guy's lie....
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Aiyah dun give up hope just becos you met some guys who dun give a second thought about lying esp this type of things...
Like you said, you met some really nice guys...
So THERE ARE NICE GUYS out there after all...
Maybe it just not the right time for you to get attached yet...
Meanwhile just go out with your friends and enjoy life...
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ya i understood.. perhaps i m far more better than some ppl out there. maybe my surrounding friends mostly are happily attached n also live life to the fullest.. n me who alwiz built up confidence end up ... in vain..
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Yeah know how you feel.. esp when you go out than see ur friends happy happy with bf/gf and you look at urself still single and the feeling really start to hit u...Originally posted by UrBaN^Co:ya i understood.. perhaps i m far more better than some ppl out there. maybe my surrounding friends mostly are happily attached n also live life to the fullest.. n me who alwiz built up confidence end up ... in vain..
Well just something i read off somewhere which helped me..
"...when I see couples around me happily doing their stuff, at least I know that love still exist in the world and my time will come too..." -
girl, i'm the oldest dude in the mob i hang out with at work...
ALL of them are married with children... and they're younger than me...
living life to the fullest may not necessarily require another beside you..
it would be nice tho' but not necessarily...
take your time, and you'll find him one day
don't jump in because you are lonely... jump in because it feels right...Originally posted by UrBaN^Co:ya i understood.. perhaps i m far more better than some ppl out there. maybe my surrounding friends mostly are happily attached n also live life to the fullest.. n me who alwiz built up confidence end up ... in vain.. -
ya true i alwiz told myself if i dun haf feeling towards the person i wun play with him or even hurt him.. i rather he hate me for not giving him a chance.. than hurt both parties in the end
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well said. so even thought it's tempting to find just anyone... in the long run, regret may come in. Maybe you have not met the right type. Get around and meet more people. Group dates are wonderful way to find out about the sincerity of someone... if they are who they say they are. When guys and gals are in a group, chances are you'll be yourself. But in a single date situation, may be able to put on your best (which may or may not be you!).Originally posted by UrBaN^Co:ya true i alwiz told myself if i dun haf feeling towards the person i wun play with him or even hurt him.. i rather he hate me for not giving him a chance.. than hurt both parties in the end
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yeah true.. but i hardly have grouping fren.. mostly i have are single date.. i haf a lot of guys frens indeed.... but all jus single date with themm.. as i dono their friendsOriginally posted by pool.gal:well said. so even thought it's tempting to find just anyone... in the long run, regret may come in. Maybe you have not met the right type. Get around and meet more people. Group dates are wonderful way to find out about the sincerity of someone... if they are who they say they are. When guys and gals are in a group, chances are you'll be yourself. But in a single date situation, may be able to put on your best (which may or may not be you!). -
OIC... how about asking him to bring along some male friends and you some gal friends (not too many, if not like school outing). In that way, everyone is new to each other and hence less tension?Originally posted by UrBaN^Co:yeah true.. but i hardly have grouping fren.. mostly i have are single date.. i haf a lot of guys frens indeed.... but all jus single date with themm.. as i dono their friends
If not, how about the AA gathering coming up? Make use of such opportunities to go out with the guy and not worry about him putting a false front??
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expand your circle of friends?Originally posted by UrBaN^Co:yeah true.. but i hardly have grouping fren.. mostly i have are single date.. i haf a lot of guys frens indeed.... but all jus single date with themm.. as i dono their friends
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ya, its also good to know more people...Originally posted by the Bear:expand your circle of friends?
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maybe i will try .. wait later i enter into work society .. maybe can get to noe more ppl... now most of my frens are guys.. they hardly intro me their friends.. cos they got motive on me also hehehe..well as for gal frens...can sae that i dun haf more than 5 gal frens.. maybe not even one close gal frens..
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maybe... too bad some have motives... be careful yah?
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don't u tink sometimes society ppl more danger.. where ppl backstab u or even betray u .. lagi worse..Originally posted by the Bear:maybe... too bad some have motives... be careful yah?
still, try to expand your circle of friends maybe, like you said, when you start work, you'll know more people -
or you meet friends for life.. real friends... who will support you personally no matter, and unconditionally
be positive yah? there will be asshats out there who are mean, however, there are uncommonly good people too.. and many faces you will never remember after a couple of days...
it's the nature of the beast...
along the way, i've met people who are horrors, i've met people who are so good they'd give you the shirt off their back if you needed them to..
along the way, you will learn with experience (if you put in the effort) to differentiate these...
but most of all, be a good friend to all and never stoop to the levels of the backstabbers even if they do that to you... what comes around, goes around... and if you are a believer in karma, they will get theirs from their kind... just like if you are kind, you will be treated well and looked after from the good people...
you're still young with a lot to learn that's the key word: Learn
i think you'll find that special someone i believe everyone has that special someone... you just gotta find him
good luckOriginally posted by UrBaN^Co:don't u tink sometimes society ppl more danger.. where ppl backstab u or even betray u .. lagi worse.. -
I feel that for a girl - is best if she has a good gal friend, because at least when problem occurs, another female could lend you their shoulder than the you-never-know-what-the-hell-is-their-motive-kind of guys.Originally posted by UrBaN^Co:maybe i will try .. wait later i enter into work society .. maybe can get to noe more ppl... now most of my frens are guys.. they hardly intro me their friends.. cos they got motive on me also hehehe..well as for gal frens...can sae that i dun haf more than 5 gal frens.. maybe not even one close gal frens..
There are guys who genuinely offer their helping hands. But without emotional attachment involve? Nobody knows.
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i have a got a friend who's foreign bf cheated her by going back to his own country and asked for blind dates to his local girls. my friend was actually thinking of marrying him! now she hates him to the core. my friend is a very sensible person and i trusted her choices. i am quite shocked as well....
but bad people are always around.
last time in office, there was this guy who had a huge crush on me...everyone in office knew it. i was saved by an auntie colleague who told me he is already attached...if not i could have fell harder. that guy is very daring.
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he already attached to that auntie??
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reali cant stand some guys... y they still wana nie hua re chao.. behind their gf back.. they neva tink of her gf's feeling.. what if his gf did this behind him?Originally posted by fumih_81:i have a got a friend who's foreign bf cheated her by going back to his own country and asked for blind dates to his local girls. my friend was actually thinking of marrying him! now she hates him to the core. my friend is a very sensible person and i trusted her choices. i am quite shocked as well....
but bad people are always around.
last time in office, there was this guy who had a huge crush on me...everyone in office knew it. i was saved by an auntie colleague who told me he is already attached...if not i could have fell harder. that guy is very daring.
be careful ...esp girls. -
dun be an asshatOriginally posted by NeonTetra:he already attached to that auntie?? -
joking lah...............
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sure there are people like that... but i think it's fair to say that there are nice guys out there too... cannot use one bamboo to capsize a boat
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yup
bet there's a one nice guy out there whose fate is to make you happy and be yours while you make him a happy manOriginally posted by pool.gal:sure there are people like that... but i think it's fair to say that there are nice guys out there too... cannot use one bamboo to capsize a boat -
hopefulli there is realli one .. even one that is enuf..jus one who i love deeply haf the same feeling as me.. i dun ask for much.. no said becos of one bamboo.. i capsize the whole boat.. just mylife i met too many untrusted guys...Originally posted by the Bear:yup
bet there's a one nice guy out there whose fate is to make you happy and be yours while you make him a happy man -
when u do get into the work society, do watch out as some of them have said earlier...Originally posted by UrBaN^Co:maybe i will try .. wait later i enter into work society .. maybe can get to noe more ppl... now most of my frens are guys.. they hardly intro me their friends.. cos they got motive on me also hehehe..well as for gal frens...can sae that i dun haf more than 5 gal frens.. maybe not even one close gal frens..
they might seem to be your friends in the beginning, but could backstab you without you knowing...
but do not give up on finding those that truely want to help you and want to have you as real firends...
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if u really need some frens to talk too......
hey....there's so many of them here!