Originally posted by f[a]erie:
so many of us have been hurt times after times.. where to find the courage to go on loving anymore? how to stop the pain...

why are there so much pains and hurts around..?
how to walk out of it..?
urggghhh... =...(
The door in just in front of you - you want to walk out of it, yet you chose to remain in the circle and stay behind.

Pain? Hurt? You are questioning about why is there pain and hurt?


I don't see you questioning why, about the happiness and good time you gain from your love.
When you fall in love - you are bound to get hurt - the difference lies within the degree of damage done eventually. It is wrapped in a package and deliver to you in a form of a relationship. You accepted the deal willingly - nobody put a knife to your throat to ask you to agree.
What's my point?

When you look beyond simple pain and hurt - you will uncovered valuable lessons behind all these hurting relationship. Learn from it for every relationship comes with a lesson - you throw the lesson away - you truely lose everything.

P.S: Like I always ask everyone: given you a choice to be together or not be together in the first place -
which will you choose? Considering the fact that this fate will take effect eventually and you know it as well.

Cheers