why is gers so hard to understand?

• oceanboi21

  1 Sep 03, 11:01

  wad do trust mean to a ger?.. if a ger says she feels u isnt trusting her.. wad should u do?
• www

  1 Sep 03, 11:08

  then u probably isnt.
  
  ask urself on how much trust have u been putting in her first.
• Devil1976

  1 Sep 03, 13:14

  Originally posted by oceanboi21:

  wad do trust mean to a ger?.. if a ger says she feels u isnt trusting her.. wad should u do?

  Personally, I feel that it can mean...
  
  1. You don't give her enough freedom.
  2. She feel a sense of insecurity in the relationship.
  
  And / or the 2 points above. But of course, chances are it can also mean other than what I've mentioned.
• hopy

  1 Sep 03, 18:18

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Personally, I feel that it can mean...
  
  1. You don't give her enough freedom.
  2. She feel a sense of insecurity in the relationship.
  
  And / or the 2 points above. But of course, chances are it can also mean other than what I've mentioned.

  tt shld b wat she meant
• pangkee

  2 Sep 03, 15:07

  to be happy with a ger, u no need to understand her. u oni need to love her a lot
  
• {WuMing}78

  2 Sep 03, 15:13

  Originally posted by pangkee:

  to be happy with a ger, u no need to understand her. u oni need to love her a lot
  

  agree..... but both of you must also blend..... like apple juice
• =-Noelle-=

  2 Sep 03, 18:45

  hehe, guys think that girls are hard to understand and girls think that guys are hard to understand..
• duotiga83

  2 Sep 03, 20:26

  They read us guys like books, we read them like Caeser Cipher
• {WuMing}78

  2 Sep 03, 23:38

  Originally posted by duotiga83:

  They read us guys like books, we read them like Caeser Cipher

  duotiga83, HEY, that's MY LINE!
  
  
• the Bear

  2 Sep 03, 23:41

  sometimes, love just isn't enough...
  
  i could never understand the woman i love.. the more i found out, the less i knew... sounds cliched but it was true...
  
  all i knew is that i will always love her... yet, i've lost her...
  
  and that's all i can do...
  
  

  Originally posted by pangkee:

  to be happy with a ger, u no need to understand her. u oni need to love her a lot
  

• M©+square

  3 Sep 03, 02:02

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  sometimes, love just isn't enough...
  
  i could never understand the woman i love.. the more i found out, the less i knew... sounds cliched but it was true...
  
  all i knew is that i will always love her... yet, i've lost her...
  
  and that's all i can do...
  
  

  Hmmm...didn't you learn that from my Siggy? heh
• boy in blues

  3 Sep 03, 02:34

  Originally posted by oceanboi21:

  wad do trust mean to a ger?.. if a ger says she feels u isnt trusting her.. wad should u do?

  welcome aboard..you ain't the only one finding hard to understand..just spend some money go buy a 'Redspot' ten-year series with worked solutions and memorise the methodology sure score 'A' liao.
  
  just providing some entertainment until the pro consultants show up.
  
  don't worry, you should recognise them..their posts go on into the next 3 pages.
• aHGer^83

  3 Sep 03, 02:37

  humans r hard to understand....
• Ayu {O_o}

  3 Sep 03, 06:23

  one way to understand ppl is understand oneself 1st. Trust yourself before ppl can put trust in you.
• duotiga83

  3 Sep 03, 07:52

  Originally posted by {WuMing}78:
  
  
  duotiga83, [b]HEY, that's MY LINE!
  
  [/b]

  i add more
• Devil1976

  3 Sep 03, 11:20

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Hmmm...didn't you learn that from my Siggy? heh

  Nice one...
• M©+square

  3 Sep 03, 11:37

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Nice one...

  I would see it as a sad one instead.
  
  Anyway...It's good to realise and learn precious lessons.