thought someone else posted a similar question before?
it was discussed along the line of the maturity level of the relevant parties (ex bf/gf and gal/guy friend).
it bottoms down to how one think in this aspect.
Say for instance, A and B were couple once, but didn't quite get along bcoz of some factors, thus broke off. C is a friend of A. After A and B were no longer together, B definitely has his/her own rights to go for his/her own happiness. Even if in the case C and A knows each other. But bear in mind, that A and B can no longer be together, who B chooses as partner is actually of no relation to A. They're afterall leading their own lives. So in this aspect, who C is, is not important. Just happen that C knows A, is a friend of A.
It doesnt mean that if I cant be with this guy, my friend who might be more suitable than me for him, cannot be with him... Maybe try putting yourself in the shoes of all the parties involved will give yourself a better picture of what might happen..
Like what Devil said, there's no absolute in life... keep an open mind...
