How do we know???
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When couples break up normally we will ask them to get over it by getting other things to do and not think about the relationship.
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You will not forget about your past relationship. LIke steps on cement - every relationship leaves a marking. (I am talking about relationship and not fling, ONS, etc).Originally posted by Imperfect:When couples break up normally we will ask them to get over it by getting other things to do and not think about the relationship.
But how do we know that we have gotten over the past relationship?
Gotten over past relationship? When you feel that you could move on with your life, probably a new potential wouldn't hold you back and lots of effort in living towards the future and not the past.
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But sometimes we thought that we have gotten over it and had move on with our life... but the moment you see him/her again... you somehow found out that you haven't...Originally posted by Yunhaier:You will not forget about your past relationship. LIke steps on cement - every relationship leaves a marking. (I am talking about relationship and not fling, ONS, etc). Gotten over past relationship? When you feel that you could move on with your life, probably a new potential wouldn't hold you back and lots of effort in living towards the future and not the past.
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What you feel when you see him/her is not you haven't got over - rather, its the longing and desire to have the old feelings and chemistry back - the desire to have back the things that was once yours.Originally posted by Imperfect:But sometimes we thought that we have gotten over it and had move on with our life... but the moment you see him/her again... you somehow found out that you haven't... Truely, people moved on, but memories lived and will live.
Quote of the day: Before you can discover new oceans, you have to lose sight of the shore.
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u wont reali forget one loh... cos it's parts n parcel of ur life.....
u will still get reminded once in a while..... still smile over the sweet memories, or cry over some sadder ones when u tot of them
i guess get over it is when u wont think of it so often, don felt too bothered by it, able to get on ur life as usual without feeling very moody, or even able to accept another person into ur life....
it reali depends on how u look at things.....
some pple reali 'na de qi fang de xia'
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You don't have to know.... You just GO ON.....Originally posted by Imperfect:When couples break up normally we will ask them to get over it by getting other things to do and not think about the relationship.
But how do we know that we have gotten over the past relationship? -
don't cry becos it's over
smile becos it happened -
when do we actually know that we have already let go of the past? it's when we have finally let go and understood clearly that things have already past.... that we can feel at ease.... that we feel that comfort (not self-comfort) has settled in....Originally posted by Imperfect:When couples break up normally we will ask them to get over it by getting other things to do and not think about the relationship.
But how do we know that we have gotten over the past relationship?
only by then, u won't regret the things that u've done, u won't feel any hate, or any negative thoughts....(to me, it was like that...)
getting thru a relationship... it's simple.. yet hard to explain..... hard to follow thru.... treat it like a lesson, that u can learn... that u can gain experience from.... -
4 mi,i aso duno how i noe i've gotten over the r/s...i noe i juz can't get over if a fail r/s happens to mi...BUT i had a few r/s b4,n i think i've gotten over them coz i dun longer miss them,i think my life is much better without them,i've realised i can survive without them n show them wat am i today....Originally posted by Imperfect:When couples break up normally we will ask them to get over it by getting other things to do and not think about the relationship.
But how do we know that we have gotten over the past relationship?
can anyone understand wat am i toking?i aso duno wat am i toking abt...hope it makes some sense...my mind is not correct today...
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Er... sort of understandOriginally posted by curad:4 mi,i aso duno how i noe i've gotten over the r/s...i noe i juz can't get over if a fail r/s happens to mi...BUT i had a few r/s b4,n i think i've gotten over them coz i dun longer miss them,i think my life is much better without them,i've realised i can survive without them n show them wat am i today....
can anyone understand wat am i toking?i aso duno wat am i toking abt...hope it makes some sense...my mind is not correct today...
You will know that you are able to let go when you thought of the past and that you can laugh at those moments
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ya..thanks....Originally posted by ashgoh:Er... sort of understand
You will know that you are able to let go when you thought of the past and that you can laugh at those moments and not missing them. -
Originally posted by curad:ya..thanks....
Come on girl... Life's too busy to manage if you stack the PASt, the PRESENT and the FUTURE together.... -
so we got 2 try our best to forget the past,though it's kinda difficult....we have to treasure watver we have in present n got 2 plan wat we wana do in future...........Originally posted by Devil1976: Come on girl... Life's too busy to manage if you stack the PASt, the PRESENT and the FUTURE together.... -
aiya once your brain cannot stuff too many information...it will auto delete. even what u plan for the future will be gone tooOriginally posted by curad:so we got 2 try our best to forget the past,though it's kinda difficult....we have to treasure watver we have in present n got 2 plan wat we wana do in future........... -
ppl tends to be like tt,they dun wana think so much so they juz let everything as it is..........Originally posted by ashgoh:aiya once your brain cannot stuff too many information...it will auto delete. even what u plan for the future will be gone too -
There's a BALANCE to things... No point going beyond whatever's not within our limits...? Nobody can change the past, but you can change the future.... Nobody can live the past, but you can live the present... What you want today may not be what you want tomorrow... Who you are today may not be who you are tomorrow...? Future... A change of the present... Since it's a CHANGE, there's no ABSOLUTE to it... You can plan for the future, but it's no absolute... Things might still change... Before you know it, you might be losing both the present and your future.... Existence in a 'dimension' of nowhere present.... Life wasted off...?Originally posted by curad:so we got 2 try our best to forget the past,though it's kinda difficult....we have to treasure watver we have in present n got 2 plan wat we wana do in future........... -
Originally posted by Devil1976:There's a BALANCE to things... No point going beyond whatever's not within our limits...? Nobody can change the past, but you can change the future.... Nobody can live the past, but you can live the present... What you want today may not be what you want tomorrow... Who you are today may not be who you are tomorrow...? Future... A change of the present... Since it's a CHANGE, there's no ABSOLUTE to it... You can plan for the future, but it's no absolute... Things might still change... Before you know it, you might be losing both the present and your future.... Existence in a 'dimension' of nowhere present.... Life wasted off...?
