Its more about what he wants out from this relationship - a half-hearted, couldn't care much less guy wouldn't learn the value of treasure because, crudely put, you don't really meant much to him. Or simply, he has never enter into a proper relationship before.Originally posted by jeslin:what would you do if your bf takes you for granted? how to let him cherish me more?
This relationship even need your mutual friends to reassure for him about his love for you?Originally posted by jeslin:but he's those dun care dun care type lor.. once i asked him, if i dun care about him, then he say he oso bo chub lor.. i dun care abt him, den he heck care me lor..
our friends assure me that he's really like me.. but he has really take me for granted.. when i ask him if he wanna see me... he says dun mind, anything... when i ask him to accompany me for the night, he says next time... whats dun mind? whats next time? whats anything? do i mean anything to him? guys.. can u plz tell me how ur brain works?
that's me, before my gf break up with me...Originally posted by jeslin:but he's those dun care dun care type lor.. once i asked him, if i dun care about him, then he say he oso bo chub lor.. i dun care abt him, den he heck care me lor..
our friends assure me that he's really like me.. but he has really take me for granted.. when i ask him if he wanna see me... he says dun mind, anything... when i ask him to accompany me for the night, he says next time... whats dun mind? whats next time? whats anything? do i mean anything to him? guys.. can u plz tell me how ur brain works?
Originally posted by jeslin:i'm with him for 1 year plus liao [from last patch].. we broke and patched alot times.. if i count the total time we have been together, i think we are together for more than 3 years. there's once he fell for another girl, but he came back, so, from then on, i afraid of him go away again, treat him better. maybe too good liao..
now he says he wans freedom.. but he has lots of it already.. i just need him just to be there.. thats all. am i too posessive?
dere's no way to let him cherish u more..only hope tt things turn out better.. mi too, was in a similar situation as u b4, treat him TOO gd..in e end..Originally posted by jeslin:what would you do if your bf takes you for granted? how to let him cherish me more?

Originally posted by archie84:
hai !!!
sometime i really hope to have a girlfriend like you , a ger who care . My girlfriend is something like your boyfriend and i think even[b]WORST
She totally dont care about me !!! sometime i think letting her go , but ......but...... just cant gather myself to do it . i treat her so good that i think she take for granted .
hai !!! thats life ........ guess when you lose a person then you will really appreciated them !!!
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relationships are like a heart, u must learn how to contract and relax at the right time.. sometimes u have to be good to him, at times u have to be firm and make ur stand, at times u be a little demanding, at times be cheeky.Originally posted by jeslin:what would you do if your bf takes you for granted? how to let him cherish me more?
How about finding someone who can cherish you more?Originally posted by jeslin:what would you do if your bf takes you for granted? how to let him cherish me more?
Wah, who is that girl? So power!Originally posted by the Bear:i've changed... since i met her..
Originally posted by Honeybunz:Wah, who is that girl? So power!
Sorry to hear about your problem! Well, to my point of view... some people will never learn how to cherish someone special or be happy and content with what they have until they lose it. Its the same with me... we are going through the same problem. The only different is that mine lasted for 6 years before finally breakingOriginally posted by jeslin:i'm with him for 1 year plus liao [from last patch].. we broke and patched alot times.. if i count the total time we have been together, i think we are together for more than 3 years. there's once he fell for another girl, but he came back, so, from then on, i afraid of him go away again, treat him better. maybe too good liao..
now he says he wans freedom.. but he has lots of it already.. i just need him just to be there.. thats all. am i too posessive?