Originally posted by akino:if he really loves u alot,he will try his best 2 spend time wif u...if he really loves u,he wun think tt u betray him coz u went out wif yr guy frens..u still have the freedom to go out wif yr frens..if he really loves u,he will believe watever u say n not doubt u..if he's serious n really loves u,he will forget the past n start everything all over again...
help me! i love my bf very much. n he is confuse n sianz in this relationship. he love me too he said..... i'm sad very sad. i cried very night. i cant forget the past we were very loving. until he started to mixed with his friends more n we started meeting less. one day i went out wit my friend(guy) to choose a present for his freind. i didnt tell him coz itz only a short while then i go home. another time was i went out with a friend(guy) to c a show coz all my friends seen the show n i did ask my bf wanna see wit me he said he going to see with his friends.... n so my friend ask me wanna see or not then i said ok. he knoes i have a bf le. all my friends noe i have bf le.... i'm really very sad. i love him alot. he said i betray him which i didnt. i didnt two timer. i said a million of sorries. i made him cards wrote him letters..... burn him cds.... help me..... how to continue this relationship? i told him to forget about the past n continue.... he said ok but it was a lie.... he didint forget. i know itz difficult i did empathize him.... i tired my best to keep this relationship.... he loves me alot too.....[/b]
Originally posted by akino:Forget about the CDs and tons of letters... TELL him that you DIDN'T 2-timed him and that's a FACT.... Take it or LEAVE it..... If he likes to make 'something' out of nothings, tell him to CARRY ON with his 'FANTASIES'..... Why should you be entertaining his STUPIDITY and ANGER created out of nothing...?
help me! i love my bf very much. n he is confuse n sianz in this relationship. he love me too he said..... i'm sad very sad. i cried very night. i cant forget the past we were very loving. until he started to mixed with his friends more n we started meeting less. one day i went out wit my friend(guy) to choose a present for his freind. i didnt tell him coz itz only a short while then i go home. another time was i went out with a friend(guy) to c a show coz all my friends seen the show n i did ask my bf wanna see wit me he said he going to see with his friends.... n so my friend ask me wanna see or not then i said ok. he knoes i have a bf le. all my friends noe i have bf le.... i'm really very sad. i love him alot. he said i betray him which i didnt. i didnt two timer. i said a million of sorries. i made him cards wrote him letters..... burn him cds.... help me..... how to continue this relationship? i told him to forget about the past n continue.... he said ok but it was a lie.... he didint forget. i know itz difficult i did empathize him.... i tired my best to keep this relationship.... he loves me alot too.....[/b]
I agree... maybe he wanted to break but dont wanna be the bad guy so after doing all these to u he wish that u will initiate the break...Originally posted by De|usi0n:maybe he was looking for any reason to ditch you..saying loving you is better than rejecting you, which you will be sadden ever more.
Originally posted by akino:
help me! i love my bf very much. n he is confuse n sianz in this relationship. he love me too he said..... i'm sad very sad. i cried very night. i cant forget the past we were very loving. until he started to mixed with his friends more n we started meeting less. one day i went out wit my friend(guy) to choose a present for his freind. i didnt tell him coz itz only a short while then i go home. another time was i went out with a friend(guy) to c a show coz all my friends seen the show n i did ask my bf wanna see wit me he said he going to see with his friends.... n so my friend ask me wanna see or not then i said ok. he knoes i have a bf le. all my friends noe i have bf le.... i'm really very sad. i love him alot. he said i betray him which i didnt. i didnt two timer. i said a million of sorries. i made him cards wrote him letters..... burn him cds.... help me..... how to continue this relationship? i told him to forget about the past n continue.... he said ok but it was a lie.... he didint forget. i know itz difficult i did empathize him.... i tired my best to keep this relationship.... he loves me alot too.....[/b]
Since you never fell for any of the guys, why apology to when he accuse you of doing two-timing, something which you never did. This is so ridiculous. A guy, presuming his gf two-timing him, break up this relationship, without concrete evidence, paradoxically with his gf explaination that says otherwise.Originally posted by akino:Replying to yunhaier....
nope i nv fell for other guys... i said sorry coz i didnt inform him tat i went out with my friend.... everytime i jio him out he dun wan... his excuse is leg pain after soccer... tired.... or something will kok up. i always feeling the disappointment. very pain.... really.... i always ask myself wats love? i really love him or wat... but the answer is yup. i nv love a guy so deeply... before we get together we were "di ren" cannot get along... but dunno why like tat.... he always break his promise.... "nv expect anything liaoz" tired liaoz...![]()
There is no such thing as love too much - whenever love and effort is input into a relationship and you witnessed the destruction right in front of you - you bleed inside.Originally posted by akino:ya right! itz logical... i'm stupid foolish. i juz regret tat love him too much.it hurts me alot.... all my sisters r hurt to c me in this state. yue xian yue shen....... i let down my pride coz of this relationship. he is taking me for granted. he is not caring anymore....![]()
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You have been to naive and soft in your approach to your own relationship. Yes, its a positive point - however, when issues conflicts your relationship, you have to lead it - instead of being in passive mode. Let me enlighten you about some possible comments/questions/statements you could trash at your bf and see how he reply.Originally posted by akino:yesterday i went to meet him... at first he said 8pm then he said 10. coz he meeting his family... then say 2-3 coz go song ka... then said final 3.30. i waited at his block alone till 4.15.... hiaz.... my friends said i give in to him alot le.... yesterday he apologise to me n ask for patch up. i said i c first... he said sorry alot of times.... he said he still love me. i said if u tell me last time i will xin luan.... he ask me whether i still love him i pause a while n said yes. then he ask whether feeling has faded... i pause awhile n said nope... i ask him y treat me so bad always bo hiu me? he said coz wat i done last time.... n he said he will treat me better n try to forget.... i said i cant forget how he treat me... (bad)... he said we try to forget... i kept quiet...![]()
Originally posted by akino:
help me! i love my bf very much. n he is confuse n sianz in this relationship. he love me too he said..... i'm sad very sad. i cried very night. i cant forget the past we were very loving. until he started to mixed with his friends more n we started meeting less. one day i went out wit my friend(guy) to choose a present for his freind. i didnt tell him coz itz only a short while then i go home. another time was i went out with a friend(guy) to c a show coz all my friends seen the show n i did ask my bf wanna see wit me he said he going to see with his friends.... n so my friend ask me wanna see or not then i said ok. he knoes i have a bf le. all my friends noe i have bf le.... i'm really very sad. i love him alot. he said i betray him which i didnt. i didnt two timer. i said a million of sorries. i made him cards wrote him letters..... burn him cds.... help me..... how to continue this relationship? i told him to forget about the past n continue.... he said ok but it was a lie.... he didint forget. i know itz difficult i did empathize him.... i tired my best to keep this relationship.... he loves me alot too.....[/b]
Originally posted by akino:Conflicts, conflicts and conflicts - actually most comflicts can be solved - just that in a heated argument, people often say the things they don't want to say or feel helpless and had to break off the relationship .
humm.... i intiate the break up not him... we quarrel quarrel quarrel.... then i wanna patch things up coz i tired of it... he got angry n [b]bai jia zi then like climb up to my head liaoz i cant take it then i break. n he will call for a patch up... haiz.... now my feeling is sianz already i wont wait for his call or msg. i put in all i can. everytime we quarrel he will say...u only got one good point tat is wheneva we quarrel u will take the initiative to apologise first! is it every guy at first treat their gal so good n after few months they wont bring their gal out liaoz.... i so long nv go out wit my bf liaoz....anyway thanx pals for listening to my probs... n giving me advice[/b]
Originally posted by akino:yup... i think for the time being.... i'll relax.... if he really love me he will take the first move. hum.... i will just put aside everything. thanx for all advices. i'll take note. thanx pals.[/img]