Waitress
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its my brother's wedding dinner......i was there to help out.
in the ballroom, b4 ppl come, i saw a waitress who ask me for drinks was quite chio. she smiled at me.
kinda noticed her during the whole dinner, she was actually glancing at me and smile.
was tinking whether if the girl got intention to be frd, would she initiate? -
which hotel you had attended?Originally posted by Jaws:its my brother's wedding dinner......i was there to help out.
in the ballroom, b4 ppl come, i saw a waitress who ask me for drinks was quite chio. she smiled at me.
kinda noticed her during the whole dinner, she was actually glancing at me and smile.
was tinking whether if the girl got intention to be frd, would she initiate? -
u think too much lah ...
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a bit too late to do anything now isnt it?
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cannot tell....it will reveal my identity.Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:which hotel you had attended? -
yah, its too late now....Originally posted by skeujin:a bit too late to do anything now isnt it?
but she is the girl who gave me the special impression. -
got her name?? sure there's a nametag on her uniform rite...
Just go back to the hotel and ask for her loh.... -
well then u shd watch the movie dead poets society. lesson taught is carpei diem! seize the day.Originally posted by Jaws:yah, its too late now....
but she is the girl who gave me the special impression.
who knws she mite jus be a pretty face who wants yr money n will dump u once yr broke. u r better off without her.(im trying to make u feel better here)
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u look at her of course she must smile...she's in service industry....
more likely then not, she could be a part timer...sign up with the hotel's part time banquet people and pray u are lucky... -
whahah i used to work in banquet too
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yap...come on just tell us which hotel you attending... be daring not timid.. even facing infront of computer you also ...pai seh..issit?
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If I were you, I would have intro myself already...Originally posted by Jaws:its my brother's wedding dinner......i was there to help out.
in the ballroom, b4 ppl come, i saw a waitress who ask me for drinks was quite chio. she smiled at me.
kinda noticed her during the whole dinner, she was actually glancing at me and smile.
was tinking whether if the girl got intention to be frd, would she initiate? -
to go back will make me look desperate...Originally posted by BearBear®:got her name?? sure there's a nametag on her uniform rite...
Just go back to the hotel and ask for her loh.... -
got alot of ppl mah....not easy leh...Originally posted by fugue:If I were you, I would have intro myself already... -
certainly !! she need to smile back. arboh wedding dinner see her face black ??Originally posted by Peppermint:u look at her of course she must smile...she's in service industry....
more likely then not, she could be a part timer...sign up with the hotel's part time banquet people and pray u are lucky...
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dude.. desperate??
btw, not to say anything, but i think it is her duty to look around to see if guests need anything.. maybe your table is part of her responsibilities?
and one thing taught to the service industry is that when someone looks you in the eye, smile back... it gives the guest a feeling that he/she is welcome and it is the pleasure of the establishment to serve...
maybe you see too much into her reactions because you were attracted to her?
but if you really cannot get her out of your mind, go look her up
Originally posted by Jaws:to go back will make me look desperate... -
it's a battle between your pride and feelings...decide.
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What's wrong with that? It's a happy occasion and you just want to be friendly to people at such event.Originally posted by Jaws:got alot of ppl mah....not easy leh...
Next time, say hi or say something to catch her attention. Eg. when she serves, joke with her a little bit. Girls like guys who can joke and make them laugh.
But then again, you can only do so... next time, when you see a pretty waitress. -
why the heck didn't you make a move then?
what were you waiting for?
an Epiphany? -
if i were you, we would already be playing tonsil hockey in the broom closet.Originally posted by fugue:If I were you, I would have intro myself already... -
Lol. Just typical.
Yeah i know its easier said then done, but no harm approaching to say hi, ya know. Chances are she wont reject you or anything, unless your replusive or some shit like that.
I would think it be a lot easier than approaching someone across the train to say hi.
Dont expect females to initiate, only on really rare occasions, or older gals (25++?). I guess older gals tend to be more jaded.