E girl is i lyk inlov wif aguy for 2yrs liao!
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is this one of your weekly crushes? or did you just decide you "love her"...
love is a very very VERY heavy word... not to be used lightly... the implications are staggering...
if she's happy with another, do you love her enough to leave her be to her happiness? or will you make her miserable by interjecting yourself in between a happy pair?
remember, you seem to fall in and out of love a lot... is this the real thing? -
I agree... hence I shan't comment much on this... what I wanna say has been summarised by bear
/exitsOriginally posted by the Bear:is this one of your weekly crushes? or did you just decide you "love her"...
love is a very very VERY heavy word... not to be used lightly... the implications are staggering...
if she's happy with another, do you love her enough to leave her be to her happiness? or will you make her miserable by interjecting yourself in between a happy pair?
remember, you seem to fall in and out of love a lot... is this the real thing? -
i think u r having a lot of crushes in ur sec sch daes.........
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U AGAIN!!!Originally posted by InVaa:sry the topic i wanan post is "The girl i like is in love with a guy for 2 yrs alreadi!
heard tis from her frend.. actually i was planning to call her n chat.. but hearing tis make me think twice,,we seems to haf a lot of chat abt.. i mean from the way she reply when i msg her.. she is a great person to get along wif.. should i gif it a try?.. she is inlov wif a guy since sec1.. now we are sec3 n i jus discover tt i am in love wif her.. wad should i do..
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i think u r having a lot of crushes in ur sec sch daes.........
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lol not weekly crush la.. ya forget to add in.. tt guy dun love her..
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sec sch student is lyk tt 1 ma.. studies cant make it den think too much abt love all these shit.. lol
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are you serious wif her at the 1st place? u r having a lot of tis problem......each time is a diff scenario 1.......Originally posted by InVaa:lol not weekly crush la.. ya forget to add in.. tt guy dun love her.. -
ya i m serious..
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i dnt tink so.. if yr ever serious u wld stick to one gal. or hav so called crushes much further apart. every bloody week u post tt u got crush on some new gal. u not sian but we sian leh... take note of the posts bruddha!!! every1 knws yr chao kuan liao....Originally posted by InVaa:ya i m serious.. -
x2...totally agree........if u r serious...real serious....is like putting everything to it....just like ur fave hobbyOriginally posted by skeujin:i dnt tink so.. if yr ever serious u wld stick to one gal. or hav so called crushes much further apart. every bloody week u post tt u got crush on some new gal. u not sian but we sian leh... take note of the posts bruddha!!! every1 knws yr chao kuan liao....
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make friends now.. concentrate on your studies...
and spell words properly!
remember the implications of love i talked about?
if you "can't make it" in studies, try harder... this is part of the love.. to be as much as you can for her, to be able to look after her, provide for her and more, to be there for her for the rest of your life!
it isn't something like for a couple of weeks, feel different then throw her aside... that's using her for your own gratification or to push aside your loneliness.... did you think about her at all? if you did not, that's not love...
if you cannot even grasp this concept, i don't think you really know what love is...
what you have is probably an attraction...
concentrate on your studies... if you "cannot make it" there, at least TRY harder... determination is also something you learn during your school days...Originally posted by InVaa:sec sch student is lyk tt 1 ma.. studies cant make it den think too much abt love all these shit.. lol -
When you have finally found your gf - probably two things could happen (either).Originally posted by InVaa:sec sch student is lyk tt 1 ma.. studies cant make it den think too much abt love all these shit.. lol
I) You gradually learn and mature - true love isn't about having crushes easily.
II) Probably you will 'play the field' - a string of ex? Potential or even more crushes?
And UNTIL you get yourself a gf and 'experience' so called puppy love, you will long to have one gf yourself. My take is: Go out do what you must to satisfy your inner curiosity - your cosmic lesson will come after that. Throw away all barrier and chase her. Make her your girlfriend. You eventually see that having a girlfriend is not a game nor a 'at-that-point' decision - its involved alot of factors, both external and internal. Experience will teach you - advice gets you nowhere.
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learn to be more articulate
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try harder.
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yesh I agree.... and how would you know they are not still in love with each other..? even so, you shouldnt be coming into their relationship even though u may think she has some liking for you..you will make her miserable...and to love someone is to know that the person is happy...its not by being together that u are showing love for her..but the greater love will be let her find her happiness wherever it may be..Originally posted by the Bear:is this one of your weekly crushes? or did you just decide you "love her"...
love is a very very VERY heavy word... not to be used lightly... the implications are staggering...
if she's happy with another, do you love her enough to leave her be to her happiness? or will you make her miserable by interjecting yourself in between a happy pair?
remember, you seem to fall in and out of love a lot... is this the real thing? -
love is not a two hour movie you know?
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young love is so fickle
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trueOriginally posted by the Bear:is this one of your weekly crushes? or did you just decide you "love her"...
love is a very very VERY heavy word... not to be used lightly... the implications are staggering...
if she's happy with another, do you love her enough to leave her be to her happiness? or will you make her miserable by interjecting yourself in between a happy pair?
remember, you seem to fall in and out of love a lot... is this the real thing?
Love , the word, is often misused and misinterpreted. It is a veryvery heavy word and this word brings responsibility , to love a person.
Infatuation is different, it means to have a short crush on someone. And so what if she likes a guy ? She has her choice , u haf a choice to also get her with your charm, but does she seem attracted?
Remember, Everyone has every right to like a person. You have a right to like her, she has a right to like the other guy. So since you choose to like her, you haf to accept the fact she likes another guy. -
You gotta be more evil and more scheming, set up plans.
Break them up or something... if you dun have conscience.
(NOT RECOMMENDED AT ALL)
But if you love her dun hurt her.
But first make sure you really luv her.