first date
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had a date today after breaking up with a same girl a year ago. *haA had a nice warm hug and a kiss after seeing her home. nice !
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u wanna patch back with her?
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well,i've already done so 2 days ago. now, im really questioning whether i should have.Originally posted by tequila:u wanna patch back with her?
she says she loves me but im upset to learn that she has changed so much during the year. really hurts me to see her this way. jus felt that by being her bf, i could probably have a foothold in her life. really hope to influence her but it seems almost impossible.
a year back, she was the one who initiate the breakup. a month after the breakup, i found out that she was attached and stuffs. was really hurt and betrayed back then. managed to overcome it after several months. its hard to forget one's first love.
a couple of days ago,she mailed me a card, telling me how much she missed those memories with me and all that stuffs. was kinda taken-aback and found myself saying yes to her. and its not long before i saw how different she was.
its not about jus merely accepting her for the way she is. i loveher for who she is. but am i making the right choice ? my friends told me to follow my heart but i think that would really lead to nowhere. i've once placed my heart above my head and found myself in the deepest pitts. wish to think rationale now. should i jus continue being with her ? really hurts. -
There's no right or wrong, it's just a CHOICE...Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:well,i've already done so 2 days ago. now, im really questioning whether i should have.
she says she loves me but im upset to learn that she has changed so much during the year. really hurts me to see her this way. jus felt that by being her bf, i could probably have a foothold in her life. really hope to influence her but it seems almost impossible.
a year back, she was the one who initiate the breakup. a month after the breakup, i found out that she was attached and stuffs. was really hurt and betrayed back then. managed to overcome it after several months. its hard to forget one's first love.
a couple of days ago,she mailed me a card, telling me how much she missed those memories with me and all that stuffs. was kinda taken-aback and found myself saying yes to her. and its not long before i saw how different she was.
its not about jus merely accepting her for the way she is. i loveher for who she is. but am i making the right choice ? my friends told me to follow my heart but i think that would really lead to nowhere. i've once placed my heart above my head and found myself in the deepest pitts. wish to think rationale now. should i jus continue being with her ? really hurts.
Whether your choice is right, only time will tell...? -
bluekev... this part:
a year back, she was the one who initiate the breakup. a month after the breakup, i found out that she was attached and stuffs. was really hurt and betrayed back then. managed to overcome it after several months. its hard to forget one's first love.
where did she "betray" you?? -
U love her for who is she.. but she had changed .. will u still love her? can u still accept her? she miss u becos she miss the time both of u were together? but things could never be the same...Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:well,i've already done so 2 days ago. now, im really questioning whether i should have.
she says she loves me but im upset to learn that she has changed so much during the year. really hurts me to see her this way. jus felt that by being her bf, i could probably have a foothold in her life. really hope to influence her but it seems almost impossible.
a year back, she was the one who initiate the breakup. a month after the breakup, i found out that she was attached and stuffs. was really hurt and betrayed back then. managed to overcome it after several months. its hard to forget one's first love.
a couple of days ago,she mailed me a card, telling me how much she missed those memories with me and all that stuffs. was kinda taken-aback and found myself saying yes to her. and its not long before i saw how different she was.
its not about jus merely accepting her for the way she is. i loveher for who she is. but am i making the right choice ? my friends told me to follow my heart but i think that would really lead to nowhere. i've once placed my heart above my head and found myself in the deepest pitts. wish to think rationale now. should i jus continue being with her ? really hurts.
i suggest u treat everything as a fresh start... dun keep thinking about the past.. maybe u will get to love her even more? if u feel tat u do not like her anymore.. and just wanna get back the oldtimes feeling.. i suggest u leave her.. dun hurt her.. tats my view... -
think he's saying his ex got attached juz 1 month after they broke off.. he felt betrayed loh..Originally posted by the Bear:bluekev... this part:
where did she "betray" you?? -
not girlfriend anymore, betray what?Originally posted by tequila:think he's saying his ex got attached juz 1 month after they broke off.. he felt betrayed loh..
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The thing about going back to a past relationship is that its a total new feel altogether, even though it may involve the same person.Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:well,i've already done so 2 days ago. now, im really questioning whether i should have.
she says she loves me but im upset to learn that she has changed so much during the year. really hurts me to see her this way. jus felt that by being her bf, i could probably have a foothold in her life. really hope to influence her but it seems almost impossible.
a year back, she was the one who initiate the breakup. a month after the breakup, i found out that she was attached and stuffs. was really hurt and betrayed back then. managed to overcome it after several months. its hard to forget one's first love.
a couple of days ago,she mailed me a card, telling me how much she missed those memories with me and all that stuffs. was kinda taken-aback and found myself saying yes to her. and its not long before i saw how different she was.
its not about jus merely accepting her for the way she is. i loveher for who she is. but am i making the right choice ? my friends told me to follow my heart but i think that would really lead to nowhere. i've once placed my heart above my head and found myself in the deepest pitts. wish to think rationale now. should i jus continue being with her ? really hurts.
Time change, people change, money talk. There are many characteristic about her that no longer hold true - the good, bad and the ugly. So if you are thinking whether you should accept her -you have to start knowing her from the beginning altogether.
P.S: Good horse don't eat backward grass (if you know what I mean). You could heed your heart - however be sure that its not a repeat history again. Afterall, love is about making the suitable long/short term choice that seemed right at that point of time. You were naive once - but you gain experience. Use it to assist you this time around.
Cheers