i've broke up with my GF of 8months for my 1st GF after 6yrs
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i've broke up with my GF of 8 months for my 1st GF after 9 yrs..
i can't believe that i still love my 1st so much.. that i can die for her..
my 1st is single now but i dunno whether she has feeling for me still.. cos she hinted me that she still care and like me...
i really feeel bad.. breaking up with my GF.. actually i dun wan but she sense something is wrong and she kept asking me .. she faint when i told her that we dun suit each other.. character and personality and communication.. she's 4yrs younger than me.. she's a nice girl lor.. but.. i find that i've to teach her a lot of things.. there's so much things that she dunno... i like her but.. doesn't match man...
i dun wan to be unfair to her as i've my 1st in my heart.. it's so selfish and i decided to let her go,.... i hope that she'll forgive me and we;ll be frds again.. -
i've broke up with my GF of 8 months for my 1st GF after 9 yrs..
i can't believe that i still love my 1st so much.. that i can die for her..
my 1st is single now but i dunno whether she has feeling for me still.. cos she hinted me that she still care and like me...
i really feeel bad.. breaking up with my GF.. actually i dun wan but she sense something is wrong and she kept asking me .. she faint when i told her that we dun suit each other.. character and personality and communication.. she's 4yrs younger than me.. she's a nice girl lor.. but.. i find that i've to teach her a lot of things.. there's so much things that she dunno... i like her but.. doesn't match man...
i dun wan to be unfair to her as i've my 1st in my heart.. it's so selfish and i decided to let her go,.... i hope that she'll forgive me and we;ll be frds again.. -
i second your decision.
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Originally posted by kyohei86:i've broke up with my GF of 8 months for my 1st GF after 9 yrs..
i can't believe that i still love my 1st so much.. that i can die for her..
my 1st is single now but i dunno whether she has feeling for me still.. cos she hinted me that she still care and like me...
i really feeel bad.. breaking up with my GF.. actually i dun wan but she sense something is wrong and she kept asking me .. she faint when i told her that we dun suit each other.. character and personality and communication.. she's 4yrs younger than me.. she's a nice girl lor.. but.. i find that i've to teach her a lot of things.. there's so much things that she dunno... i like her but.. doesn't match man...
i dun wan to be unfair to her as i've my 1st in my heart.. it's so selfish and i decided to let her go,.... i hope that she'll forgive me and we;ll be frds again..
In the first place - I doubt you really fell in love with her.
You tired to look for your first love in her - obviously it doesn't work. You mentioned 'what have to teach her, dunno this, dunno that.' every relationship you are in - basically you still on the learning cycle. What you truely meant is that your present gf, at that time, didn't behave/act the way it would have been if she was your first love.
Substitution - thats what I am talking about.
Younger than you by 4 years doesn't matter - cause if it does, you wouldn't have accepted her in the first place.
Its inevitable that your first love would have such huge influence on you because it has been 9 years - close to a decade. People don't change overnight, neither do feelings. What you lack is not love - you need some time to think and reflect upon what do you really want.
Cheers -
i wld say its kindof irresponsible of u...