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recently..like tis guy again...den 2dae went out wif moi fren she talk abt the guy tt she like..den she go cut her wrist(but nt serious..nvr cut till vessel)...den i cum back oso thought of cuttin bcoz of the guy i like..haiz...but i did nt..but b4 2dae..i did cut but it isn't beri deep lor..haiz...i simply fall in love wif tis guy for 4 time...1st is when we stead..den break..den patch..den after tt break le..i still like him..den a moment later i like another guy,....but after turning 1 whole round..i still found out tt i still like him alot...haiz..y?y?y?...i can sae tt he is reali a good stead..though alot of moi fren sae he is abit 'tOot' coz his uniform always tuck in..hehe...haiz...wad m i suppose to do..shud i ask him gib mi another chance or let time take place n ferget him...
4 u guys info..he like sum 1 else oso..tis ger is he like since sec 1 till sec 2 when he met his 1st stead..den mi..den he like back tis ger again..hmmm...do u guys tin i still stand a chanCE? -
....trust me...
not any guy ish worth u hurting urself..
cutting ur wrist doesnt help.. no point..
i did this b4.. and when i look back.. i found my self silly and toopid
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jus cut...haiz...nw i cut i nt to prove hw much i lurbe him..but hope tt when i c tt cut i will ferget...moi kor n best fren sae i beri silly..haiz....but i tin is worth it..cut le..all the good memory wif him in the past came back....n moi tears roll down..haiz
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if the wound not deep..nvm..
if se kar li deep deep one..
den u hav oredy permantly scarred urself..
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No insults,
but plz think of ur parents etc who took so much time to bring u up,
When u reach a more mature level in the future u will realize it damn silly, so stop leaving scars on urself. Plz
Anyway once u grow up it's guy tat do all the chasing -
no point doing this to urself....its childish
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after cuttin..i swear tt i wun love him again de..haiz...he make mi hurt moi self alot of time le..haiz.........................................tis is nt the 2nd time cuttin moiself bcoz of him le...haiz
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see someone about it?
self-mutilation is destructive and i don't think anyone here has the expertise to help you...
when you feel like it again, take a deep breath, go out somewhere and just run, scream or something.. let it out...
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The minute you post the part about you being influence to cut your wrist - it only goes to show how immature you are in handling relationship.Originally posted by dunch^noe:recently..like tis guy again...den 2dae went out wif moi fren she talk abt the guy tt she like..den she go cut her wrist(but nt serious..nvr cut till vessel)...den i cum back oso thought of cuttin bcoz of the guy i like..haiz...but i did nt..but b4 2dae..i did cut but it isn't beri deep lor..haiz...i simply fall in love wif tis guy for 4 time...1st is when we stead..den break..den patch..den after tt break le..i still like him..den a moment later i like another guy,....but after turning 1 whole round..i still found out tt i still like him alot...haiz..y?y?y?...i can sae tt he is reali a good stead..though alot of moi fren sae he is abit 'tOot' coz his uniform always tuck in..hehe...haiz...wad m i suppose to do..shud i ask him gib mi another chance or let time take place n ferget him...
4 u guys info..he like sum 1 else oso..tis ger is he like since sec 1 till sec 2 when he met his 1st stead..den mi..den he like back tis ger again..hmmm...do u guys tin i still stand a chanCE?
I don't blame you because secondary school is a stage where people keep falling in and out of love. Read past topics by people posted in Aunt Agony and you will discover those couple that break, patch, break patch - more often than not, never last eventually.
Like this girl, then don't like, then like, then don't like - obvious signs of a puppy love.
Advice?
Only time can enlighten you. Stop all these destructive behaviors immediately. It cannot help you win the one you like - instead it repels and instill fear in people about you
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All I can say is... just hang in there. Time will make U wiser or maybe even crazier. Either way, self-mutilation is a definite no no!! Or maybe you just need to find someone whose really into U for a change!
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Hi Dunch^noeOriginally posted by dunch^noe:recently..like tis guy again...den 2dae went out wif moi fren she talk abt the guy tt she like..den she go cut her wrist(but nt serious..nvr cut till vessel)...den i cum back oso thought of cuttin bcoz of the guy i like..haiz...but i did nt..but b4 2dae..i did cut but it isn't beri deep lor..haiz...i simply fall in love wif tis guy for 4 time...1st is when we stead..den break..den patch..den after tt break le..i still like him..den a moment later i like another guy,....but after turning 1 whole round..i still found out tt i still like him alot...haiz..y?y?y?...i can sae tt he is reali a good stead..though alot of moi fren sae he is abit 'tOot' coz his uniform always tuck in..hehe...haiz...wad m i suppose to do..shud i ask him gib mi another chance or let time take place n ferget him...
4 u guys info..he like sum 1 else oso..tis ger is he like since sec 1 till sec 2 when he met his 1st stead..den mi..den he like back tis ger again..hmmm...do u guys tin i still stand a chanCE?
You must be feeling so much pain that you want to express it out by cutting yourself. It is difficult to know that you have lost the one you have feelings for. It's also not easy for you to know that he has feelings for someone else.
Your pain is understandable. I know you want to express it out. Can i request that you do not cut yourself? It pains to know that you are doing that to yourself. Your loved ones will feel even more painful to know you are doing that. Perhaps you could write it all out or call a close friend whenever you feel down. you are not alone and do not have to face it by yourself. The pain you feel now will be less intense with time.
For now, you need to make a decision about the relationship. If you want to ask him for another chance, go ahead. Be prepared also that he may not accept it (if he still has strong feelings for ger). Even if he does not accept you, it does not mean that you are not good enough. It just says that he is looking for something else.
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i using those cut to remind mi nt to tok to him..in order nt to fall in love wif him again lor...nw i gonna stop my self frm hurtin again..haiz...tis is gonna b the last time i cut myself 4 a guy tt i love..nvr will i do it again...haiz...
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why gals nowadays like to cut wrist...fashion izit ?? or too much movies liao ???
The pain hurts in the heart... are you trying to cut your wrist so that ou "taichi" the pain from your hurt to your wrist ???
To remind yourself need not cut wrist ya. many other ways. If not, Postpad invention will have to gone to waste.
There are many ways to forget pain. egs. Picking up hobbies, going out with a group of frens, be a volunteer, go to pet shop...etc
Wherever I feel sad... I will go to pet safari... the dogs there are simply so adorable that they just bring smile into my heart.
Cheers and take care.
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i c... if you think of him again, just call a friend or do something else. Pls do not hurt yourself. I'm glad to hear that you are not going to do it again. Take care....Originally posted by dunch^noe:i using those cut to remind mi nt to tok to him..in order nt to fall in love wif him again lor...nw i gonna stop my self frm hurtin again..haiz...tis is gonna b the last time i cut myself 4 a guy tt i love..nvr will i do it again...haiz...
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Hi ger..
I feel that hurting urself does not lead to anything..
I'm very happi to hear u say tt..it'll be the last time u do it..
Coz if u really think thru abt it, u will find that it is really very stupid..
Wad if u happen to be uncareful, and leave a scar on ur wrist?
So..stop doing it k..
And when u think of the guy, just keep urself busy loh..
Like me..my bf is in the army now..i cannot see him..sometimes can only hear his voice..I miss him dearly..but i keep myself busy so i wun think too much..
If you really love him and wish to be with him, just go for it. But think before doing anything..especially when it concerns urself..coz..no matter whu are u with now..few years down the road..u may meet another better person whom u love even more..so cherish urself k..
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hi girl...Originally posted by dunch^noe:recently..like tis guy again...den 2dae went out wif moi fren she talk abt the guy tt she like..den she go cut her wrist(but nt serious..nvr cut till vessel)...den i cum back oso thought of cuttin bcoz of the guy i like..haiz...but i did nt..but b4 2dae..i did cut but it isn't beri deep lor..haiz...i simply fall in love wif tis guy for 4 time...1st is when we stead..den break..den patch..den after tt break le..i still like him..den a moment later i like another guy,....but after turning 1 whole round..i still found out tt i still like him alot...haiz..y?y?y?...i can sae tt he is reali a good stead..though alot of moi fren sae he is abit 'tOot' coz his uniform always tuck in..hehe...haiz...wad m i suppose to do..shud i ask him gib mi another chance or let time take place n ferget him...
4 u guys info..he like sum 1 else oso..tis ger is he like since sec 1 till sec 2 when he met his 1st stead..den mi..den he like back tis ger again..hmmm...do u guys tin i still stand a chanCE?
i dunno why on earth ur friend wanna cut her wrist...
but if wanna commit suicide b'coz of someone??
is it worth doing it juz b'coz someone breaks your heart??
i believe everyone else went thru heartaches...
and life is not a bed of roses... it's juz a matter on how u handle it..
and for ur info...
cutting ur wrist will not kill u...