by huy:well, i got to know a guy a few weeks ago.. got to know hiim through a friend.. after many times of converstion, i began to developed some feelings for him. he treat me very well too. he is always there to encourage me and when i need help, he always there for me..occassionally, we both went out togther and my feelings for him had grow stronger. i really enjoy the times i spend with him. he told me he is also happy to spend the time with me.
now the problem is, sometimes i feel like telling him how i feel. but i afraid that he just treat me as an oridianry friend. i don know what he think. i was afraid of being rejected. this thing have been making me sleepless for many weeks. what should i do? and for the guys out here, what do u all thiink? does he only want to be friend with me?![]()
Originally posted by Yunhaier:AA no outing wor, maybe next time uncle devil may want to plan.![]()
Actually its both ways lor..Originally posted by ashgoh:Give it a try. u wouldn't feel that hurt even if it fails. Its worse keeping the feelings inside you.
If its meant to be, it will be.![]()
Originally posted by the Bear:yun, you're in Alcoholics Anonymous?
just kidding
the acronym for this forum always got me as strange...