alrite guys, really a big thank you for sharing the same sentiments and taking time to replying my previous thread - 'cursed...
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=56269'kinda sms her again recently and guess what? she told me that she kinda feel for me a little and that she intially thought that i wasnt interested in her when we didnt message one another for a period of time. ( i didnt message her cos i thought she aint interested in me as well .. how dumb) so what about her bf part ? well, she said that she knew this guy for a month only and somehow when they went out together, he held her hands and somewhat she did not resist. (damn! fancy me thinkin that i should take things slowly !%^@#) she also shared with me that she kinda thought of me when her bf held her hands and added that she finds her bf sorta a flirt kinda.
kinda told her that i really liked her like two days ago and we've been constantly texting one another via sms. she thinks im nice and she also agreed to go out for a movie with me after the semester tests. personally, i feel that im not so cursed after all. *relieve* and that somewhat i still stand a chance. at least i know that i've a little place in her mind.
now,

will you consider me a bastard if i chase her at this point of time when she's attached ? (btw the guy got her like a week ago only) my logic is, if she is still conversing so much with me and even agreed to go on a date with me,

why shouldn't i cherish the opportunity? (maybe her bf's a jerk, i dunno; he looks like a poser shit to me though)

what do you think people ?
and here's a question i need to ask everyone esp the girls.

do you think it'll be okay if i kinda hold her hand half-way during the movies?

or would it be better if i sorta ask her whether she would choose me after the movie by askin her face to face ? thanks for reading my texty thread.