lend a listening ear, will u?
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congratss.. reply to me n it be yr 1000th posts.........Originally posted by jUzNoBoDy:i ask u donate money
not askin u gifin sEX
Lol.... ... ham zheng pai?!
wat tat?
reach 999 post liao
happi !!!
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Originally posted by f|ower ger:congratss.. reply to me n it be yr 1000th posts......... 1k + 1
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yeah yeah.. jus nobody... u did it~! congratssssssssssOriginally posted by jUzNoBoDy: 1k + 1 -
i wonder when i can reach 1k posts huh *sigh*
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Originally posted by Master -_-:i wonder when i can reach 1k posts huh *sigh*
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lookz @ my own post
compare the post wif master
/me walkz to 1 dark corner n sit down!
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er xin...Originally posted by Master -_-:i wonder when i can reach 1k posts huh *sigh* -
i told ya man, it was a bad hair day, not a wig!!Originally posted by the Bear:there are too few ladies in AA, so some had to pose as ladies...
Master was volunteered, given a dress and after that, i think he kinda liked it
just kidding
it was actually jOhO who wore a wig and knee-length pleated skirt... we cracked up and pissed ourselves laughing
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actually flowergirl doesn't seem to me like she's a bi[/i]tch on PMS leh..
quite tame so far... hmm, gentle, prim and proper. a far cry from the PMSes i've seen let me assure u!!!
i can think of one forum user here that is PERMANENTLY on pms, just by virtue of her posts.
u'd have to kill me for me to tell u who that person is, so dun ask. -
joho is back in action!!!Originally posted by jOhO:actually flowergirl doesn't seem to me like she's a bi[/i]tch on PMS leh..
quite tame so far... hmm, gentle, prim and proper. a far cry from the PMSes i've seen let me assure u!!!
i can think of one forum user here that is PERMANENTLY on pms, just by virtue of her posts.
u'd have to kill me for me to tell u who that person is, so dun ask.
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no need to kill you lah... just chop can alreadyOriginally posted by jOhO:actually flowergirl doesn't seem to me like she's a bi[/i]tch on PMS leh..
quite tame so far... hmm, gentle, prim and proper. a far cry from the PMSes i've seen let me assure u!!!
i can think of one forum user here that is PERMANENTLY on pms, just by virtue of her posts.
u'd have to kill me for me to tell u who that person is, so dun ask. -
can we saw off pieces by pieces?Originally posted by the Bear:no need to kill you lah... just chop can already
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Quite true...Originally posted by choco B:Are you really having PMS, or are you normally moody and unhappy?
If it's PMS, then maybe you can try things like supplements. Some stuff like GLA (Gamma Linolenic Acid) can help balance your hormones and lighten the PMS symptoms. Go to yahoo and do a search on it to find out more. Of course, you've got to be sure that what you eat is safe so check with your doctor before you take them. Other women react well to aromatherapy.
Since you know you're crabby during PMS, it's good to avoid doing important stuff or socialise too much. Nobody wants to be your punching bag.
But if your mood is generally aggressive, it's good to practice some temper & stress management. Take time out to rest and relax. -
i guess i can be quite a bitch if i wan to... kekek.. but then stil new mar.. so if bitch will become another sw-hor... but maybe in female version? haha...Originally posted by jOhO:actually flowergirl doesn't seem to me like she's a bi[/i]tch on PMS leh..
quite tame so far... hmm, gentle, prim and proper. a far cry from the PMSes i've seen let me assure u!!!
i can think of one forum user here that is PERMANENTLY on pms, just by virtue of her posts.
u'd have to kill me for me to tell u who that person is, so dun ask. -
Originally posted by the Bear:no need to kill you lah... just chop can already
oh no.. my weakness is now known to all.. -
nah.. you won't be... can see you're all right at heart
feeling better?Originally posted by f|ower ger:i guess i can be quite a bitch if i wan to... kekek.. but then stil new mar.. so if bitch will become another sw-hor... but maybe in female version? haha... -
well why would u wanna be a bi[/i]tch to all of us nice pple huh? it's just not natural.Originally posted by f|ower ger:i guess i can be quite a bitch if i wan to... kekek.. but then stil new mar.. so if bitch will become another sw-hor... but maybe in female version? haha...
pple like wats-his-face is also very natural. very naturally animalistic. -
Originally posted by f|ower ger:i guess i can be quite a bitch if i wan to... kekek.. but then stil new mar.. so if bitch will become another sw-hor... but maybe in female version? haha...
well .. 1 is enough
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/me enters
ok, sorry im this late. but i hope you guys have fun distracting our poor lady here...
PMS.. hm.. otherwise known as Pre Menstrual Syndrome... well, some people consider it as hormones acting up, thus the blues. Feeling dejected, low in morale, highly sensitive, quick tempered, emotional are just some of the common emotional problems ladies get during the time of the month. Of coz it doesnt apply across the board. Some girls dont have such upswings at all. It varies individually.
Coming back to this, much as, we ladies, cannot have control over the sudden outburst, please take things easy during this time of the month. Especially so, when one will feel withdrawn/aggitated easily. Of coz I wont sterotyped a particular characteristic, but what i can advice you to do is to keep yourself as happy as possible and think positively, though sometimes you'll get hit by the slightest thing. Try and get yourself used to it, coz if it'd happen once, it'll come back to you every time of the month.
Please also dont think of venting your frustration on anyone else, coz you cant expect them to know that you're having PMS and it wont be nice to really act it that way. You have a control over it, dont let PMS control you coz it's not meant to be that way.
Take things easy, nothing is ever too great an issue which requires you to be so quick about it. If there're things which you cant quite accept, walk away. Dont get yourself into any unnecessary confrontation. Not worth it.
Anytime you need help or a listening ear, pm me.
cheerz.Originally posted by the Bear:oh dear.. most of the advice people in AA are guys...
uhh.. AA calling cereal... come in cereal... help... -
Originally posted by jOhO:
oh no.. my weakness is now known to all.. 
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yeah she's here~~~
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Yes i agree.
Let me tell you why you have to contain your aggression/outburst during this period of time. If you're already attached, the following might happen (differs from individuals)
1) Your bf needs to give a lot of reassurance to you on the r/s. WHY? Simply bcoz I mentioned in my earlier post, it's during this time of the month you get really vulnerable, thus doubts and all other craps exist.
2) You get quick on your temper, thus arguments over the slightest things happen. Consequences? You think for yourself what this will lead to.
3) You get emotional very easily, you feel the whole world owes you a living. What happens next? You bcome depressed and gets withdrawn. No one knows why... bf feels you are losing interest in the r/s.
4) Things you dont complain of in the past, all starts coming back to you. You flipped your list of history and backtrack them with your bf. Bf felt you're being unreasonable... the story goes on...
5) etc etc etc... If you're single and very much available, the following might happen
1) Friends think you're the petty sort. Vents anger/frustration on them... they decides to reconsider the friendship.. Consequence? I think it's self explanatory
2) Guys who initially thought you're nice, now finds you detestful, esp if they just knew you and saw the nicer side of you without your PMS.
3) People will think little of you.Being a spoilt brat is what you'll be labelled. What happens next? You'll be seen walking around on your own coz people are too afriad to get near you.
4) blah blah blah.. the list goes on...Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Why don't you try to sit down and think what have been happening in your life. When you have PMS, it doesn't mean you can go around and starting venting your anger or fustration on others. When you don't have your PMS, well try to get along with others. But of course, know the limit and don't over do things. I would say that you need someone who can listen to your problems and give you advice on how to deal with matters. Preferable, someone who has lots of exprience reguarding life. Take care! -
u sure u need a psychiatrist... ? PM me.Originally posted by f|ower ger:this P.M.S thingy im having is driving me crazy~~!
i dunno how to handle them.. its like destroyin my life?? (if i may put it in this way)
coz since the start, i starting to think that im making enemies with the world... n the rest of the world are disregrading me as a part of them...
i have been picking my fights and quarrals n particularly on those ppl that i think that they can be "bullied".. i know its very sickening act.. its super unfair to the other party.. but all i can offer its an apology after this whole thing and seek their understanding during this period.. as much as i do not wish to lose them in my entire life...but.. i cant control myself...
i dunno whether its because the "non-pms" days of the mth/life is screwed up also.. that's y im having worst than normal symton..
well, if u had read my previous post, u might think i seriously need a psychiatrist...
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hope ur PMS is over by now....btw there's this PANADOL for menstrual pain....i nv try before but i guess it works....
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panadol can only help ease the menstrual pain (it's not advisable to depend on it though to ease the pain)... recommended daily supplement will be 'Evening Primose Rose'.. panadol will not help out in the emotional outburst....
Originally posted by NeonTetra:hope ur PMS is over by now....btw there's this PANADOL for menstrual pain....i nv try before but i guess it works.... -
Zhi biao bu zhi ben leh...Originally posted by jOhO:we can help...
once she starts posting in here, and make good friends with us, she'll be occupied and not think too much about stuff, and she can rave and rant all she wants here becos that's wat we all do anyway in one way or another right?
so rave and rant on flowergirl! nice to know u.