what would u do if u were me......
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hi guys....
i have a little problem here.its like this...there's this guy who's been chasing my gf since a few weeks ago.tat guy got my gf's hp no.thru his friend.so my gf never really gave her no.to him,talk abt "how to get a girl's number"! well...he began to sms her often,mushy stuff included.my gf showed it to me everytime he sms-ed her.
Thus,i'm sure there's nothing going on between my gf and him.but wats bothering me now is that after my gf told him that she's not interested in him or anything,the guy seems like not accepting e fact.in fact,he kept on sms my gf.my gf never bothers abt him though.she just ignored his sms.btw,now..this guy is getting from bad to worse.recently,he managed to find out my gf's ICQ no. and began to constantly message her there.
i'm getting abit impatient here....i wonder wat actions should i take?
Thanks all in advance!
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Even though many a times, this calls for a good scolding, beating. etc. BUT, the best course to steer through this is pure ignore from your gf. Wanna sms, let him waste that cash. Wanna call, would never pick up. Wanna ICQ, will never reply back. The list goes on.Originally posted by H-Profile:hi guys....
i have a little problem here.its like this...there's this guy who's been chasing my gf since a few weeks ago.tat guy got my gf's hp no.thru his friend.so my gf never really gave her no.to him,talk abt "how to get a girl's number"! well...he began to sms her often,mushy stuff included.my gf showed it to me everytime he sms-ed her.
Thus,i'm sure there's nothing going on between my gf and him.but wats bothering me now is that after my gf told him that she's not interested in him or anything,the guy seems like not accepting e fact.in fact,he kept on sms my gf.my gf never bothers abt him though.she just ignored his sms.btw,now..this guy is getting from bad to worse.recently,he managed to find out my gf's ICQ no. and began to constantly message her there.
i'm getting abit impatient here....i wonder wat actions should i take?
Thanks all in advance!
The greatest turn off and insult to someone is pure ignore - trust me.
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Yunhaier,didnt expect u to be e 1st to offer advice to me.u really make sensible suggestions.that's wat i told my gf to do,to ignore him totally.but only a few days ago,i and her were waiting for her friend,then he walked past and even said "hi" to my gf in my presence.in e past,he would never do that.
Does that mean anything? i would never to resort to violence or anything no doubt.but i just want my gf to have some peace.so i told her not to only ignore his sms or icq msg,but also ignore his presence e next time she sees him around.
PS:thank you for ur kind advice Yunhaier! btw,can i know ur age if its convenient? -
ayaih easy larz juz fake him larz.......like telling him u've seen everything about ur gf larz or ............dun wan mention larz....if got more disgusting the better...it will create negative toughts on her hehehhehehee...muahahahhaz
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Originally posted by H-Profile:
The key issue lies within your gf and the only problem that could happen is that IF she responded to him, which is of course, the opposite from this.
Yunhaier,didnt expect u to be e 1st to offer advice to me.u really make sensible suggestions.that's wat i told my gf to do,to ignore him totally.but only a few days ago,i and her were waiting for her friend,then he walked past and even said "hi" to my gf in my presence.in e past,he would never do that.
[b]Does that mean anything? i would never to resort to violence or anything no doubt.but i just want my gf to have some peace.so i told her not to only ignore his sms or icq msg,but also ignore his presence e next time she sees him around.
PS:thank you for ur kind advice Yunhaier! btw,can i know ur age if its convenient? [/b]
How old? Getting old liao, but not that old to consider damn old.
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trying to conceal ur age? come on...say la.ok..make things easier for u.all u have to say is whether if u are above 21? how abt that,fair enuff?
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All I can say is if I see you real life, I would tell you without hesistation.Originally posted by H-Profile: trying to conceal ur age? come on...say la.ok..make things easier for u.all u have to say is whether if u are above 21? how abt that,fair enuff? -
h-profile....i think it is a litmus test for u...on how to deal with such matters calmly....while ur gf is watching...
but yeah i agree if ur gf ignores that guy...think the guy will give up one day....unless that guy is a psycho or what....~if ur gf really loves u she wont betray you... -
a choke-slam comes to mind...
however, it would not be mine to inflict on him... it would be my girl's action that is most important.... it is for her to tell him to piss off...
after that, it would be mine to enforce his distance from her...
hopefully not through violence no matter what comes to mind and how satisfying it would be.... if he keeps harrassing her (note the word "harrass"), both of you can get a restraining order... if he tries anything again, he will be put behind bars... -
ok then Yunhaier,i shall not insist on knowing ur age.ya..i think thats only what i can do for the time being.be on her side and trust her!
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Originally posted by H-Profile:ok then Yunhaier,i shall not insist on knowing ur age.ya..i think thats only what i can do for the time being.be on her side and trust her!
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well, u sldnt get worried so much n sld feel happy cos it show that ur gf love u deeply. maybe u can give that man a warnin askin him nt to haress ur gf now n ever......