Something happened again... Love... Sianz
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I like a gal who broke up with her BF many months back... coz her BF always likes to threaten her. So a few of us advise her to break up, if not, we are afraid that he might do some dangerous things to her soon. So she break with him and then she cried... etc etc...
These days i suddenly realise i like her, or so i think. Then i nv asked her or tell her this. Coz i'm not to sure myself... but when i heard her telling me she is out with her ex eating, i was kinda jealous a bit... but she kept on saying they will nv patch.... so confusing... -
why do you like her? what do you see in her that attracts you? would you mind if she keeps in contact with her ex when the two of you are together?
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Originally posted by w1nd:I like a gal who broke up with her BF many months back... coz her BF always likes to threaten her. So a few of us advise her to break up, if not, we are afraid that he might do some dangerous things to her soon. So she break with him and then she cried... etc etc...
These days i suddenly realise i like her, or so i think. Then i nv asked her or tell her this. Coz i'm not to sure myself... but when i heard her telling me she is out with her ex eating, i was kinda jealous a bit... but she kept on saying they will nv patch.... so confusing...
since her BF is such a jerk, you should shield her from his influence as a friend..after getting to know each other better..then can decide whether you both should advance. -
Becareful to give yourself in at this point of time.
I think it's a good time for her to sort out certain things in her personal life, otherwise she'll carry emotional baggage along into other r/s. It's very bad for herself.
Also be mindful of how you attribute your situation to Love.
I think it's an infatuation...if things could be talked out and ample times given to her. You may also decide whether if the r/s could advance.
Note: Protect her, don't possess her. The time is not right.
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Hmm....Originally posted by M©+square:Becareful to give yourself in at this point of time.
I think it's a good time for her to sort out certain things in her personal life, otherwise she'll carry emotional baggage along into other r/s. It's very bad for herself.
Also be mindful of how you attribute your situation to Love.
I think it's an infatuation...if things could be talked out and ample times given to her. You may also decide whether if the r/s could advance. Note: Protect her, don't possess her. The time is not right.
Cheers
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........Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm.... 
why ah? -
They said what don't kill you would probably make you stronger in a way...Originally posted by M©+square:........
why ah?
I guess it's quite true...? -
Originally posted by w1nd:I like a gal who broke up with her BF many months back... coz her BF always likes to threaten her. So a few of us advise her to break up, if not, we are afraid that he might do some dangerous things to her soon. So she break with him and then she cried... etc etc...
These days i suddenly realise i like her, or so i think. Then i nv asked her or tell her this. Coz i'm not to sure myself... but when i heard her telling me she is out with her ex eating, i was kinda jealous a bit... but she kept on saying they will nv patch.... so confusing... Have it ever occur that you that your advice could be partially blinded by the fact that you have a teeny weeny feeling for her?
Probably yes you and your group of friends are right about her bf being a jerk - the thing is that its people's love life. Advice given is not promise taken. I have a word of warning for you: Avoid tangling yourself with her in the name of love for now. Things are getting confusing whenever new discovery of feelings enters into the picture.
You are neither her bf, therefore jealousy part is unneccessary. People do what they want, its difficult to control or even to stand on your belief from their words.
Cheers