You said you met this girl a month ago - what makes you think she is everything you wanted for a girl? Probably physically she fits the bills, but suitability is probably a distance from your dream girl.Originally posted by scenic:I bet this isn't something new out there ...
Met this girl a month ago , she is everything i wanted for a girl friend ... but theres a somebody in her life. She mentioned that they went stead pretty recent .. fate really likes to play tricks on us , if we weren't meant for each other , then why let us meet ? If I met her earlier , would things be different ?
This somebody ain't a friend of mine . He's still in the army ..
If the guy breaks up with her , i got a chance but she gets hurt.
I dun wanna see her hurt .. shld I just let go ? its tearing me apart ..![]()
Point taken ... thanks tetra.Originally posted by NeonTetra:hmm.....i know its easy to say than be done. since she is already attached....all u can do is be friends with her. no point spoiling other people's relationship....if u r in it will u want others to do that to u? if u think u really really like her....let her know and perhaps wait??
Originally posted by =-Noelle-=:we shouldn't built our happiness on someone esle's![]()
Originally posted by scenic:Don't worry , no hard feelings felt ... actually I saw this coming. Criticisms & comments , I'm open to it .. By posting the topic, I was just letting off some steam la ... trying to make myself feel betta talking abt it .. (some things are after all , still hard to swallow even for guys with big hearts)
Don't worry abt me .. I know the consequences here , I'll just let nature takes its course. I guess maybe LOVE is still too strong a word here ... maybe slight affection or affinity ? What is meant to be, will be right ? (consoling myself in the end ...haha)
Most Importantly , I want to cherish her as a friend .. I won't wanna do anything stupid right now to jeopardise our friendship. She can be a great girl and a great friend.![]()
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Pretty well-said.
You said you met this girl a month ago - what makes you think she is everything you wanted for a girl? Probably physically she fits the bills, but suitability is probably a distance from your dream girl.Fate play tricks on you?
[b]Harsh mode: on:
what makes you think that she would feel the same way as you? You mentioned that her bf is in army and you got a chance to chase her despite her unavailable status. Then again - what makes you think you definitely can get her? And one last thing: by getting her, can you really give her happiness, though inmeasurable, more than her current bf?
Harsh mode: OffYou are undergoing infatuation period. Take heed not to speed too fast - because you may hit onto other cars on the road.
Quote of the day: Liking someone doesn't mean that you have to be with them.
Cheers[/b]
im glad u finally got it all worked out..Originally posted by scenic:Don't worry , no hard feelings felt ... actually I saw this coming. Criticisms & comments , I'm open to it .. By posting the topic, I was just letting off some steam la ... trying to make myself feel betta talking abt it .. (some things are after all , still hard to swallow even for guys with big hearts)
Don't worry abt me .. I know the consequences here , I'll just let nature takes its course. I guess maybe LOVE is still too strong a word here ... maybe slight affection or affinity ? What is meant to be, will be right ? (consoling myself in the end ...haha)
Most Importantly , I want to cherish her as a friend .. I won't wanna do anything stupid right now to jeopardise our friendship. She can be a great girl and a great friend.![]()
haha ... u seem to be speaking from experience ... must be old bird (lao jiao) already ... kanna 1 times too many right ?Originally posted by the Bear:"shouldn't" does not necessarily end up as "won't"
just like "should be" isn't always "is"...
besides, Cupid tends to make sport of us...
Originally posted by the Bear:"shouldn't" does not necessarily end up as "won't"
just like "should be" isn't always "is"...
besides, Cupid tends to make sport of us...
yeah .. well , like I said , was just trying to let off steam. I was drinking when I was doing that topic , not really sober , after a nights sleep , feel much betta already . Thanks again..Originally posted by Yunhaier:No offense intended at all in the first place. You see the highlighted note above - you took just enough time to analysis yourself and make reasonable decision about your own problem.
PS: I wish you well.
Cheers
jia you jia you! i will cheer you onOriginally posted by scenic:yeah .. well , like I said , was just trying to let off steam. I was drinking when I was doing that topic , not really sober , after a nights sleep , feel much betta already . Thanks again..![]()
gd choiceOriginally posted by BabyPanda:easy lar just kill the guy
Thats a lose-lose situation ... I get jailed for life , may even face death penalty PLUS , she gets hurt and hates me for life. Now , we don't want that to happen do we ? If you were in my shoes , I think you know what I mean.Originally posted by BabyPanda:easy lar just kill the guy
Devil, u and me are on Yunhaier payroll. lol~Originally posted by Devil1976:Pretty well-said.![]()
Originally posted by BabyPanda:easy lar just kill the guy
On the contrary , I dun think much abt her breaking up or what ... hey , I wanna be the good guy here but not that it never crossed my mind b4. But it doesn't matter ... whats most impt she still regards me as a friend and of course not letting her know or else I'm gonna see alot of disappearing acts performed by her.Originally posted by S@mz_Rev0LuT|on:pua lan ehz....jia lat larz.....ebly night sure thinking of her breaking up wif her stead......then...ehhehhehehehe.....kidding larz...anyway juz let it be larz...scully later u really get her liaoz arhz....the feeling gone no kick sian already arhz......pua lan worse arhz.....