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I have been with this guy for about a year, the two of us are rather happy together, with few quarrels and many common interests. But from the start I dun really have feel like I love him, as I dun get the adreline rush when I meet him or when are close together. Issit possible to love someone without feeling love? I dun know if i should continue with him..Someone give me suggestions? I really confuse..
thanks
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This is a critical issue and it works different from people to people. The thing about devoloping feelings from zero is possible - however, when you go along the route of your life and when get to know another guy who give you an entire different feeling - chances are, you will succumb.Originally posted by true|y03:I have been with this guy for about a year, the two of us are rather happy together, with few quarrels and many common interests. But from the start I dun really have feel like I love him, as I dun get the adreline rush when I meet him or when are close together. Issit possible to love someone without feeling love? I dun know if i should continue with him..Someone give me suggestions? I really confuse..
thanks 
You have been with him for a year and still no much feelings - seriously speaking, in the first place, why did you agree to be in this relationship?
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the reason i first went into a relationship with him is becoz me and him share a lot of common interests, and he can make me very happy. I was also hoping that feelings would develop as time goes on, as he really is too good to give a miss.. oh well..
succumb? I did meet some guys that give me the crush feelings, but i survived hahah..
Anyway, thanks tons for your reply
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Do u still happy when u with him?
In a relationship tats it ups and downs, u might feel a bit boring at times too. Dun give up o easily if he's so good.. -
Crush feeling is probably not enough - when the deadly karmic one strikes, it will be fatal. Common interest is a good foundation for a lasting relationship - but it does not equate to love. As for the making-you-happy part - its a should-have in a relationship - but all these still does not equate to love.Originally posted by true|y03:the reason i first went into a relationship with him is becoz me and him share a lot of common interests, and he can make me very happy. I was also hoping that feelings would develop as time goes on, as he really is too good to give a miss.. oh well..
succumb? I did meet some guys that give me the crush feelings, but i survived hahah..
Anyway, thanks tons for your reply
Too good to give a miss? Well, What's use of entering into a relationship with the best guy this world could ever offer when the feelings is not right and probably appreciation is not as deep?
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Love is not neccessarily about rush of adrenaline flow.... Hmm... Somehow I've got a feeling that you read too much romance novels already...?Originally posted by true|y03:I have been with this guy for about a year, the two of us are rather happy together, with few quarrels and many common interests. But from the start I dun really have feel like I love him, as I dun get the adreline rush when I meet him or when are close together. Issit possible to love someone without feeling love? I dun know if i should continue with him..Someone give me suggestions? I really confuse..
thanks