heartbroken
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i met this guy last 2 mth...and soon he b come my stead, but few dae after we stead, his ex came and ask him fer patch, after some
consideration... he when to patch wif his ex le... my heart broke... i had never love someone so much b4 lor... den last 2 weeks his ex break wif him and he come 2 ask mi fer patch but i didnt agree... den now he patch wif his ex again... i feel lik i am a spare tyre to him..... i cut my wrist yesterdae..(cut his name) leaving deep cuts on my hand... it hurts... now i dun koe wart 2 do... should fergive him?? wait fer him? ferget him?? haiz sad -
forget him unless u want to be a full time spare tire
i dun think a person like him deserves ur love
give ur love to someone who reallie loves u
by this i mean tat he will not abandon u for someone else
he has done it once.. and so he must pay for his actions
dun give in to him
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see a doc about the cuts...
take this as a lesson... a harsh one.. mind if i ask how old are you?
if you're 14, give it time.. fulfil your other responsibilities like studies (this may sound really naggy but do so?)
when the time comes, you'll know... in the meantime, make friends, widen your social circle, and look after yourself...
personally, i feel that until one can look after himself/herself properly and well, one is not ready for the commitment of a relationship... simply because: how can you look out for him/her, unless you know what to look out for?
i wish you peace, happiness and joy.. may you find it eventually
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x2 agree with u man..Originally posted by the Bear:see a doc about the cuts...
take this as a lesson... a harsh one.. mind if i ask how old are you?
if you're 14, give it time.. fulfil your other responsibilities like studies (this may sound really naggy but do so?)
when the time comes, you'll know... in the meantime, make friends, widen your social circle, and look after yourself...
personally, i feel that until one can look after himself/herself properly and well, one is not ready for the commitment of a relationship... simply because: how can you look out for him/her, unless you know what to look out for?
i wish you peace, happiness and joy.. may you find it eventually -
agree x3.....Originally posted by hata:x2 agree with u man..
u r still young leh, xiao mei mei.....
the grass is greener further in the forest.... y torture yourself???
the road is still a long way to go......... -
i understand ur feelings.. i had been thru this b4...
i believe tats part n parcel(spelling?) of life.....
its a lesson we learnt to help us grow.. mature.. i believe u r able to get over him soon.... with the help of TIME! i really n seriously believe tat TIME helps to kill the unhappiness away............. -
dun be depressed as he has lose someone who love him deeply while you had lost someone who dun deserve and appreciate your love to him
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Y there r so many similar posts?? i think some of them r not real...
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i'll try 2 ferget him le... haiz...
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forget the guy, remember the lessons yah?
take care of yourself, and maybe later in life, you'll find someone who will love you as much as you love him i believe everyone has someone out there for them
i wish you much happiness and that you find it soonOriginally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:i'll try 2 ferget him le... haiz... -
similar problems abound..
brown smelly stuff happens...Originally posted by KrU:Y there r so many similar posts?? i think some of them r not real... -
u all think he realli beri bad mar???
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well its seems to us he's just toying with ur feelings lor...Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:u all think he realli beri bad mar???
well i think nothing will come out of ur relationship with him.. so i think better forget him though it'll be difficult.. -
worse than that...
never toy with the emotions of another... he had 2 minds.. he had no sense of commitment, he had no sense of responsibility, he had no sense..
he did not care that he'll hurt you, he did not care when he went with you that he wasn't ready, he did not care that he was not over the other girl when he went with you...
all he saw was HIMSELF!
he, to me, is just a selfish jerk... if you are as young as i think you are and so is he, try to avoid people like him... he's probably going to be a self-centred person who will not hesitate to wound all around him if he could gain some kind of advantage for himself...
THAT, is my personal view... don't take it as the gospel truth...Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:u all think he realli beri bad mar??? -
Oh.. i can almost feel your pain cus this happened to me before.. and I was around your age..Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:i met this guy last 2 mth...and soon he b come my stead, but few dae after we stead, his ex came and ask him fer patch, after some
consideration... he when to patch wif his ex le... my heart broke... i had never love someone so much b4 lor... den last 2 weeks his ex break wif him and he come 2 ask mi fer patch but i didnt agree... den now he patch wif his ex again... i feel lik i am a spare tyre to him..... i cut my wrist yesterdae..(cut his name) leaving deep cuts on my hand... it hurts... now i dun koe wart 2 do... should fergive him?? wait fer him? ferget him?? haiz sad
All I can say is that U should get on with your life and forget that jerk, u are still young.... and u will meet many other nicer guys who deserve you..
Trust me, I've been thru all these sh|t and I know the pain...
Get over it, dun let this get u down, let it make u stronger... treat it as a lesson learnt..
I wish u all the best, anything PM me...
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thankz fer all ya advice... i feel better.. but tt cut hurts... i'll ferget him -
girl, go see a doctor? maybe you'll get an antiseptic cream that will numb the pain a little?Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89: thankz fer all ya advice... i feel better.. but tt cut hurts... i'll ferget him
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I dislike those who mk itself suffer cos of relationship.Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:i cut my wrist yesterdae..(cut his name) leaving deep cuts on my hand... it hurts...
and ur mum born, raise you nt for you to hurt urself jus cos of this type of guy (bastard). Stupid! -
Wrist hurt now better than hurting all those who care about you.Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89: thankz fer all ya advice... i feel better.. but tt cut hurts... i'll ferget him
That wrist cut will serve as a remainder to you. You will grow up to learn more and become a better lady.
If you still want to cut wrist... next time cut his wrist not yours... he should be suffering the pain not you. <-- Just kiddin
Take good care of that hand of yours...if should be put into more useful doing than to hurt it. -
My scars just made stronger...Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89: thankz fer all ya advice... i feel better.. but tt cut hurts... i'll ferget him -
copied n paste...tot the topic was closed
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xiaozhu, what u are going thru is just a small phase of ur life.
one day u are going to realise that u have done a lot of silly things. you may have cut ur wrists for someone....u may still pin for him now. but some time later u will have his picture on ur dartboard.
the things u have done are supposed to wake urself up from the mess of yesterday. what u thought could be so dear is actually not.
time will heal ur wounds. meanwhile do try taking up new things to do to distract urself from this memory. many guys and gals are not certain of what they want...hence they make some poor people feeling like spare tyres.
if you never treat a person badly, your conscience is clear. -
yesOriginally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:u all think he realli beri bad mar???
and there are definitely better ones -
How old are u ? How old is the guy ?Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:i met this guy last 2 mth...and soon he b come my stead, but few dae after we stead, his ex came and ask him fer patch, after some
consideration... he when to patch wif his ex le... my heart broke... i had never love someone so much b4 lor... den last 2 weeks his ex break wif him and he come 2 ask mi fer patch but i didnt agree... den now he patch wif his ex again... i feel lik i am a spare tyre to him..... i cut my wrist yesterdae..(cut his name) leaving deep cuts on my hand... it hurts... now i dun koe wart 2 do... should fergive him?? wait fer him? ferget him?? haiz sad
What do you meant by stead ? Stead to those young kids are kissing, having sex... are u a kid ? -
Dear xiao^zhuzhu89,Originally posted by xiao^zhuzhu89:i met this guy last 2 mth...and soon he b come my stead, but few dae after we stead, his ex came and ask him fer patch, after some
consideration... he when to patch wif his ex le... my heart broke... i had never love someone so much b4 lor... den last 2 weeks his ex break wif him and he come 2 ask mi fer patch but i didnt agree... den now he patch wif his ex again... i feel lik i am a spare tyre to him..... i cut my wrist yesterdae..(cut his name) leaving deep cuts on my hand... it hurts... now i dun koe wart 2 do... should fergive him?? wait fer him? ferget him?? haiz sad
I think if the guy can leave u for his ex and then leave his ex again for u, shows tt he is not treating u seriously at all. (Of cos, it includes his ex). These sort of guys only treat the other party whos not with him as a spare tyre. He will only think abt u when hes alone again. So its not worth the effort and all the things u haf done for him.
I hope ur cut is getting better. I noe it hurts. My advice to u is to forget him. There are plenty of guys out there who are much better than him, guys who will ont let u cut ur wrist for them cos they treasure u and will not let u come to any hurt. (Ty guy u mentioned let u cut urself and hurt u, so its not worth it.)
Take ur time to forget him. But dun go soft hearted cos it may cause u more hurt. And cheers up bah! U will soon forget the matter and who noes, mayb then u will get to noe a better guy le! -
wah lau....tink u too young for such tings lah.....cut here and there does not solve probs...better see and listen to those who fail in their relationships and learn from there........