Originally posted by {WuMing}78:
We Guys are gettin' soft ain't we? See all of my "kind" asking for help in relationships....
or it is just me contaminating you all ?
Guys are seeking help these days because they finally recongise the need to seek assistance when their own relationship encounter problems relating to their gf, themselves and the relationship.
I feel its a good thing because they see it as their flaws - the ability to recongise your weakness and do something about it would be creating a better future for themselves.
Blame it on the society where males ain't suppose to cry, weep, nor get 'soft' like what you mentioned - in the end, does it benefit them?
P.S: Nobody knows how to love or lead a relationship the day they were born - its culmulated through valuable experiences in quality (not neccessary quantity). However, if you do not learn to release yourself towards higher learning - what can you learn from?
Cheers