Family Matters

• cool_ridge

  20 Jul 03, 13:11

  I know being Asian means it is okay for your parents to hit u (ie. slap, cane, etc)
  
  But nowadays I grow older so less already...they more or less like bo chap about me already....
  
  But yesterday ah, I had this like big big argument with my ma...she got kinda angry so I kenah slap loh...but then ah, after that I also dunno why, I hit my ma back leh...on the arm...
  
  Shit man...i deeply regret doing this...and I'm kinda scared to look at her face now....
  
  I know i deserve all your shit scoldings and insult etc etc...but can anyone suggest what i should do now?
• wuming78

  20 Jul 03, 13:15

  Originally posted by cool_ridge:

  I know being Asian means it is okay for your parents to hit u (ie. slap, cane, etc)
  
  But nowadays I grow older so less already...they more or less like bo chap about me already....
  
  But yesterday ah, I had this like big big argument with my ma...she got kinda angry so I kenah slap loh...but then ah, after that I also dunno why, I hit my ma back leh...on the arm...
  
  Shit man...i deeply regret doing this...and I'm kinda scared to look at her face now....
  
  I know i deserve all your shit scoldings and insult etc etc...but can anyone suggest what i should do now?

  you should go and apologise to her. then take the opportunity to relook at the issue that caused the argument, and try to talk it over calmly. have a third neutral person involved if possible, just so to keep the discussion focused and to facilitate. in the end if you are sincere im sure your mother will forgive you.
• jinfa

  20 Jul 03, 18:36

  jay chou~mai kor ah nei pa wo MaMa~
• akino

  21 Jul 03, 11:21

  humm i think u should apologise her. n be good boy loh... por her loh... think ur problem carefuly n see who is right or who is in the wrong then talk to her loh. if she is in the wrong just talk nicely to her... why she wrong. u dun do tat nxt time boy... all the best
• Master -_-

  21 Jul 03, 11:23

  Dear friend, at least you have a mum, to do that to you... Cherish your mum while she is still alive or u will regret when the day comes you wish she would slap you again..
  
  I always wanted to be slapped by a mother
• Devil1976

  21 Jul 03, 17:52

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  Dear friend, at least you have a mum, to do that to you... Cherish your mum while she is still alive or u will regret when the day comes you wish she would slap you again..
  
  I always wanted to be slapped by a mother

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