How do you view Sex as (Aunty Agony Forum)
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Just hear on the Radio, a consultant talking about how parents are educating their children in relation ship and sex. I am also much curious about guys and gals below my age, their concept about relationship and sex.
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SO this topic is dedicated to those of younger ages who have/have not been in relationship or have/have not sex. What is your perception of the abouve topic?
P.S: Old Folks like us can also reply. No problem except yours maybe like an answer or advice to the younger generation.
Yup, it's me. Post this topic cause of what I heard in the radio. I posed a similar topic in Sgforums\bar to hear the horny version
. Here, I would like to see a more educative version.
So younger folks, what's your perception ? -
Originally posted by {WuMing}78:
[b]from SgForums\bar by {WuMing78
Yup, it's me. Post this topic cause of what I heard in the radio. I posed a similar topic in Sgforums\bar to hear the horny version . Here, I would like to see a more educative version.
So younger folks, what's your perception ?[/b]
The fundamental use of Sex is nature's way of propagating and sex of a love relationship, both male and female, function differently.
Guys are able to separate and divide Love and Sex as a different entity while woman very often equate them together. This is because, by nature, man's job is to sow his seeds everywhere while a woman's task is more towards nurturing.
Here's something interesting to take note:
When a hot chick (Great figure, angelic looks, etc), walks down the street packed with men by its side asked each of them for sex - almost everyone would agree.
You ask a hunk (Great face and power figure), to do the same thing in a street packed with woman, most of them would reject him.
Why?
Woman are more cautious towards the notion of sex because they have more investment and nature made it in such a way that they would want the perfect partner (preception/biological cum psychological reasons) to mate with them to produce the best next-generation. Together with the fact that they are often unable to separate Sex and Love - this explains the need for love before sex can follow.
In a marriage/relationship, sex can be used to build a relationship. In Asian context, it is still generally considered a taboo before marriage, though things are gradually changing now because of media and pornographic materials. The nature initial use of sex has become commercialised and degrading.
There are three form of sex and exist in a sexual love relationship.
I) Maintainace Sex - Maintainace sex is what you called quickie. Generally short lasting and its to satified the biological urge in parties. The poorest form of the three - literally means having sex.
II) Good Sex - Many couple's sesson falls under this category. Satisfying and last a reasonable amount of time. Effort are placed to make sure parties are enjoying and literally means making love.
III) Great Sex - These are occasions when couples go tour together or on special days where spiritually they are feel united and stress-free. When they make out - it is the most fulfilling and pleasurable among the three.
Whether couples should or not have sex in a prior-marriage case depends on the both individual's mentalilty and what both people are looking for. However guys, do think for the girls and no matter what you people do, use protection.
Ideally, sex in a love relationship should only take place when both parties are matured emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Those age 12 - 16 years old kind - please avoid.
Quote of the day: Before I can learn to protect you from other guys, I must learn to protect you from myself. (Self discipline and inner strength is displayed when guys abstain sex with their gf until marriage. Its pretty rare these days, but it gives good foundation to your marriage. As again, both parties must share this preception together - love is about looking in the same direction isn't it?)
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
yos.... you are a senior citizen..... let the younger ones talk too The fundamental use of Sex is nature's way of propagating and sex of a love relationship, both male and female, function differently.
Guys are able to separate and divide Love and Sex as a different entity while woman very often equate them together. This is because, by nature, man's job is to sow his seeds everywhere while a woman's task is more towards nurturing.
Here's something interesting to take note:
When a hot chick (Great figure, angelic looks, etc), walks down the street packed with men by its side asked each of them for sex - almost everyone would agree.
You ask a hunk (Great face and power figure), to do the same thing in a street packed with woman, most of them would reject him.
Why?
Woman are more cautious towards the notion of sex because they have more investment and nature made it in such a way that they would want the perfect partner (preception/biological cum psychological reasons) to mate with them to produce the best next-generation. Together with the fact that they are often unable to separate Sex and Love - this explains the need for love before sex can follow.
In a marriage/relationship, sex can be used to build a relationship. In Asian context, it is still generally considered a taboo before marriage, though things are gradually changing now because of media and pornographic materials. The nature initial use of sex has become commercialised and degrading.
There are three form of sex and exist in a sexual love relationship.
I) [b]Maintainace Sex - Maintainace sex is what you called quickie. Generally short lasting and its to satified the biological urge in parties. The poorest form of the three - literally means having sex.
II) Good Sex - Many couple's sesson falls under this category. Satisfying and last a reasonable amount of time. Effort are placed to make sure parties are enjoying and literally means making love.
III) Great Sex - These are occasions when couples go tour together or on special days where spiritually they are feel united and stress-free. When they make out - it is the most fulfilling and pleasurable among the three.
Whether couples should or not have sex in a prior-marriage case depends on the both individual's mentalilty and what both people are looking for. However guys, do think for the girls and no matter what you people do, use protection.
Ideally, sex in a love relationship should only take place when both parties are matured emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Those age 12 - 16 years old kind - please avoid.
Quote of the day: Before I can learn to protect you from other guys, I must learn to protect you from myself. (Self discipline and inner strength is displayed when guys abstain sex with their gf until marriage. Its pretty rare these days, but it gives good foundation to your marriage. As again, both parties must share this preception together - love is about looking in the same direction isn't it?)
Cheers [/b]