how would u feel....
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how would u feel if your GF is much more well educated than you...
eg. she MBA holder... u only a diploma or 'O' grad....???
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Probably nothing much...? But I can't deny the possibility of that fact causing indirect effects on her....Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:how would u feel if your GF is much more well educated than you...
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if my hubby has no sense of life goals....thats deadly.
never mind if his qualifications are lower than mine, but he must have a sense of purpose in life....at least that sets him going. i dont think that high qualifications means your life will be smooth sailing.
some Ph.D goondus only koe how to study. when it comes to applying what they learn....aiyo.... -
Pardon me for saying this, but since when does education got to do with a love relationship? I think as long as 2 truely love each other, education level, money or even family shouldn't matter. Cos we are in love with the person and not the cert, money or the other party family. What important most is that how you feel for that person and wherther you 2 can get along well.Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:how would u feel if your GF is much more well educated than you...
eg. she MBA holder... u only a diploma or 'O' grad....??? -
I couldn't agree more! Well said!Originally posted by BrenBren:Pardon me for saying this, but since when does education got to do with a love relationship? I think as long as 2 truely love each other, education level, money or even family shouldn't matter. Cos we are in love with the person and not the cert, money or the other party family. What important most is that how you feel for that person and wherther you 2 can get along well. -
Originally posted by BrenBren:
not disagreeing.. but two persons together, communication and compatibility is important.. in that sense, sometimes having different backgrounds may make a difference..
Pardon me for saying this, but since when does education got to do with a love relationship? I think as long as 2 truely love each other, education level, money or even family shouldn't matter. Cos we are in love with the person and not the cert, money or the other party family. What important most is that how you feel for that person and whether you 2 can get along well. -
WoohOoooOoo!~!~!~!~!~Originally posted by BrenBren:Pardon me for saying this, but since when does education got to do with a love relationship? I think as long as 2 truely love each other, education level, money or even family shouldn't matter. Cos we are in love with the person and not the cert, money or the other party family. What important most is that how you feel for that person and wherther you 2 can get along well.
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i reallie agree totally........
but..... love cant fill your stomache.... sometimes u juz gotta be realistic.....
but WHO CARES!!!!!!! as long as you're happy u'll make sure the both of you survive man!!!!! -
hmmOriginally posted by BrenBren:Pardon me for saying this, but since when does education got to do with a love relationship? I think as long as 2 truely love each other, education level, money or even family shouldn't matter. Cos we are in love with the person and not the cert, money or the other party family. What important most is that how you feel for that person and wherther you 2 can get along well.
even if u are right, u aren't really answering his question.
ur ans is likely to be "it doesn't bother me in the slightest"... right?
i'd like to bring to your attention to what sillyme said too... you are definitely not wrong. love is love. but we are on earth.
pay attn to the word in bold, in his post.
why am i saying this? becos in the broader sense of this topic, we're all talking about how we've been educated in LIFE, not just in school.
i'm predominantly english speaking, and speak it well. if i am in love with someone who doesn't understand when i speak sometimes, becos in a bid to really explain myself, i use "cheem" words, and then she replies me in chinese with "cheem" words, then how?
that is why, when i had a chance to be attached to a japanese girl, pretty, sweet, very VERY wifey, i reluctantly turned her down. her english was sub-standard, and my japanese, non-existent.
u might say i'm nit picking, language barriers will be a hindrance to a relationship. but the greater point i see in this discussion is that love does NOT conquer all.
mind u, i'm a romantic at heart. some pple here know that.
further to ur post, u mentioned that money education etc SHOULDN'T matter. you're right. but it does! it matters to you as an individual whether u have money for food, rent and bills, why shouldn't it matter to you when u are a couple? ok maybe u say that it shouldn't matter in LOVE. but isn't love about life, just that you're sharing with it with another? and in life u need to eat, pay rent and bills, right? -
Yo, you are the man dude. Well said. Education does not effect one's relationship. You love a person for who they are not who you want them to be. In real love, its the respect for one another that is really important.Originally posted by BrenBren:Pardon me for saying this, but since when does education got to do with a love relationship? I think as long as 2 truely love each other, education level, money or even family shouldn't matter. Cos we are in love with the person and not the cert, money or the other party family. What important most is that how you feel for that person and wherther you 2 can get along well.
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That's the facts of life.Originally posted by jOhO:hmm
even if u are right, u aren't really answering his question.
ur ans is likely to be "it doesn't bother me in the slightest"... right?
i'd like to bring to your attention to what sillyme said too... you are definitely not wrong. love is love. but we are on earth.
pay attn to the word in bold, in his post.
why am i saying this? becos in the broader sense of this topic, we're all talking about how we've been educated in LIFE, not just in school.
i'm predominantly english speaking, and speak it well. if i am in love with someone who doesn't understand when i speak sometimes, becos in a bid to really explain myself, i use "cheem" words, and then she replies me in chinese with "cheem" words, then how?
that is why, when i had a chance to be attached to a japanese girl, pretty, sweet, very VERY wifey, i reluctantly turned her down. her english was sub-standard, and my japanese, non-existent.
u might say i'm nit picking, language barriers will be a hindrance to a relationship. but the greater point i see in this discussion is that love does NOT conquer all.
mind u, i'm a romantic at heart. some pple here know that.
further to ur post, u mentioned that money education etc SHOULDN'T matter. you're right. but it does! it matters to you as an individual whether u have money for food, rent and bills, why shouldn't it matter to you when u are a couple? ok maybe u say that it shouldn't matter in LOVE. but isn't love about life, just that you're sharing with it with another? and in life u need to eat, pay rent and bills, right?
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Originally posted by sillyme:
not disagreeing.. but two persons together, communication and compatibility is important.. in that sense, [b]sometimes having different backgrounds may make a difference..[/b]
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to me if you intend to stay in singpore all ur life, u better upgrade urself... cos the simple fact is... in sg, no paper qualifications... its difficult to make a breakthrough.. but again we often c in the papers that graduates having problems getting a job.. so it doesn't often mean that it promise u a job. its beeter to do so as in the future, u n ur gal won't have to argue over this point..Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:how would u feel if your GF is much more well educated than you...
eg. she MBA holder... u only a diploma or 'O' grad....???