how come i shouldn't be bothered??Originally posted by sillyme:you shouldn't be bothered
Would you still hold on to a guy who is a two timer ?Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:how come i shouldn't be bothered??
cuz he is ur EX-bf..y care..so wad if he lies to u? does it reali matter?Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:how come i shouldn't be bothered??
he's with another person already.. and unless you are still holding on to him..Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:how come i shouldn't be bothered??
thanks..Originally posted by the Bear:walked away, yet looking back... remember the fate of Lot's Wife... but then it's human nature...
do think about it.. if he does not respect you enough to even tell you a simple inconsequential truth, what's the point of pursuing things?
you'll only get hurt...
walk away... he's now someone else's guy... and someone else's problems, pain, burden when he will lie to her...
let time wear away the sharp edges of pain...
p.s.
hope you get over him
Originally posted by {WuMing}78:Maybe I should organising a outing in a pub where girls can cry there silly and guys can get drunk fresh naked![]()
Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:why does my ex-bf keep lying to me??
we have broke up for almost 3yrs...
but he still tells me that he miss me..
and when i asked abt how long have he been with his girl, he told me that they are together for abt a yr but the actual fact is they have been together for abt 3yrs...
why does he wanna keep it from me??
Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:why does my ex-bf keep lying to me??
we have broke up for almost 3yrs...
but he still tells me that he miss me..
and when i asked abt how long have he been with his girl, he told me that they are together for abt a yr but the actual fact is they have been together for abt 3yrs...
why does he wanna keep it from me??
Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:thanks..
i hope he doesn't become his gf's pain...
tell me.. you still love him, dun ya ? or at least you wish you could still be with him. sorry if i'm wrong.Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:how come i shouldn't be bothered??
Originally posted by Yunhaier:8th Law of Love: Lying destoy intimacy.
When your bf lies (not white lies) about something relating to your relationship - your relationship will set its path on the declining stage when you discover this lie.
He will either do two things:
I) Use another lie cover it - more lies, more decline.
II) Admit that its his fault and ask for your forgiveness.
In the lying theory of relationship - anything more than one chance is considered unneccessary (differ from case to case). First is repent, second is taken for granted, third or more is taken you for a fool.
Anyway he is already an icon of the past - there is no need for you to ponder over his words/action/behavior/etc. Whatever sweetie little thing he says - just read, acknowledge and delete of your mind. Look into the future, not back.
Cheers
maybe u are rite abt my nick...Originally posted by jOhO:hmm your nick tells me a few things... or maybe it's just conincidental.
he knows u are holding on. and the lies keep his "bridge" to you open.
some guys are like that. i've been guilty of this in the past too. "never burn your bridges" is a popular saying. but do it for the right reasons. apparently he's not.
he has done both..Originally posted by Yunhaier:8th Law of Love: Lying destoy intimacy.
When your bf lies (not white lies) about something relating to your relationship - your relationship will set its path on the declining stage when you discover this lie.
He will either do two things:
I) Use another lie cover it - more lies, more decline.
II) Admit that its his fault and ask for your forgiveness.
In the lying theory of relationship - anything more than one chance is considered unneccessary (differ from case to case). First is repent, second is taken for granted, third or more is taken you for a fool.
Anyway he is already an icon of the past - there is no need for you to ponder over his words/action/behavior/etc. Whatever sweetie little thing he says - just read, acknowledge and delete of your mind. Look into the future, not back.
Cheers
.Originally posted by hoLdiNg oN:he has done both..
asking for forgiveness and using another lie to cover...
and from what u had said... i guess he has taken me for a fool... coz i guess it has been countless times that he lied to me...
Ahh...you learnt something there.Originally posted by hopy:move on wld be the word 4 u![]()