Whether girls are virgin is important or not

• {WuMing}78

  7 Aug 03, 03:06

  
  
  sorry people please ignore the previous message.....corrupted
  
  This topic is dedicated to those who are confused about this very conficting idealogy
  
  for those who dunno how to read chinese poem, please read from right to left, top to bottom....
  
  Translation:
  
  "Worldly affairs blows away like a gust of wind
  Time will wash away all that is worth to us fleshy needs
  Looking at the world not forgetting yourself
  Purity of the body lies in the purity of the heart"
  
  I agree virginity is very important to a girl, but when she really loves a guy, why would she not give her virginity to him. And Virginity is not a gift that a gal can give and take back at the same time.
  
  At the same time, it is important for us guys to reflect upon ourselves..... if the girl's virginity is so important, how important is our (GUYS) virginity ?
  
  It is not important whether the girl is a virgin or not. Real virginity lies in the heart of the girl and also in your love for the girl.
  
• Xiao Long Nu

  7 Aug 03, 03:14

  i tink after marriage is best
• Devil1976

  7 Aug 03, 12:29

  
• HENG@

  7 Aug 03, 12:39

  Personally I wouldn't mind if she is or not if I love her.
  But, If she is a virgin though, I wouldn't want to make her lose it because who is to say that things will remain the same and that we'll be together forever? Instead of being selfish and asking her to lose it to you.... i feel that guys should help their gf preserve it..... and if shes meant to be yours then on your wedding day it will be even more worth it........
  
  if not, it would be nice to know that you respected her and loved her enough to not take advantage of her love for you and take something precious to her and she can only give away once.
• UandMe

  12 Aug 03, 00:27

  well, but people nowadays are getting married at such an old age... how many could wait until that day?
  i guess it applies more to those who are planning to get married not too long after they are together...
  
• Starmaster85

  15 Aug 03, 17:20

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  Instead of being selfish and asking her to lose it to you.... i feel that guys should help their gf preserve it..... and if shes meant to be yours then on your wedding day it will be even more worth it........
  
  if not, it would be nice to know that you respected her and loved her enough to not take advantage of her love for you and take something precious to her and she can only give away once.

  tkss....any1 could say that , but if u really do wat u said , then u have gained my respect .on the other hand ,but if u say one thing and do otherwise , then you are the most incorrigible person.
• T-711

  15 Aug 03, 17:26

  u can call me old-fashioned or too conservative.
  i believe i should preserve my virginity for my love.
  
  not necessary my wife.
• Parka

  15 Aug 03, 18:01

  So, knowledge is a barrier......
• Marmalade Boy

  15 Aug 03, 19:15

  I think that most of us would give up our virginity to our first love. But whether you will last with your first love till marriage is only maybe 5 out 10 couples. As long as you both truly deeply madly love each other, then it shouldn't be a problem right? Whether a girl is a virgin or not... i think that as long as you love her... does that really matter?