Why sometimes I cry, sometimes I don't?
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When I watch movie, TV, see people cham, I will cry one. Even on TV news, see children in africa very cham, I also cry one.
But when I quarrel with bf, or even when b/up, I don't cry. And I don't even cry even when I miss my ex after the breakup. How come? -
occupational hazard? hehhe
but ok seriously...
seems like u're a more compassionate person then an emotional one? something along that lines lar. or, u feel more for other pple's suffering than for your own.
how about that? i dunno u at all, so these are just guesses based on ur post. -
Thought that's pretty normal?Originally posted by Honeybunz:When I watch movie, TV, see people cham, I will cry one. Even on TV news, see children in africa very cham, I also cry one.
But when I quarrel with bf, or even when b/up, I don't cry. And I don't even cry even when I miss my ex after the breakup. How come?
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2 emotional?
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bcoz one seldom see oneself as the victim. most of the time, we tend to empathise with others, instead of ourselves becoz we always think/feel subconsciously we'll be able to handle the events better.
also, it can be seen as a case when one is devoid of feelings/emotion due to stress or not wanting to feel anymore, thus no emotional reaction....
just my 2 cents worth. not quite sure if it's true.
Originally posted by Honeybunz:When I watch movie, TV, see people cham, I will cry one. Even on TV news, see children in africa very cham, I also cry one.
But when I quarrel with bf, or even when b/up, I don't cry. And I don't even cry even when I miss my ex after the breakup. How come? -
yeap!!!! it's true.Originally posted by ^cereal^:bcoz one seldom see oneself as the victim. most of the time, we tend to empathise with others, instead of ourselves becoz we always think/feel subconsciously we'll be able to handle the events better.
also, it can be seen as a case when one is devoid of feelings/emotion due to stress or not wanting to feel anymore, thus no emotional reaction....
just my 2 cents worth. not quite sure if it's true.
it's along the same principal as giving advice. i dunno about u all, but for me, it's damn easy to spend time and analyse and have a goodthought about my friends' problems and offer them a sincere opinion and possible remedies, but when it comes to my own problems i just refuse to think about them. -
CRYING .... I do it everyday... I can't control it... to many disappointment ...in love life sad to say
...now my tear fall again..... 
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Maybe the feelings kind of numb off?Originally posted by Honeybunz:When I watch movie, TV, see people cham, I will cry one. Even on TV news, see children in africa very cham, I also cry one.
But when I quarrel with bf, or even when b/up, I don't cry. And I don't even cry even when I miss my ex after the breakup. How come?