I;m in a dilema....that comes with a few problems
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Double timing is never a good time. Even if you do not have feelings for your current gf, it is your responsibility to end your relationship with her before even trying to start a new. Actually, do you really want to break up with your gf in the first place. If you manage to date this "new" gal, and THEN you break with your gf, what will you do if you regret your decision? Break with the "new" gal and go back? Advice : NEVER DOUBLE TIME. Even if you break up, don't get into a new relation too soon.
Anyway, from what I read, you are not actually asking advice but rather someone to agree with you that you should just start this new relationship. Do really think about it serious and not just let your heart lead you. -
I'm actually quite surprised some of the guys here actually can feel what I'm trying to express here. Anyway....I have thought about it and that from the way I see things go....it won't last long one...this is juz the begining after a long time of lost contact. I juz go with the flow lo and time will show me the answer. I still love my gf and I cherish this time spent recently with this girl. Whatever it is....this is a beautiful dream...................
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Yesterday...I did what I finally did....ending one memory of mine...sort of. I told her everything....
but before that have asked her a few question before finally told her that I have gf.....cox initially I didn't said anything bout having a ger nor denying the fact that I have one. In the end...she told me she was abit embarressed that she thought I have a liking in her....but the truth is...I do...that is in the past...and I really cherish the few moments that I have recently will the meetup....sigh.............all I can say...I'm late sort of.. -
I so agree with u here! 5~Originally posted by skeujin:Lust is always being confused for love....
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It's always so ironic.....here I'm facing two girl...
One being my gf (A)....the other I used to like (B)........
If I were to go for B...
Negative Secenrio:
there's no guarantee of a new relationship...she may leave me after a few months or may not...or perhaps leave me with a greater regret....though with sweet memories bought from the past...but with bitterness that waits upon me..........for I gave up A for B
Positive Secenrio:
I'm very happy that I have make a bold decision and that I'm really happy to be with her....
If I were to go for A
I have to give up B.....an aching heart will be felt....and I could continue my journey with A....with regrets in the beginning for which I cannot accept.....but maybe time will heal it.....
Really....I couldn't really think quite well now.....though it's easy for ya guys to give your opinions...but if this were to happen to U....what would U do.....it's a pain..agony....regret....no one could understand fully...... -
My dear friend, when it comes to matters of the heart. Never assume that people don't understand.Originally posted by sonic_seed:It's always so ironic.....here I'm facing two girl...
One being my gf (A)....the other I used to like (B)........
If I were to go for B...
Negative Secenrio:
there's no guarantee of a new relationship...she may leave me after a few months or may not...or perhaps leave me with a greater regret....though with sweet memories bought from the past...but with bitterness that waits upon me..........for I gave up A for B
Positive Secenrio:
I'm very happy that I have make a bold decision and that I'm really happy to be with her....
If I were to go for A
I have to give up B.....an aching heart will be felt....and I could continue my journey with A....with regrets in the beginning for which I cannot accept.....but maybe time will heal it.....
Really....I couldn't really think quite well now.....though it's easy for ya guys to give your opinions...but if this were to happen to U....what would U do.....it's a pain..agony....regret....no one could understand fully......
There are many people who have been thru things you may not have thought you could have gone thru.
I have been thru that experience. the dilema....B was a great girl, dream girl. A Nurse(my fav) and a part time ballet dancer. She fufills every single expectations i have for a girlfriend. Moreover she wanted to be together.....however. It all ended. Cos i chose A. Now A also ended.
It's a passing phrase in life. More importantly, how old are you? You must be quite young....more experiences and exciting rides to come. Enjoy!
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Originally posted by M©+square:My dear friend, when it comes to matters of the heart. Never assume that people don't understand.
There are many people who have been thru things you may not have thought you could have gone thru.
I have been thru that experience. the dilema....B was a great girl, dream girl. A Nurse(my fav) and a part time ballet dancer. She fufills every single expectations i have for a girlfriend. Moreover she wanted to be together.....however. It all ended. Cos i chose A. Now A also ended.
It's a passing phrase in life. More importantly, how old are you? You must be quite young....more experiences and exciting rides to come. Enjoy! 
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I thought you've made quite a good decision here? Referring to the post you've made right after this one... Don't think too much about things especially after a sound decision has been made... Usually in this world, there's no such thing as a 'perfect solution'... There're bound to be 'loop holes' to the decision you make, here and there... The more you think of how it COULD have been if you made the other choices, you more you might regret your current choice... The fact is you'll never know if things would have been worse if you choose to go the other path(s).... The possibility is quite endless usually, so quit wasting your time on such...?Originally posted by sonic_seed:Yesterday...I did what I finally did....ending one memory of mine...sort of. I told her everything....
but before that have asked her a few question before finally told her that I have gf.....cox initially I didn't said anything bout having a ger nor denying the fact that I have one. In the end...she told me she was abit embarressed that she thought I have a liking in her....but the truth is...I do...that is in the past...and I really cherish the few moments that I have recently will the meetup....sigh.............all I can say...I'm late sort of.. -
so did she like you too?Originally posted by sonic_seed:Yesterday...I did what I finally did....ending one memory of mine...sort of. I told her everything....
but before that have asked her a few question before finally told her that I have gf.....cox initially I didn't said anything bout having a ger nor denying the fact that I have one. In the end...she told me she was abit embarressed that she thought I have a liking in her....but the truth is...I do...that is in the past...and I really cherish the few moments that I have recently will the meetup....sigh.............all I can say...I'm late sort of.. -
Well....end of the day when I send her home...she chuckle and told me...should'nt have so late told her....n that she was embarressed in thinking that I like her....and she give a pat on my helmet....but the fact is correct lo....well I wouldn't be surprised if she had this thought in thinking I liked her cox I try to ask her out for dinner when talk over the phone this n that..after so many years....so..........sigh.....................................................................................................................................................................................
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so can I say dat she likes u 2 cos she has impression dat u like her..Originally posted by sonic_seed:Well....end of the day when I send her home...she chuckle and told me...should'nt have so late told her....n that she was embarressed in thinking that I like her....and she give a pat on my helmet....but the fact is correct lo....well I wouldn't be surprised if she had this thought in thinking I liked her cox I try to ask her out for dinner when talk over the phone this n that..after so many years....so..........sigh.....................................................................................................................................................................................