When the person u wan to woo fall sick....

• virginheart

  5 Jul 03, 00:12

  would u go to her house with herbal tea/flower or only give her a call/sms to ck on her status??
  for me 1st option a bit weird cos not yet boyfriend so 2nd option seems more suitable.
  how abt u??
• Ben-i

  5 Jul 03, 00:13

  well use ur common sense... option 2
• NeonTetra

  5 Jul 03, 00:15

  i will feel heart pain ...i will want to be by her side to look after her...cook porrige for her but at the moment u can send some sms and ask her how is she and if possible ask if u can visit her
• AzRaeL

  5 Jul 03, 00:32

  show up
  and take the chance to really impress his/her folks.
• Fengzi_83

  5 Jul 03, 14:17

  mayb u should take this opportunity to touch her heart...
• Cerebral_Assassin

  5 Jul 03, 14:23

  Originally posted by virginheart:

  would u go to her house with herbal tea/flower or only give her a call/sms to ck on her status??
  for me 1st option a bit weird cos not yet boyfriend so 2nd option seems more suitable.
  how abt u??

  wa.......i see your age 1976 liao.
  i only 1980 nia.....
  so far the girls i successfully chased b4 is u must show face, show up at her place when she sick then successfully. normal talk/sms is just normal friend-like behaviour only.
• -=- [L]eonArD -=-

  5 Jul 03, 14:44

  i wud call the person.. sms is not really good coz u wun hear his/her voice..
  
  i wudn show up coz im not her bf yet n ppl might call u thick skin or sumthing..n summore if shes alone at home den worse.. so juz gif her a call n gif sum advices..
• NeonTetra

  5 Jul 03, 14:45

  wise
• Cerebral_Assassin

  5 Jul 03, 14:47

  actually what i usually do is offer to go n visit
  then bring some stuff along
  if accepted, good means u stand a good chance
  if not accepted because of some stupid reason, u better work harder in getting closer to her
• robustoes

  5 Jul 03, 14:48

  Originally posted by -=- [L]eonArD -=-:

  i wud call the person.. sms is not really good coz u wun hear his/her voice..
  
  i wudn show up coz im not her bf yet n ppl might call u thick skin or sumthing..n summore if shes alone at home den worse.. so juz gif her a call n gif sum advices..

  I would call or sms her too if not seriously ill. Unless hospitalised then of coz I'll accompany her.
• fumih_81

  5 Jul 03, 20:59

  if u got the guts and roughly u knew that she likes u too, option 1 is a clear indication that u like her....sometimes u need to be daring and try it out...it doesnt hurt...
  
  of course if i dun like the guy and he shows up at my hse with all the stuffs...i know clearly that he likes me. if i dont like him, i will just know that he is a nice guy but sorry i dont think we can be together. and prob after i recover treat him to a meal to thank him.
  
  the gist is that though i may feel a bit weird after i know a person likes me, at least i wont be afraid if he is a truly nice guy..
• Gary25

  5 Jul 03, 22:24

  Originally posted by fumih_81:

  if u got the guts and roughly u knew that she likes u too, option 1 is a clear indication that u like her....sometimes u need to be daring and try it out...it doesnt hurt...
  
  of course if i dun like the guy and he shows up at my hse with all the stuffs...i know clearly that he likes me. if i dont like him, i will just know that he is a nice guy but sorry i dont think we can be together. and prob after i recover treat him to a meal to thank him.
  
  the gist is that though i may feel a bit weird after i know a person likes me, at least i wont be afraid if he is a truly nice guy..

  so u wun try to avoid him the next time the two of u meet after that thank-you meal?
• sh|nY_BoY

  5 Jul 03, 23:03

  Originally posted by -=- [L]eonArD -=-:

  i wud call the person.. sms is not really good coz u wun hear his/her voice..
  
  i wudn show up coz im not her bf yet n ppl might call u thick skin or sumthing..n summore if shes alone at home den worse.. so juz gif her a call n gif sum advices..

  if she is sick.. i mean if real sick u call her she has got no strenght to talk...i think sms better?
• sh|nY_BoY

  5 Jul 03, 23:04

  Originally posted by robustoes:

  I would call or sms her too if not seriously ill. Unless hospitalised then of coz I'll accompany her.

  imgaine when she wake up..open her eyes the first thing she see is u.. sitting there n only u.. wah she GAN dong...
• virginheart

  5 Jul 03, 23:14

  Originally posted by fumih_81:

  if u got the guts and roughly u knew that she likes u too, option 1 is a clear indication that u like her....sometimes u need to be daring and try it out...it doesnt hurt...
  
  of course if i dun like the guy and he shows up at my hse with all the stuffs...i know clearly that he likes me. if i dont like him, i will just know that he is a nice guy but sorry i dont think we can be together. and prob after i recover treat him to a meal to thank him.
  
  the gist is that though i may feel a bit weird after i know a person likes me, at least i wont be afraid if he is a truly nice guy..

  Well she clearly noes that i like her. well what i have done is get a getwell card & some herbal tea/gift, went to her hse and pass it to her dad. no point disturbing her since she is sleeping. hopes this is good enough.
• the Bear

  5 Jul 03, 23:53

  take leave, go there and look after her if she lets me..
  
  stuff like get lunch, dinner, get papers, water, fruit, read to her to relax her, get fruit juice.. be with her
• sh|nY_BoY

  6 Jul 03, 10:52

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  take leave, go there and look after her if she lets me..
  
  stuff like get lunch, dinner, get papers, water, fruit, read to her to relax her, get fruit juice.. be with her

  why must get paper??
• the Bear

  6 Jul 03, 10:58

  read the papers... stuff like that
  
  done it before
  
  

  Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:

  why must get paper??

• sh|nY_BoY

  6 Jul 03, 11:16

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  read the papers... stuff like that
  
  done it before
  
  

  newspaper ar...orh..
• sh|nY_BoY

  6 Jul 03, 11:17

  if she likes reading..can buy her some books ..at least..then she got something to do..
• jnifur

  6 Jul 03, 17:41

  Originally posted by virginheart:

  would u go to her house with herbal tea/flower or only give her a call/sms to ck on her status??
  for me 1st option a bit weird cos not yet boyfriend so 2nd option seems more suitable.
  how abt u??

  SMS her loh. Ask her if she is feeling better....
  
• jonalim

  6 Jul 03, 17:56

  Originally posted by jnifur:

  SMS her loh. Ask her if she is feeling better....
  

  And if she does not reply? Does it mean you dont get to stand a chance too?
• 798

  6 Jul 03, 18:06

  No lah, maybe she is sleeping. I think call up the next day to concern is a better idea because you will not disturd her health and can let her to rest more.
  
  

  Originally posted by jonalim:

  And if she does not reply? Does it mean you dont get to stand a chance too?

• sh|nY_BoY

  6 Jul 03, 22:45

  Originally posted by jnifur:

  SMS her loh. Ask her if she is feeling better....
  

  guess most of the people choose the SMS way... me too
• jonalim

  7 Jul 03, 10:35

  Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:

  guess most of the people choose the SMS way... me too

  how would u feel if she does not reply at all..