a gal ask me if i like her...
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well....i was pop by such qns today....
we only noe each other for a month plus......she has been going out with me lately....tot we r juz frds....but she seems to show me that she likes me....
yesterday went to haf dinner wif her....and then we went shopping.....she bought food to cook for today...and she asked me to eat her cooking....
well....tot it would juz be a normal meal at her house......
but later....she cooked and we eat together....watch tv together..and den she pop out the qns.....
i was stunted and dunno how to ans....i ask her y she ask such qns????
i can see she was heartbroken....kinda sad.....
after the show....i told her i gotta go home because i gotta work the next day....i looked into her eyes and i can see that she is unhappy.....
i dun wanna spoil our frdship.....hai....oso dunno what to do.!! -
Gosh!!! i have a lady.... also..like this.... but...she still have not pop out the qns yet.....hmmmm....but... luckily..i am interested in her...if not... will a bit.... pai...seh..hehehehee
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you dun like her ? then tell her straight and keep her as friendsOriginally posted by Jaws:well....i was pop by such qns today....
we only noe each other for a month plus......she has been going out with me lately....tot we r juz frds....but she seems to show me that she likes me....
yesterday went to haf dinner wif her....and then we went shopping.....she bought food to cook for today...and she asked me to eat her cooking....
well....tot it would juz be a normal meal at her house......
but later....she cooked and we eat together....watch tv together..and den she pop out the qns.....
i was stunted and dunno how to ans....i ask her y she ask such qns????
i can see she was heartbroken....kinda sad.....
after the show....i told her i gotta go home because i gotta work the next day....i looked into her eyes and i can see that she is unhappy.....
i dun wanna spoil our frdship.....hai....oso dunno what to do.!!
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It all boils down to how you truly feel about her? Such things cannot really be forced... Probably would be quite meaningless if you're just to 'entertain' her....?Originally posted by Jaws:well....i was pop by such qns today....
we only noe each other for a month plus......she has been going out with me lately....tot we r juz frds....but she seems to show me that she likes me....
yesterday went to haf dinner wif her....and then we went shopping.....she bought food to cook for today...and she asked me to eat her cooking....
well....tot it would juz be a normal meal at her house......
but later....she cooked and we eat together....watch tv together..and den she pop out the qns.....
i was stunted and dunno how to ans....i ask her y she ask such qns????
i can see she was heartbroken....kinda sad.....
after the show....i told her i gotta go home because i gotta work the next day....i looked into her eyes and i can see that she is unhappy.....
i dun wanna spoil our frdship.....hai....oso dunno what to do.!! -
well both of u like to hang out together why is tt? she has feelings for you but then wat about you?
sometimes the person whom best suits u n loves u the most is rite under yr nose. jus ask yourslf if u wer to lose her. how wld u feel. -
Agree..agree..if u like her but just because u dun wan to spoil the frendship between both of u then it's realli "Ben Dan!!"..Originally posted by skeujin:well both of u like to hang out together why is tt? she has feelings for you but then wat about you?
sometimes the person whom best suits u n loves u the most is rite under yr nose. jus ask yourslf if u wer to lose her. how wld u feel.
But if u sincerly only wan both of u to be friends..and tt's really wad u feel abt her.."Only Friends"..then u haf to tell her..dun lead her on k..hmmm..also take note..be sure of ur feelings..coz if u reject her this time..there might now be anymore next chance..
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give it a careful thought..u wont go to a girl's house and eat her cooking and hang out with her so often if u dont have a slightest feeling for her...? thats my personal view, may not be for ur case
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whoa! she must have been super frustrated that it took you forever to get the hint.
ONE month only???!!! geeze..go for her dude -
i din tell her straight as i dun wanna hurt her pride....Originally posted by jasmine17:you dun like her ? then tell her straight and keep her as friends
i kinda avoid those qns and still kip her as frd. -
i dun haf much feelings for her rite now....maybe i need time.Originally posted by AzRaeL:whoa! she must have been super frustrated that it took you forever to get the hint.
ONE month only???!!! geeze..go for her dude -
Maybe ur feelings are still hiden from u
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You don't like the physical aspects of her?Originally posted by Jaws:well....i was pop by such qns today....
we only noe each other for a month plus......she has been going out with me lately....tot we r juz frds....but she seems to show me that she likes me....
yesterday went to haf dinner wif her....and then we went shopping.....she bought food to cook for today...and she asked me to eat her cooking....
well....tot it would juz be a normal meal at her house......
but later....she cooked and we eat together....watch tv together..and den she pop out the qns.....
i was stunted and dunno how to ans....i ask her y she ask such qns????
i can see she was heartbroken....kinda sad.....
after the show....i told her i gotta go home because i gotta work the next day....i looked into her eyes and i can see that she is unhappy.....
i dun wanna spoil our frdship.....hai....oso dunno what to do.!! -
hmm...i dun go for physical....mainly the chemistry in betwin.Originally posted by Doenitz:You don't like the physical aspects of her? -
Originally posted by Jaws:well....i was pop by such qns today....
we only noe each other for a month plus......she has been going out with me lately....tot we r juz frds....but she seems to show me that she likes me....
yesterday went to haf dinner wif her....and then we went shopping.....she bought food to cook for today...and she asked me to eat her cooking....
well....tot it would juz be a normal meal at her house......
but later....she cooked and we eat together....watch tv together..and den she pop out the qns.....
i was stunted and dunno how to ans....i ask her y she ask such qns????
i can see she was heartbroken....kinda sad.....
after the show....i told her i gotta go home because i gotta work the next day....i looked into her eyes and i can see that she is unhappy.....
i dun wanna spoil our frdship.....hai....oso dunno what to do.!! You lucky man, just one month and the ger express interest in you.
But if you dun have the special feeling for her, have to let her know one way or the other. Dun lead her on and give her false hope.
As a MAN, you have to be firm on what you need and what you like. Dun be wishy-washy. -
better say now...drag somemore it will be harder and harder
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Ya loh..dun drag things..dun be so wishy-washy..
In the end..u will end up with nothing..
If u like her..tell her...
If u dun..tell her it's not time yet..say it in a nice way hor..u never know if u will like her in the future..lOlx..
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if u like also...then tell lah..sinces she ask u le....why still deny... be brave n say yes if u like ...if no then say no lor.. simple
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if u love her tell her so...
if u are confuse of ur feeling let her noe and ask her give u more time..
if you are sure u dun love her...tell her dun lead her on....and give her wrong feeling
everything still lies on u....
everything has its own solution, if you dun wan to solve it, it will always be left dangling... -
steady! i like this answer..Originally posted by NeonTetra:give it a careful thought..u wont go to a girl's house and eat her cooking and hang out with her so often if u dont have a slightest feeling for her...? thats my personal view, may not be for ur case -
i tot i'm juz being frd wif her....going to her hse is juz purely for dinner....i din even wanna touch her...but instead....she hold my arms when watching tv and lean her head on my shoulder....Originally posted by NeonTetra:give it a careful thought..u wont go to a girl's house and eat her cooking and hang out with her so often if u dont have a slightest feeling for her...? thats my personal view, may not be for ur case
i really duno how to react....
hai...
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For bloody goodness sake, don't be so wishy and washy and be honest with her about your feelings. The longer you refrain from telling her how you feel, the more you are going to hurt her in the long run.
It is possible to reject someone with tact. No doubt a rejection hurts no matter how gently one puts it across. But at least its better than you leading her on.