Originally posted by BruceAlmighty:
What will you do if:
The galz u lyk broke up wif her boyfrenz because she suspected tt her BF lyk other galz. You tried to woo her, but after awhile, you realised tt she still cant forgot tt BF. Finally, she called you n said tt you shld 4get her coz she dun wanna you 2 wait in vain for her.
The reason she said tt partly was coz you ex. stead wans you to accept her again. You asked her why; She said: i dun wanna be a burden to u, there are still many other better galz than me n they deserve your liking
Thinking for the greater good may/may not be best alternative to handle things.
Your ex wants to patch back with you doesn't mean anything for if you ain't moved by what your ex is doing, she can't practically do anything.
in my opinon, I feel that she is using it as an excuse to buy her time for herself. Afterall, what she said sounded reasonable. You strike during her confusion - there is simply no time for her to think through things and recuperate. Yes, you may be at an advantage during such period, however, poorly handled, it may not always be so.
Respect her space and maintain friendship for the moment. Any advancement in your part will prove to be hostile. Go with the flow and with fate.
Cheers