Yunhaier's Karmic Scenario
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One day, you fell in love with this special person, whom in the end, became your bf/gf over the course of several months courtship. You feel that she is the one you probably going to last VERY long (not speaking on the basis of marriage, but if possible and if fate allows, it could happen). The both of you ride through the storms of your relationship and enjoy the aftermath through a period of probably 3 years.
You felt that she/he may be the one.... You felt that probably no one else would take his/her place... You were utterly wrong.
You got to know this person (I called it the 'One') and you finally discovered that ALL ALONG THIS LIFE, this is the person you are looking for. You went beserk, despair or even resigned to fate. Everything you desire and want in a lady/guy (physical + characteristic) is found in him/her. He/she is everything you need and ever hope for and probably if he/she becomes your partner - you would be quite certain marriage will be an option in the future.
What will you do? You still have feelings for your gf, but VERY strong attraction towards your 'One'. You felt that everyday you are missing not your gf/bf but the 'One' and your craving for him/her is getting more addictive every day of your life.
Then, one fine day, you discovered that she shared the same liking for you as well. You bleed inside from the turmoil and torment.
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seriously i thought of tat too. but i dunno wat to do..
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tricky indeed but it could be just initial attraction to the strong pts that u r looking for.it could cause u to overlook other issues.
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Probably just stick with gf.... What's 'one' and 'two' anyway...?Originally posted by Yunhaier:What will you do? What if another 'one' comes up after the 1st 'one'? 
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Originally posted by Devil1976:Probably just stick with gf.... What's 'one' and 'two' anyway...? What if another 'one' comes up after the 1st 'one'? No lar, probably no 'two' already. This is what you really want in a partner and could be found in 'One'. You are content and satisfied as whatever good points you desire, she/he has - whatever flaws she/he has, you can accept.
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firstly..ask urself 1 question"dang ni gu dang ni hui xiang qi shui???"
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gd 'one'....Originally posted by Devil1976:Probably just stick with gf.... What's 'one' and 'two' anyway...? What if another 'one' comes up after the 1st 'one'?
jokes aside, i would oso stick with gf cos shes been with u through time wheras, the 'one' onli looks to be the perfect match but doesnt mean both of u will be perfect when together..... -
Secondly, how long have you known "The One"
do you think you realy understand her? -
sigh... i used to hav 'the one'... till she migrated overseas... been 4 years liao still havnt gotten ovr her...
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Tsk tsk... guess quite a number of people would have this scenario happened in their life before.Originally posted by skeujin:sigh... i used to hav 'the one'... till she migrated overseas... been 4 years liao still havnt gotten ovr her... -
yup... but my biggest problm is always judging other gals by the standard tt she has set. i always wondered wat i wld do if she ever steps back in my life but im always stuck between saying yes n saying no cause she broke my heart.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Tsk tsk... guess quite a number of people would have this scenario happened in their life before. -
pple alwayz crave for things they can't or haven get hold of yet
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though the decision is made in such a strong way....
i won't give up on the r/s that i have, for someone i think can be "the one"
if it's a r/s that i've been in for some time, there shld be some level of comfort, and some level of love there, can't because of own selfishness, break a person's heart, and u won't guarentee that "the one" can really stay for that long too, rite???? -
Stay in my current relationship if i see it going somewhere.
The 'One' may just well be a short term thing, sometimes what u think you want may not really be whats right for you. Just like that plate of 'char kuay tiaw'
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I think i will still stick with the current gf. Since she can be my gf, she shldnt be too far off from what i want after all. Definitely she can also provide me with what i want too or maybe even more.
Can the 'One' fulfill these eventually???
I may end up in the middle of nowhere eventually if i give up on my gf now... and its not that we have fatal problems that we can't be together... cherish what we have when we still have it... -
i have waited for my "One" for the past 8 years...n im still waiting..goin a decade soon..sighz...so long..
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i will take the risk. the "One" -
Good point....Originally posted by BrUtUs:gd 'one'....
jokes aside, i would oso stick with gf cos shes been with u through time wheras, the 'one' onli looks to be the perfect match but doesnt mean both of u will be perfect when together.....
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Think I'll still stick with my gf... Over the past years of living, I've learnt that loving someone doesn't necessarily means that you have to stick with that someone.... But she's really such a 'perfect one', I would probably just have her as a friend (a good friend if possible) and study her...? It's probably gonna be quite an interesting thing...?Originally posted by Yunhaier: No lar, probably no 'two' already. This is what you really want in a partner and could be found in 'One'. You are content and satisfied as whatever good points you desire, she/he has - whatever flaws she/he has, you can accept. 
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tamade emotional
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:tamade emotional
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
if there is 'One' there will be 'Two', 'Three' in future. It will be never ending...
One day, you fell in love with this special person, whom in the end, became your bf/gf over the course of several months courtship. You feel that she is the one you probably going to last VERY long (not speaking on the basis of marriage, but if possible and if fate allows, it could happen). The both of you ride through the storms of your relationship and enjoy the aftermath through a period of probably 3 years. You felt that she/he may be the one.... You felt that probably no one else would take his/her place... You were utterly wrong.
You got to know this person (I called it the 'One') and you finally discovered that ALL ALONG THIS LIFE, [b]this is the person you are looking for. You went beserk, despair or even resigned to fate. Everything you desire and want in a lady/guy (physical + characteristic) is found in him/her. He/she is everything you need and ever hope for and probably if he/she becomes your partner - you would be quite certain marriage will be an option in the future.
What will you do? You still have feelings for your gf, but VERY strong attraction towards your 'One'. You felt that everyday you are missing not your gf/bf but the 'One' and your craving for him/her is getting more addictive every day of your life.
Then, one fine day, you discovered that she shared the same liking for you as well. You bleed inside from the turmoil and torment.
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What will you do? [/b] -
i will go for the 'one'.
there is no fair play in the game of love. hence, you can never get the best of both worlds.
there is little point holding back to the old relationship because you know that little will result from it (in this case, when you have found the 'one')
very certainly, struggles will result. one party will get hurt but i believe its more important to make the right decision in life.
i'll go for the one. -
Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:i will go for the 'one'.
there is no fair play in the game of love. hence, you can never get the best of both worlds.
there is little point holding back to the old relationship because you know that little will result from it (in this case, when you have found the 'one')
very certainly, struggles will result. one party will get hurt but i believe its more important to make the right decision in life.
i'll go for the one. There are alot of people who mentioned that they will stick with their gf - but seriously speaking: when the real things happens, the result may not be what they intended in the first place unconsciously. -
3 years can mean alot. Human are all liddat, we cant escape the feeling of the heart. We cant always remain static, which means our heart changes overtime. Seriously i never even think "forever" this word existed.
I will chose "the one".
The 3yr old gf case is realli classified as "Utterly wrong." Wad's there to think about? Feeling changes. Yes, being together for 3 years is not easy, go thru many storms aint easy as well. But the feeling is not there already, its unquestionable going on with life is the next thing.
Then come the next stage of the question: How to break?
Have to face her, her family, her frens, ur family and ur frens? Dont bare to break her heart? Or cannot let go?
Lets be straightforward, cherish the feeling. Once gone it might not come back again. To break up is not easy, but well, impossible is never the word.