hmm, can anyone give me good advice?
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well... i kinda liked a girl liaoz... and thru her met her sister, we just met a few times la, not say close, but been chatting online.. should i restrain myself? or get to know her more.. me and the sis cannot make it liaoz btw. hmm pls post logical answers can?
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what is your worry about getting to know her? get to know her as a friend.. from there, you'll then know whether it can be further develop..
frankly, if you are really interested in her.. get to know her offline.. that's how you can know her better..
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:well... i kinda liked a girl liaoz... and thru her met her sister, we just met a few times la, not say close, but been chatting online.. should i restrain myself? or get to know her more.. me and the sis cannot make it liaoz btw. hmm pls post logical answers can?
Me look into crystal ball No gd new leh. Sisters will fall apart and you will be heartbroken, if you dun handle this situation well.
Start as Friends is best leh, dun let your emtional side take control yet. Be clear of yourself. Are you looking for a long term relationship with her or just a crush with her.
Cause if both sister like you then how, become wei xiao bao*dun even think of it man* -
hhmmm....take it slowly. dont ever be tempted to take both ah.....haha
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I will advise that you get to know this girl better, the 'real' her in the real world. Sometimes people are good at chatting with others online, not face not face. When it comes to the real meeting, they may have nothing much in common to talk about or something along this line. I hope you get what I meant here. Afterall what you can see on the screen are merely ascii characters.
When you said you kinda like her, what is it abt her you like exactly? Her physical appearance or character?
Bid your time, you are not in a rush, are you? How long have you known this girl?
Finally, I'm kinda puzzled when you mentioned 'me and the sis cannot make it liaoz btw' are you trying to say you once tried to go after the sister but failed thus the sis introduce her sis to you?
Cheer...Originally posted by dumbdumb!:well... i kinda liked a girl liaoz... and thru her met her sister, we just met a few times la, not say close, but been chatting online.. should i restrain myself? or get to know her more.. me and the sis cannot make it liaoz btw. hmm pls post logical answers can? -
Typical movie scenerio where the one meeting the male lead is not the one ending up with the male lead but the sister.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:well... i kinda liked a girl liaoz... and thru her met her sister, we just met a few times la, not say close, but been chatting online.. should i restrain myself? or get to know her more.. me and the sis cannot make it liaoz btw. hmm pls post logical answers can? 
Just do what you deem is right. -
i've decided to just widen my social circle, make friends lor.. try not to give out the wrong signal.. and get to know her better and stuff like that.. and pray. thank you all for yr advicesOriginally posted by fugue:Typical movie scenerio where the one meeting the male lead is not the one ending up with the male lead but the sister.
Just do what you deem is right.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:well... i kinda liked a girl liaoz... and thru her met her sister, we just met a few times la, not say close, but been chatting online.. should i restrain myself? or get to know her more.. me and the sis cannot make it liaoz btw. hmm pls post logical answers can?
One fault of man lies within this period of knowing within a short period - decide that she SEEMED ok and start the chase. What's with the haste?
You have all the time in the world - don't rush. Before you begin anything, you have to, first of all, understand the girl you are chasing right?
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Take things one step at a time.
Dun rush lah. Jus talk as per normal and allow u n her to know each other better b4 u wan to bring this frenship further. -
yea i guess u're rite.Originally posted by Yunhaier: One fault of man lies within this period of knowing within a short period - decide that she SEEMED ok and start the chase. What's with the haste?
You have all the time in the world - don't rush. Before you begin anything, you have to, first of all, understand the girl you are chasing right?
Cheers
hmm but i seldom meet her, so see how la. take a step at a time -
are u trying to say u lyk a girl.. u noe her sister but u cant get more info of her from her sister as u not "gum" wif her sis?
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Originally posted by InVaa:
its slightly more complicated. but i decided to let "fate" handle it la. no worries!
are u trying to say [b]u lyk a girl.. u noe her sister but u cant get more info of her from her sister as u not "gum" wif her sis?[/b]