how to define hurt?
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hmmm wad should u do when ur girlfriend is hurt by u yet she doesnt tell u..for fear it will hurt u too...but she forgets about the incident...
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well... my advice is never leave issues like this unattended...especially when she is important to you....
Take some time to have a heart to heart talk with her...and try to understand the problem and work together to resolve the issue. Let her know that you'd be there for her and that you care...(very important.. make her feel loved & show your sincerity)
I m sure she'd open up to you
Wish you all the best -
Realitybites is right, u shouldn't keep this unattended.
Women have the tendency to be more open about their feelings than guys. U only need to ask and show her that ur sensitive to what she feels. Women can sometimes be silly creatures. 
They tend to tell u she isn't mad but she is SHOWING u that there's something wrong.
Men can sometimes be insensitive. Perhaps because they don't fuss about small things (like women do! ). If u noticed that she is acting "abnormally" then it won't hurt to ask. Believe me, she will likely open up. U have to talk about it to find better solutions to it.
I hope it helps!
God bless! -
Originally posted by oceanboi21:hmmm wad should u do when ur girlfriend is hurt by u yet she doesnt tell u..for fear it will hurt u too...but she forgets about the incident...
She won't forget about the incident - she merely put it at the back of the head. Every now and then, this issue will surface again.
Like what the previous poster had post - don't leave it. Bring it up, communicate honestly and sincerely and solve it both together. Not only build up the relationship and make it stronger - it create a good habit on problem solving as a couple. (Something fringin` important)
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As a sinister child of darkness, I believe I am well qualified to define hurt for you, I know what it feels. Hurt is when you feel that your heart and feelings are cut by, you feel cold in your chest and back. You feel stunned and cannot breath sometimes when deeply hurt, these are the initial stages of it. As time proceeds, the hurt will become normal to you as you get used to its degree, the hurt will manifest as fear, the fear will lead to moroseness and isolation from others because of fear or being hurt again. Eventually you will become a castaway, like I was. As for getting to my level of evilness, that is another story, i have just defined hurt.
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hurt is when u fall on the chainsaw i left running on the floor...
or when i use it to rip my own head off...... -
It is when some one important to me leave me for no reasons... Really sad..... 3 best frenz left me liao.. i am really afraid that i will lose another one.. I am really scared..
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hurt is an overwhelming sad emotion drowns you, the actual feeling of tearing of your heart like glass stabbing into you. *seriously hurts.*
