I finally got a DATE... but...
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Hey people, i finally like... gotta girl who likes me... but the trouble is she scares me, or makes me nervous/uncomfortable. Okie, firstly, she is hot, she's Singaporean Chinese, but her face aint that attractive, but that;s no problem. Its her personality, we are only like JC1, she took me to pubs for expensive drinks, she's got this put on fake American accent, she goes clubbing, i don't like such places cos they are too noisy and the kinda places for bad company, i nearly got into a fight twice cos of my race at such places.
Anywayz, she dresses reeeeaaaally skimpy, last time we went out, she wore this Sarong and a very revealing top, plus beach slippers, while i was walking with her ( i was fully clothed by the way), i got these stares from me other friends. She was really like an spg, prolly is, and its like SPGs are hated here i know. But i feel like she's not who she is,,, i'd prefer it if she would be herself, i feel that she is just kinda fake... she aint never been to the US before, her friend has got this tota colonial mentality about her... and when we were out, its like her friend was going :" Oh your hair is sooo soft blah blah blah" like she has never seen an angmoh before...or she aint never got too close to one.
My other friend said these 2 girls, this gurl and her friend... are experienced daters... and they are going wild cos they aint never been with someone like me before... half white and half local... so they are like... acting weird he says. I find it just... uncomfortable.
Call me innocent if u will, i find it just scary... not typically what i am used to in girls... you other guys may be going " WHOA man!" But i don't feel right with it.... i am just confused... help me guys.
Its just, sometimes i feel like I am some kinda... fashion object when i am with them... so they can look good or something...i dunno... -
dude........... well at least u seem like a nice guy.Originally posted by mixedblooder:Hey people, i finally like... gotta girl who likes me... but the trouble is she scares me, or makes me nervous/uncomfortable. Okie, firstly, she is hot, she's Singaporean Chinese, but her face aint that attractive, but that;s no problem. Its her personality, we are only like JC1, she took me to pubs for expensive drinks, she's got this put on fake American accent, she goes clubbing, i don't like such places cos they are too noisy and the kinda places for bad company, i nearly got into a fight twice cos of my race at such places.
Anywayz, she dresses reeeeaaaally skimpy, last time we went out, she wore this Sarong and a very revealing top, plus beach slippers, while i was walking with her ( i was fully clothed by the way), i got these stares from me other friends. She was really like an spg, prolly is, and its like SPGs are hated here i know. But i feel like she's not who she is,,, i'd prefer it if she would be herself, i feel that she is just kinda fake... she aint never been to the US before, her friend has got this tota colonial mentality about her... and when we were out, its like her friend was going :" Oh your hair is sooo soft blah blah blah" like she has never seen an angmoh before...or she aint never got too close to one.
My other friend said these 2 girls, this gurl and her friend... are experienced daters... and they are going wild cos they aint never been with someone like me before... half white and half local... so they are like... acting weird he says. I find it just... uncomfortable.
Call me innocent if u will, i find it just scary... not typically what i am used to in girls... you other guys may be going " WHOA man!" But i don't feel right with it.... i am just confused... help me guys.
Its just, sometimes i feel like I am some kinda... fashion object when i am with them... so they can look good or something...i dunno...
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HI mixblooder,
Do you really go for those with looks? If looks are good, it doesn't mean that they are good inside their heart. It's a superficial issue and it cannot just being measured by looks.
If you are looking for a lifetime partner, what are ur criteria? Looks is good provided that she has a good character. -
If you're really not comfortable with them, nobody's forcing you to stick around with them?Originally posted by mixedblooder:Hey people, i finally like... gotta girl who likes me... but the trouble is she scares me, or makes me nervous/uncomfortable. Okie, firstly, she is hot, she's Singaporean Chinese, but her face aint that attractive, but that;s no problem. Its her personality, we are only like JC1, she took me to pubs for expensive drinks, she's got this put on fake American accent, she goes clubbing, i don't like such places cos they are too noisy and the kinda places for bad company, i nearly got into a fight twice cos of my race at such places.
Anywayz, she dresses reeeeaaaally skimpy, last time we went out, she wore this Sarong and a very revealing top, plus beach slippers, while i was walking with her ( i was fully clothed by the way), i got these stares from me other friends. She was really like an spg, prolly is, and its like SPGs are hated here i know. But i feel like she's not who she is,,, i'd prefer it if she would be herself, i feel that she is just kinda fake... she aint never been to the US before, her friend has got this tota colonial mentality about her... and when we were out, its like her friend was going :" Oh your hair is sooo soft blah blah blah" like she has never seen an angmoh before...or she aint never got too close to one.
My other friend said these 2 girls, this gurl and her friend... are experienced daters... and they are going wild cos they aint never been with someone like me before... half white and half local... so they are like... acting weird he says. I find it just... uncomfortable.
Call me innocent if u will, i find it just scary... not typically what i am used to in girls... you other guys may be going " WHOA man!" But i don't feel right with it.... i am just confused... help me guys.
Its just, sometimes i feel like I am some kinda... fashion object when i am with them... so they can look good or something...i dunno...
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Its just a date, nothing more right? Going on dates are is just a way of judging if you get along with the person and you can see yourself being with that person. The same will go for the girl. If you feel uncomfortable. Looks are superficial. i do know the whole concept of first impressions but personality will make the impact on the relationship. Try to be relax around her and see how it goes.
PS. Im dating a foreigner but im aint an SPG. I like the guy geniunely. I wont be with him if im uncomfortable in the first place.
My take on this: FInd someone who you can be COMFORTABLE with. Sounds to me that this girl is a wild party animal. If she is just sorta "acting", then let her know that she doesnt have to do that at all. You can try telling her how you feel for once. If she thinks thats not good enough. then maybe you should date others who can at least be natural with you. -
Friend, you got to know what you want. It's your choice.
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Relax bro, this is probably gonna be the chance of a life time for you to have "FUN" without any commitments at all.... trust me chances like tat don come very often... Have fun while it last....
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HAHAHA! Wow, usually its all the Eurasian girls that complain to us that guys only go out with them to look good lol! Now we've got one Eurasian guy saying girls go out with him to look good, man you are so full of yourself Eurasian boy. All Eurasians are stuck up pompous pricks in my opinion. Anywayz, the other guy is right, you've got an SPG chick, so exploit her while you still can man, if i were in your shoes I would **** her upside down like we men all do.
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.........Originally posted by Fanatical_Knight:HAHAHA! Wow, usually its all the Eurasian girls that complain to us that guys only go out with them to look good lol! Now we've got one Eurasian guy saying girls go out with him to look good, man you are so full of yourself Eurasian boy. All Eurasians are stuck up pompous pricks in my opinion. Anywayz, the other guy is right, you've got an SPG chick, so exploit her while you still can man, if i were in your shoes I would **** her upside down like we men all do. I think you are the one who should go home and give thought to what you've said. -
What did your friend mean when he said acting weird?Like they do not normally go clubbing and wear skimpy clothes or what?Originally posted by mixedblooder:Hey people, i finally like... gotta girl who likes me... but the trouble is she scares me, or makes me nervous/uncomfortable. Okie, firstly, she is hot, she's Singaporean Chinese, but her face aint that attractive, but that;s no problem. Its her personality, we are only like JC1, she took me to pubs for expensive drinks, she's got this put on fake American accent, she goes clubbing, i don't like such places cos they are too noisy and the kinda places for bad company, i nearly got into a fight twice cos of my race at such places.
Anywayz, she dresses reeeeaaaally skimpy, last time we went out, she wore this Sarong and a very revealing top, plus beach slippers, while i was walking with her ( i was fully clothed by the way), i got these stares from me other friends. She was really like an spg, prolly is, and its like SPGs are hated here i know. But i feel like she's not who she is,,, i'd prefer it if she would be herself, i feel that she is just kinda fake... she aint never been to the US before, her friend has got this tota colonial mentality about her... and when we were out, its like her friend was going :" Oh your hair is sooo soft blah blah blah" like she has never seen an angmoh before...or she aint never got too close to one.
My other friend said these 2 girls, this gurl and her friend... are experienced daters... and they are going wild cos they aint never been with someone like me before... half white and half local... so they are like... acting weird he says. I find it just... uncomfortable.
Call me innocent if u will, i find it just scary... not typically what i am used to in girls... you other guys may be going " WHOA man!" But i don't feel right with it.... i am just confused... help me guys.
Its just, sometimes i feel like I am some kinda... fashion object when i am with them... so they can look good or something...i dunno... -
U bloody angmoh lang@!
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you are one lucky guy.. why? cos some gals loves mixblooders
Anyway, if you feel uncomfortable being with her, you can either tell her how you feel about her fake accents etc and risk she not talking to you anymore or you can stop going out with her.....
Sometimes I also dont understand why gals do that..... where's the local taste? If you are not a ang moh, you are NOT one.... no matter how you sounded, how you dress, how u dye yr hair blond, how you wear colour lens..... you are still singapolian.... -
Originally posted by chaar123:U bloody angmoh lang@!
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Originally posted by mixedblooder:Hey people, i finally like... gotta girl who likes me... but the trouble is she scares me, or makes me nervous/uncomfortable. Okie, firstly, she is hot, she's Singaporean Chinese, but her face aint that attractive, but that;s no problem. Its her personality, we are only like JC1, she took me to pubs for expensive drinks, she's got this put on fake American accent, she goes clubbing, i don't like such places cos they are too noisy and the kinda places for bad company, i nearly got into a fight twice cos of my race at such places.
Anywayz, she dresses reeeeaaaally skimpy, last time we went out, she wore this Sarong and a very revealing top, plus beach slippers, while i was walking with her ( i was fully clothed by the way), i got these stares from me other friends. She was really like an spg, prolly is, and its like SPGs are hated here i know. But i feel like she's not who she is,,, i'd prefer it if she would be herself, i feel that she is just kinda fake... she aint never been to the US before, her friend has got this tota colonial mentality about her... and when we were out, its like her friend was going :" Oh your hair is sooo soft blah blah blah" like she has never seen an angmoh before...or she aint never got too close to one.
My other friend said these 2 girls, this gurl and her friend... are experienced daters... and they are going wild cos they aint never been with someone like me before... half white and half local... so they are like... acting weird he says. I find it just... uncomfortable.
Call me innocent if u will, i find it just scary... not typically what i am used to in girls... you other guys may be going " WHOA man!" But i don't feel right with it.... i am just confused... help me guys.
Its just, sometimes i feel like I am some kinda... fashion object when i am with them... so they can look good or something...i dunno...
yup..you got yourself there an SPG alright..she got some inferiority complex she needs you to cure..wanna do her the favor? -
Originally posted by Fanatical_Knight:HAHAHA! Wow, usually its all the Eurasian girls that complain to us that guys only go out with them to look good lol! Now we've got one Eurasian guy saying girls go out with him to look good, man you are so full of yourself Eurasian boy. All Eurasians are stuck up pompous pricks in my opinion. Anywayz, the other guy is right, you've got an SPG chick, so exploit her while you still can man, if i were in your shoes I would **** her upside down like we men all do. tsk tsk..such sweeping remarks.
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whoa i wish i was a chao angmoh lang so that I can get ger to throw themself at me
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I think I might offend some people here, but I know some girls like to get attached and use bf's money on expensive food, shooping etc..So you gotta be careful! ~All the best!~
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by my guess you are probably 1 17 and in acjc? ...hmmm just a guess welli am 19 in ns ha... maybe my comments are not .. wwell strong enought to be heard..
based on your description she may be just finding it a kick going out with someone not so local..so in conclusion it is possible that she may be going out just for the fun.. and one thng there are always two side of the coin ...how did you can to know her ...to court .. her can you fill in hte details?.better analysis can be made .. -
by my guess you are probably 1 17 and in acjc? ...hmmm just a guess welli am 19 in ns ha... maybe my comments are not .. wwell strong enought to be heard..
based on your description she may be just finding it a kick going out with someone not so local..so in conclusion it is possible that she may be going out just for the fun.. and one thng there are always two side of the coin ...how did you can to know her ...to court .. her can you fill in hte details?.better analysis can be made .. -
well as i have siad a coin has two side s may be acting out to please ... to pls i know ppl who that ... just nodont be too disspapoint,ment if tf that doesnt turn out right?hat
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u gt any feelings for her?
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From wat my point of view, nowadays local gal are bitch coz they think they dress in this way they got 'sey' and morever they think they attract attention to every ppl around, best advice dun get along with those gal who usually go clubbing.... If u r find serious partner but flirt around its ok..... For me i dun go there with newly intro gal friendz i usually go there when my friends is have an occasion mostly.....Originally posted by mixedblooder:Hey people, i finally like... gotta girl who likes me... but the trouble is she scares me, or makes me nervous/uncomfortable. Okie, firstly, she is hot, she's Singaporean Chinese, but her face aint that attractive, but that;s no problem. Its her personality, we are only like JC1, she took me to pubs for expensive drinks, she's got this put on fake American accent, she goes clubbing, i don't like such places cos they are too noisy and the kinda places for bad company, i nearly got into a fight twice cos of my race at such places.
Anywayz, she dresses reeeeaaaally skimpy, last time we went out, she wore this Sarong and a very revealing top, plus beach slippers, while i was walking with her ( i was fully clothed by the way), i got these stares from me other friends. She was really like an spg, prolly is, and its like SPGs are hated here i know. But i feel like she's not who she is,,, i'd prefer it if she would be herself, i feel that she is just kinda fake... she aint never been to the US before, her friend has got this tota colonial mentality about her... and when we were out, its like her friend was going :" Oh your hair is sooo soft blah blah blah" like she has never seen an angmoh before...or she aint never got too close to one.
My other friend said these 2 girls, this gurl and her friend... are experienced daters... and they are going wild cos they aint never been with someone like me before... half white and half local... so they are like... acting weird he says. I find it just... uncomfortable.
Call me innocent if u will, i find it just scary... not typically what i am used to in girls... you other guys may be going " WHOA man!" But i don't feel right with it.... i am just confused... help me guys.
Its just, sometimes i feel like I am some kinda... fashion object when i am with them... so they can look good or something...i dunno... -
DUDE. is ur name charles??
cos u sure as hell sound like someone i know -
Originally posted by Deanzce83:From wat my point of view, nowadays local gal are bitch coz they think they dress in this way they got 'sey' and morever they think they attract attention to every ppl around, best advice dun get along with those gal who usually go clubbing.... If u r find serious partner but flirt around its ok..... For me i dun go there with newly intro gal friendz i usually go there when my friends is have an occasion mostly..... a cheongster gal is too hot to handle.
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DUDE. is ur name charles??
cos u sure as hell sound like someone i know[b]
No, my name is charles! For my nick is chaar123! [/b]