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Halo everyone..i got a problem...i got a crush on a girl who is older than me 2 yrs old..she is 22 while i am 20 yrs old...My fren told me that she will not like me as i am younger than her...Yet once she will called my name happily and when we make eye contacts,she will smile brightly at me..
I thinking of asking her out on a date....well what do u all guys think? -
I think u think too much
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what do u mean of thinking too much?
u mean ta coz i found her smiling at me brightly then i tinking of asking out for a date? -
Originally posted by universe:Halo everyone..i got a problem...i got a crush on a girl who is older than me 2 yrs old..she is 22 while i am 20 yrs old...My fren told me that she will not like me as i am younger than her...Yet once she will called my name happily and when we make eye contacts,she will smile brightly at me..
I thinking of asking her out on a date....well what do u all guys think?
2 Years only wor, why fear?
If I said you have a chance with her - would you listen to me or your friend?
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age is not a problem. never let that hinders u. love is not all about age mah..........go for her if u like her.Originally posted by universe:Halo everyone..i got a problem...i got a crush on a girl who is older than me 2 yrs old..she is 22 while i am 20 yrs old...My fren told me that she will not like me as i am younger than her...Yet once she will called my name happily and when we make eye contacts,she will smile brightly at me..
I thinking of asking her out on a date....well what do u all guys think?
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Relationship happens in many different stages. We all start off by getting to know the person, before we decide if this person is someone we can spend our time/life with. Hence, it's in the getting-to-know-you stage that you can find out more about her and also about her feelings with regards to dating someone younger than her. It may be an issue with some but other gals have no qualms about it. Hence, it's very much up to her. Before you plunge any deeper, find out her views first. In that way, you can prevent yourself from gettign hurt.
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Go woo her lah. As long as you love her, she love you, age doesn't matter. Whats more you're just 2 year difference only.
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even 10 yrs diff also does not matter.. as long as u love her..
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My thought's the same...Originally posted by pool.gal:Relationship happens in many different stages. We all start off by getting to know the person, before we decide if this person is someone we can spend our time/life with. Hence, it's in the getting-to-know-you stage that you can find out more about her and also about her feelings with regards to dating someone younger than her. It may be an issue with some but other gals have no qualms about it. Hence, it's very much up to her. Before you plunge any deeper, find out her views first. In that way, you can prevent yourself from gettign hurt.
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u can always start off with a little grp outing....make it a 3 people outing or sth... then if u think u can try to go for a personal outing with her....go ahead....
i think if the girl is willing, age doesnt really matter in r/ships...
i think the girl seems to be receptive towards you...~thats already a good sign. -
my gf is 2 years older than me. wat do u think then ?
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Originally posted by universe:Halo everyone..i got a problem...i got a crush on a girl who is older than me 2 yrs old..she is 22 while i am 20 yrs old...My fren told me that she will not like me as i am younger than her...Yet once she will called my name happily and when we make eye contacts,she will smile brightly at me..
I thinking of asking her out on a date....well what do u all guys think? What if you don't know she's 2 years older than you? -
The thing is that she told my fren that she dun want to haf a bf that is younger than her..anyway she got a bf lor...Originally posted by Parka: What if you don't know she's 2 years older than you? -
The thing is that she told my fren that she dun want to haf a bf that is younger than her..anyway she got a bf lor...Originally posted by Parka: What if you don't know she's 2 years older than you? -
oh...thats the problem.....
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"haha"Originally posted by NeonTetra:oh...thats the problem.....
anyway thanks for all ya comments... -
you can still try lor...maybe u can change her mind on accepting younger bf?
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Maybe...maybe not...be frenz 1st lor..hahaa..Originally posted by NeonTetra:you can still try lor...maybe u can change her mind on accepting younger bf? -
true....always be friends first. mai kan cheong................
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i dun think u can even see the age difference.. sine u both puberty finish liao.. not lyk 12 and 14 years old.. calling ur name doesnt mean anything ritE?
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Originally posted by InVaa:i dun think u can even see the age difference.. sine u both puberty finish liao.. not lyk 12 and 14 years old.. calling ur name doesnt mean anything ritE?
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eh yah i did not say got means things mah.... anyway thanks..Originally posted by InVaa:i dun think u can even see the age difference.. sine u both puberty finish liao.. not lyk 12 and 14 years old.. calling ur name doesnt mean anything ritE?
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I wonder if it's even a question you need to consider if she's with someone right now... How would you feel if you her boyfriend? On the other hand, it may be good to know that it is an issue for her. In future, find out more about the other person before investing your emotions in it. It may be futile to talk about al this since she's off the market...
If there is someone else who is older than you (who is available) that comes which arouses your interests, you may want to check out the possibility of it being worked out for her. Most women do not look for younger guys cos of maturity. another issue is she may be financially more stable than him and it may sit down well with him or her....
just some thoughts...